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Lately I've been thinking I'm depressed and I've been very unexpected with my moods. I was talking to my boyfriend either and this is what was said:
Me: I don't understand myself sometimes..
Him: honestly, i dont understand you sometimes either
Allowing myself to say it and then hear him say it feels so different. It hit me hard when he said that. Would anyone else be not offeneded, but confused if your boyfriend said that to you? It hurts so much more hearing it from him rather than myself... (link)
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that 5 things:
1. relax, everyone has this 'self-understanding' crisis..
2. he was just being a guy..sometimes guys say stuff without thinking..
3. likewise, you are just being a girl..sometimes girls take stuff too seriously..
4. don't worry, that 'understanding' will come as you grow..it has got something to do with hormones i think..
5. honestly, do you understand him? i mean, really?
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My boyfriend just broke up with me because he said' " i dont think it will work because, you know im going into to high school & your still in middle school" because im in 8th grade and hes in 9th. Plus insead of me being in his profile now its about another girl. and im really reallly sad because i think hes cheating on me. is there anything i can do to make me feel better :( thanks. xoxo (link)
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that 5 things:
1) hey, they are a lot more guys who are better than your ex.
2)he was just finding the reason to break-up.probably he didn't really love you (sorry..)
3)high school girls are not as beautiful as some have heard(obviously your ex fell for that thus the break-up...)
4)accept life as it unfolds, you'll feel better..
5)you know what they say, one door closes, a new one opens up..you'll have your time, be patient.
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