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Q: What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday (he'll be 16)? I know what he likes, but he's already got a billion of those things already. I wanted it to be different and unique. My friend had the idea of getting him like a build-a-bear that i make with a birthday outfit and stuff. Does that sound totally cheesy or is it a cute idea? I wasn't sure.. But if you have any other good ideas, please help me!
That's a cute idea!

You could also make a scrapbook with pictures of you two and your friends.

Good luck!

Q: im a fourteen year old gurl. i have alot of freinds but ive never had a boyfreind and i think its becuase of my weight i dont understand why guys dont like me just becuase of that one thing im a good person and really does hurt. what should i do to help me?
First of all, its not because of your weight. You're not fat, you're beautiful.

Don't worry about finding a boyfriend so soon. You're young and have the rest of your life to love.

Try loving yourself some more. Its hard for a guy to like you if you don't like yourself.

Or try showing the guy you like (or just guys in general) what a good person you are.

Be confident and optimistic. It'll all work itself out in the end.

Q: I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Usually it doesn't really bother me but I've seen so many couples who are younger than me and it makes me feel so sad and worthless. I'm ugly and shy and boring so I suppose no boy will ever want to go out with me, and even if a miracle happened and I did get one, I wouldn't really know what to do or what to say =\ People think I'm weird because I've never kissed a boy or even been out with one, I feel so different and frigid =[ I guess I was made to be single but I just want to know what it feels like to be loved.. How am I ever gonna get a boyfriend when I look like I do and I'm as shy as I am? I like this boy at school but he doesn't really like my friends because they're so immature, so he most likely thinks I'm like them and hates me too - I'm not as immature as them though.. Please help? Thanks xx
I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend either. Don't worry about it. You're just to good for all those boys at your school. You definitely aren't weird. You'll find a great guy someday and you'll see that it was worth it waiting to find him.

Try talking to the boy you like. Show him you aren't like your friends. And if he still doesn't like you, its his loss.

Good luck!

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My name's Caitlin. I'm 14. I go to St Mary's. School sucks, but I love my friends there. I'm gonna miss 'em all after graduation. Hopefully most of us are going to SMH next year!!

I'll try to give you the best advice I can. Feedback is always welcome!!

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