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Q: i really like this guy. hes really cute and hes SOOO funny. but people r always calling him fat. hes NOT fat at all so its really weird. hes really cute and his personality rocks. i dont want ppl saying shit about him tho. what should i do?

you should stick up for him when people make fun of him.. its not nice that they make fun of him if he is or isnt fat or whatever.. if i were you i would DEFF. stick up for him no matter what.. no one talks about my friends like that :) haha.. well i hope i helped
--> Danielle

Q: see i dated this guy that we'll call david and it didnt work out.... but now he always smiles at me in the hallways and i always get chills in my stomach and i like run out of breath should i tell him how i feel?

yes i think you should deff tell him how you feel.. maybe he feels the same way about you.. but just bcuz he smiles at you in the halls doesnt mean he likes you.. it could just mean hes saying hi with a smile or just being friendly.. but still i think you should tell him :) .. good luck i hope i helped you
--> Danielle

Q: hey ummm there's this guy and i liked him and mah friend asked him if liked me 2 but that was like 2 weeks ago and now i dunno if he still likes me wat should i do??i rate!!

i think you should go and talk to him about it and see what he says.. remember its not the end of the world if he doesnt like you lol.. good luck i hope i helped you
-->Danielle

Q: ok whenever i ask a chica if she will go out with me she always says no well not no but we are really good friends the uasual thing, and i havn't asked out a girl in a while and i am afraid to get hurt again, my life seems pretty good so far, but there is this one chica that i like but i am afraid to get hurt, so here it is

how do i get her to like me and for once in my life be able to feel the love that most people feel and get a yes from her.

thnx to all

i think you should just be yourself around her.. hang out with her alot.. call her and talk to her online if you have a sn... and just becomes real close with her.. and then start hinting out that you like her maybe give her huggs and stuff? i guess lol.. and then just one day tell her you like her and ask her out.. and if she says no.. dont worry about it theres lots of girls out there that im sure you start to like.. good luck.. hope i helped you :)
-->> Danielle

Q: What should I do? Me and my best friend let's call him Harry, are no longer friends, because I have a big jealousy issue, I hooked him up with my friend, while liking him. So it bothers me when they are together and I can't stand being around him knowing he's not mine. So I have been mean to him alot, and as a result of that, we no longer friends cause I kinda blew up at him with all my fustration and stuff, cause it was all built up inside... but now I feel bad know that our friendship ended up on bad note, and now I feel like we'll never be friends again. What should I do?

I was JUST in a situation like that like.. a few weeks ago.. it was horrible i did the same thing you did with hooking your best friend up with someone and you liked them or w.e .. but this is what i did.. i talked to the person i got in a fight with over the ( guy ) or girl which ever one your in a fight with.. anyways.. i talked it out with them and i just explained to them how i was really hurt about them hooking up and everything and i apoligized about the things i said and i asked if we could just forget about the whole thing and not fight anymore... thats what i did and it worked bcuz now all of us are real close.. try that maybe it will work for you.. good luck.. hope i helped you..
-->> Danielle

Q: OK...uhmm i have this guy that i really, really like and he treats me like a princess and like im the most precious thing in the whole entire world! but the thing is...my dad doesnt like him b/c he herd sumthing about him and now he has that assumption about him. I REALLY REALLY wanna go out with him and go to our skewls formal but i feel like i cant go bhind my dad and what he says...what should i do? please help me!! thanx!

well maybe you should talk to your dad about whatever he heard about this guy.. and tell him how you really like him and wana go to the formal with him or w.e.. maybe your dad will consider you going out with him or to the formal and maybe he will change the way he thinks about this guy when you talk to him.. hope i helped.. and have fun at the formal !
-->> Danielle

Q: i saw my first love at a football game and i think i might still have something for him. he always wants to see me and hook up but the hook up thing stops me from seeing him. 2 of my best friends like him, one obsessed and the other is a hook up girl. me and him have liked each other on and off for about 5 years but i want to be with him again.. what should i do?

i think you should tell him how you feel about him.. maybe he feels the same way about you.. dont worry about thoes other girls you never know how he feels about them.. you should just go for it.. and if it doesnt work out... dont worry theres always other guys out there ! hope i helped !
-->> Danielle

Q: If u liked a guy so much that u were in love with him, but then u haven't seen or said anything to him in a few months, would u even take a chance to try and make it work? (o and by the way he kinda liked me too the last time i talked to him and stuff).

i would DEFFENTLY go and take a chance if i liked him that much.. just try and start talking to him again and chill and stuff.. then maybe you two will hook up :) ... hope i helped you > Danielle

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Im tugging at my hair Im pulling at my clothes
Im trying to keep my cool I know it shows
Im staring at my feet My checks are turning red
Im searching for the words inside my head
Cause Im feeling nervous Trying to be so perfect
Cause I know youre worth it Youre worth it Yeah
If I could say what I want to say I'd say I wanna blow you...
away Be with you every night Am I squeezing you too tight
If I could say what I want to see I want to see you go down On one knee
Marry me today Yes, Im wishing my life away
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be someones reason for waking up . someones
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