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Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.

what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.

What are some sweet things I can do?

BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!

-thanks a million!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

-Kelsee-

It's not against the rules to hug another guy unless oyu have feelings for them.. i hug my guy friends all the time and my boyfriend doesn't care because he's knows how much i care for him. Tell your guy you're sorry and he should understand. Try taking him out somewhere and pay for it all. Do things everyday that let him know that he is the only guy that you really care about. hope that helped!

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Okay. I have make-out before but for some werid reason I am scared to make-out with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i made out with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!

and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out?

If it's meant to be, it will always work out! i know how you feel, i've been scared like that before too. First of all don't stress about it. the more you think about it, the more nervous you'll get. Everyone kisses differently. People kiss the way they want to be kissed. Try to follow his lead but also use your own technique as well. Don't be afraid, just do it! If he really cares for you, you shuldn't be worried about waht he'll think. i hope i helped some!

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okay so i started liking this guy who moved back from cali and he knows and everything, i think he likes me back but im on 25% sure he does. what can i do to get his attention more and find out if he likes me...asap!

ill rate 5 no matter what but it has to be serious

Guys love it when you act like your interested instead of keeping it a secret.. invite him places with you and your friends or out to dinner.. get to know him better and when you're more comfortable talking to him, tell him how you feel. Don't be afraid. If he ends up not liking you back, then at least you tried! Good Luck!

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