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ive tried asking him to give me a chance to talk things out. but he keeps saying "its not the time to". i dont know if this means that he completelty wants to forget about me or what.
it makes me so sad. and he is all i can think about now. i just want everything back to normal but i really dont know how to fix it (link)
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i'd give him a little space for a while, give him like two weeks before you try and talk to him again. if you see him make sure you smile and wave, just act cool and casual, like you feel fine but you still want to be friends. if you act friendly around him he'll eventually realize how much he misses you.
you may want to drop the subject all together, in about two weeks when you call him ask him how he's been, what he's been up to, ask him to go to a movie with you or something. try to make it right by letting the past go, i guess is what i'm trying to say.
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recently me and my good guy friend have stopped talking completly.
its only been 3 days, and it seems like a decade. i cant stop thinking about him. [we used to talk every single day for 4 years] so its normal to miss him right?
he has told me that he wants to be more than friends plenty of times, but i always tell him i want to stay friends. we have kissed before, but thats it. other than that we cuddled a lot. i feel really safe in his arms.
and now that we dont talk i feel like somethings missing.
i dont know what to do. i dont want to be the first one to call or text, bc this ended bc he wanted it to. he called it a "pointless friendship" and i dont really understand why.
since hes liked me the whole time we have known each other do you think he will be the first one to break and call me first? i cant stop thinking about him, and i wonder if hes thinking about me.
any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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since you obviously care a great deal about him, you shouldn't feel bad about calling first, and you should call. it's more personal.
it's obvious that he really cared about you too. he may have thought that you were leading him on by cuddling and kissing and not wanting to go out with him, though. his feelings were probably hurt, he might have felt used. regardless of whether or not this was your intention, that might be how it was recieved.
he probably is thinking about you, but right now he wants to get over you because he might feel like the relationship was one-sided. call him and tell him how you feel, ask him to explain how he feels. talk it out.
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Well my boyfriend lives in California and I live in Virginia but we always visit each other during breaks. So since we're both on breaks we can see each other. I want to satisfy him in every way possible. But it just seems like he ALWAYS wants to touch,kiss,and sex me. And thats alright if it was just a couple of times of day. But we on average have sex about 5 times a day. When we're in public, he'll just put his hands down my shirt or lifts up my skirt and feels on my butt. At first it turned me on but now its just kind of annoying. I know he does it because he's been missing the affection for all of those months. I don't know what I should say to let him know that i want us to be less physical. (link)
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i had the same problem with my boyfriend, he'd just randomly squeeze me like he couldn't help himself. you have to remember that guys are really simple creatures and they're not going to understand how you're feeling unless you're blunt and up front about it. that doesn't mean you have to be mean. sit down with him in private, hold his hands if you're worried about them wandering while you're talking and look directly into his eyes. have a firm tone of voice but try not to sounds angry. all you really want to do is tell him that you're a human being, not a toy.
tell him that you love him and want your relationship to be something more than just physical interaction. make him feel good about himself while you're talking to him, throw in what a nice, charming guy he is and how great he is in bed if you want to. say that he's a wonerful guy but the PDA is just a little too much.
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I'm 20 years old. Female. I've been with my man for about 4 months and I definately feel that I'm head over heels in love with him when it's just the two of us but when I'm around other guys I start thinking about dating other people. How come one minuet I feel like I could marry my love but then another minuet I think about wandering to other guys? (link)
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I can relate. It's just that feeling where you know there are a lot of special guys in your life. All it takes is some quick thinking. I was about to dump my boyfriend for another guy friend but then all you really have to do is think quickley "How will this affect me, how will this affect my guy, how will this affect the guy I think I might want to date." And then it all comes together. I know this might make very little sense, and I appoligize. I hope I helped somewhat.
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