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I'm a southern Asian girl. I have been through a lot in my life. I don't think that I know everything about life, but I like to help people. I might be able to relate to their pain and find a way to help them. I'd like to help with anything from friends to depression. I don't judge people, you can believe me when i say that or not. Don't be shy to ask me questions. I'd be gladly to help. I'm talkative and very outgoing. I hate gossips. I love to be in touch with different people. I don't have high tolerance for bad attitude or any kind of sexual behavior. If there's anything you'd like to know, just message me (:
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Age: 14
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So, me and this guy have been talking for quite awhile now. We hang out and act just like couples do. The problem is, he never texts me. Sometimes we go all day without texting and it urks me so bad! I text him and he will write back maybe once or twice and thats it, unless he askes me to hang out.I just hate how he dosent text me that much. I know we don't have to talk 24/7 but i dont wanna go all day without talking to him. Ive mentioned it to him 3 times and all he says is "im sorry." I really really like him but i dont know what to do. :/ Help! Should i text him first, not text until he texts me or what? (link)
I understand where you're coming from. It happened to me too.
But what you must ask yourself first is: Is he a shy person? Because if he is then he's probably doesn't want you to think that he's being too clingy by texting you too much.
What would be the best thing to do is talk to him about it. Not just tell him that it hurts. Ask him if it bothers him to talk to you or what is on his mind. Just ask him to pour his heart out to you. I know guys don't like to talk about their feelings but if he loves you then he should be able to tell you exactly what is wrong.
But also there could be a possibility that his texts never made it to your phone. It happened sometimes with the network. I'm not sure but Talking is the best cure.




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