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so there is this boy in the year above me in school who i really like sometimes i say ''hey'' on msn and the usuall stuff but he never says anything after ''yeh in good thanks you ?'' and when he see's me around school he always looks at me but i dont no if he is looking at me like he likes me or he just thinks im strange or what but today i walked past him and he was sat talking to some girls in my year but the girls are them type of girls who allways look good and as some people call then the year slags but when he sat with them he looked liked he was having loads of fun an tbh it broke my heart and he is not even going out with me what shall i do :/ (link)
hey girlie. Id try talking to him...IN PERSON! If you see him by himself, go up to him and ask him whats up. Ask him bout that wacky teacher everyone hates (; Just try making conversation. And the more he gets to know you, the more he will talk to you on the computer too!! good luck chica :D


me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years, this will be the second birthday of his that we will be together for. Last year i bought him a pre-made shirt with our names, a chain, a picture frame, and a few things for his x-box 360. he is turning 17. he is not into sports or anything major like concerts. i want to get him something amazing and he really isnt into the whole romantic type deal. i have til june. (link)
You could make him like a homemade poem about him. It seems kinda girlie but guys really do like homemade things. Anything from you he will love bc ur his love!

good luck sweetie =]


i'm 16 years old, almost 17 in about 3 months, and i've never had a real boyfriend or been kissed.
yeah :\
SO. there's this kid i like. and last year in school (sophomore year) we had one class together but i NEVER talked to him. so this year, thankfully, i have a 2nd chance, and we have history together! and even better, i sit RIGHT next to him. problem: i don't know what to say to him. AND i have like no chance to talk to him in that class because my teacher is kind of scary and talks the whole time and gives us notes.

what should i say to him? i'm pretty shy at first, so i have no clue how to start a conversation with him. there's just nothing to really talk about? i was thinking of dropping my pen (i know, lame) and hoping he'd pick it up so i can at least say SOMETHING to him, but i haven't done that yet. also, i think i'm joining ski club, and he does it! so i guess that will be something to talk about. there was a meeting last week, and he was there. so i could say something like ohh i didn't know you did ski club. but... would that be weird? idk, i should stop caring what he will think. but ahh it just seems so weird to randomly say something to him out of nowhere!

ugh plus there's this girl who apparently has a boyfriend in another school, and i always see the guy i like and her together. i think he likes her, but wtff she has a boyfriend. so whatever, i need to step up my game :]

there's also these 2 girls that sit right near where i sit, and sometimes they talk to him, so i guess i'll somehow have to get in their conversations..and yeah i don't know. it just sucks because all we do in that class is sit there in silence and listen to my teacher lecture on anyway. what do i do/ say!?!? (link)
Well you could say something about the teacher!! When your walking out of class catch up to him and say "wow, our teacher gives me the creeps! how about you?" and a whole cute funny convo may start. If you cant catch him after class then during class you could say "what was yesterdays hw? im not sure if i did the right thing? (you can say this even if you know!). OR if you r doing a sheet just be like hey, do you understand this cause i dont..and then he could explain it 2 u!! so these r some ways to start convos and after that he might think ur great and try to talk to you more! if u need more advice just ask!

-smiles =D


i was daing this girl and she siad that she did not have time for me that we just had to put this on hold and i told her that i didn't have time for her 2 but i was going to make time for her bec. i liked her so much.
But i do not know i like this girl so much i did not want to let her GO! I don't know what to do? Im so lost!? (link)
Hey dude! Im a girl and if you like her so much tell her how you feel! Maybe you two can set aside a time where you two can be together without interfering with your busy schedules! If my boyfriend felt this way i would want him to tell me! If you have any other questions just ask me!


me and my boyfriend have been dating a month and like two weeks. he always tells me he likes me soo much and he gets jealous easily when im with my guy friends so i know he likes me. im his first girlfriend soo yea i know he cares. well we joke around with eachother alot like sometimes we are mean joking and sometimes we're playful so i cant really tell when hes kidding or not...but anyway, like a week ago he was like i made out with a girl she was hott. im like ohh thats cute and i thought he was kidding and all this stuff..and we didnt talk about it..but then today on the bus my friend blake (who sometimtes jokes around too) told me that tyler(my boyfriend) made out with this chick like a week ago. and i remembered tyler telling me he did. but i thought he was kidding? soo whats going on? what should i do..are they messing with me or what. i have no idea.. (link)
Ask Tyler if he is telling the truth? Say you know you told me that you made out with this girl and were you kidding or were you telling me the truth? If he says I was telling the truth, tell him that if you dont really care about me then we shouldnt see eachother anymore. You should also ask him why are you jealous if i talk to one of my guy friends and you feel its ok to make out with another girl? If I were you if he was telling the truth i would just break up with him.


My subject is my question I really like this guy at school and I think he likes me but how do i tell for sure? I'm no aloud to date till grade ten anyways but i think it would be reasuring to know anyways.Oh and i'm a girl, age 13. (link)
A guy likes you if he does the following:

1. Always looking at you in class and in the hall
2. When you talk to eachother he never really knows what to say.
3. Smiles at you
4. Looks like he is nervous when he is around you

If you really not sure to the answers of any of the following then wait for one of his friends to tell you that he likes you. But dont ask him if he likes you cause he will probably feel uncomfortable and say no. So pleeze rate me and leave a comment! I hope my advice helped!!

-Smileygirl513


I'm 15/f, he's 16/m

I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now... well by Christmas that will be 7 months. I have random little ideas for a gift for him, like based off of inside jokes we have and stuff. I'm not really into generic gifts, like chocolate etc... The problem is just that, though - all the gift ideas I have are LITTLE. I don't think they would really amount to anything, I've only thought of a few. Is there a way I can tie small gifts and a bigger gift together in a way that they would make a good gift? And what can that big gift be? I want to make him happy with this but I have such trouble being creative. (link)
If I were you I would get him a really nice card and get him his favorite candy. If you dont like that Idea then try to get clues to see how big of a gift he is getting you the figure it out that way.Well please comment and rate me!!c ya!!Thanks!!


Okay, well last year I liked a guy. [let's name him bob] And well, last year he got into drugs. So, i kind of still liked him, but I also liked other guys. And when school started this year, I kind of still liked him. Well, i'm a sophomore, and I met this freshmen. [let's name him zack] well, i basically see zack most of the time when i'm at school. his locker is right next to mine. i'm always late, and so is he. so i always see him. during break, i see him. i have him for fourth period. i see him during lunch. and i even see him during passing periods. I can admit I like him. but recently i've noticed that he is exactly like Bob before the drugs. and i'm not sure if I like Zack for who he is, or I like him because of Bob. I am confused. I kind of still like Bob, but I like Zack too. I'm so confused, what should I do? Any advice? THANKS IN ADVANCE (link)
That Bob went on drugs he is soo going to change so I wouldnt want to be with him. I would go out with zack cause he is a nice guy and isnt on drugs and will stay that way unless if he goes on drugs. NEVER go out with or even like a guy who is on DRUGS!!!!! Like zack not bob. PLEASE take my advice!!


My boyfriend is getting me really mad, becauze me him and a couple of frendz are supposed to go to a teen club on saturday, and when i told him about it he sed " oh im gunna go wiht my ex girlfriend " now im not gonna hav a fun time and im gunna worry about them, he mite even ignore me that nite. what should i do, and i need advice quik because saturday is coming up and i need to know wuht to do ahead of time, thanx (link)
Your boyfriend is cheating on you!! DUH!! If he really liked you he would want you to go with him! Dump him or say I dont feel comfortable with you going with your ex and also ask if you really liked me, why didnt you ask me to go with you!! I hope my advice helped!!


Okay, i know this is going to sound really comceted, but theres this guy in my school, who really likes me! But i dont like him, and he follows me everywhere, and keeps asking me on dates and stuff, and me being a softie, make up an excuse! Then he asks again and again! But i really don t like him, and all my friends say that im all he talks about, and that he likes me! Hes always coming to my locker to hug me, and puts his arm around me, and i like this other guy and the other guy thinks that i like him and i DONT! its really frustrating! I need advice!
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Tell him the truth!! Dont keep on making up excuses cause then he will just think that you are relly busy! Just say no I dont want to go out with you, I just want to be friends. (In a nice way.) If you say that then atleast you can just be friends. Now that you got him off your back go flirt with the guy you really like! GOOD LUCK!!
If you ever have any more questions just reach me!


hey there okay heres the thing I got talkin to this guy on Bebo and we were writing to each other every nite and stuff which was gd but then he asked for my msn so I gave it him knowin that wed get bored of each other anyway.
So after wed been talkin for like two weeks I posted a pic a me and he was like whos that I said me He said are you gonna change ur profile pic on bebo as well I said why dnt u want me to??
he said is that a trick q I said explain and he hurted me big style by sayin that he had learned not to say anythin bout a gals looks which i logged off at leadin to him basically blaming me sayin that I was over reactin and that he didnt wanna talk any more!!
wot do I do I cant get him outta ma mind still and this was weeks ago do I block him or simply js delete my bebo page it is when on this I think of him !!
help!!
xx (link)
Just delete him!!! You dont need him in your life!! There are better guys out there for you! Meet a guy at your school! ( That would be much easier!) I hope my advice helped! If you ever have any other questions just reach me! SeE yAh!


hey. i really like this guy. so i texted him and said "i have something to tell you. i like you."
and he said "i thought you liked this other kid" and i said "no. thats before i started hanging out with you and that guys a real jerk."
and he goes "yeah he is"
and i go "is that okay that i like you?"
and he said "ya"
and i said "is there any chance anything could happen?"
and he said "maybe. ill talk to you tomorrow."
and i said "alright. night"
and he said "cya"


what does this mean?
does he like me?
does he not?
does he need time to think?
and the other thing is, he never texts people he just answers texts... this happened at like 11 oclock on saterday... what time do you think it would be ok to text him on sunday if he hasnt texted me? what should i say?
OHHH PLEASEE HELLPPPPPPPP! (link)
I think he likes you because if he didnt like you he probably text like yuck! or something like that. And also he wants to talk to you again so ya. Well I hope my advice helped!




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