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what up y'all? i'm steven lopez, from STL, and i'm awesome. jk. i'm 6'2", 195 lbs., brown hair, hazel eyes, athletic body, 6-pack abs, nice chest, working on the arms. i'm in Air Force ROTC. just started that this year and it's amazing. good times. HUA. if u wanna know anything else, do what u gotta do. i don't know what u gotta do cuz i'm new to this site. good-day.
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Age: 18
Yahoo: slopez_87
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well..this is how it goes:(sorry if longg)
i am (15/f) and i am possibly in love with 1 of my good friends (18/m). one day, we were in his basement and we started to dance together..(nothing unusual) but this time he put on a slow song..CRAZY by KC & J0J0..he asked me to dance with him to that song..and of course..i said yes..so we started dancing together..and in the middle of the song,i looked into his eyes..and he looked into mine..and yes..we kissed..we stopped dancing..and i turned off his stereo..and was about to walk up the stairs to leave..I WAS IN TOTAL SHOCK..and he grabbed my hand..then picked me up and he kissed me..we were making out for about another 2 hours..and then he drove me home..the next day at skool..((me--sophmore..him--senior)) we were on the back stairs of the skool and he asked me if i wanted to skip with him and i said okay..we skipped skool and went to his house...we went into his bedroom and we were kissing..then thingsz started gettin hot and he reached under my shirt and started unclipping my bra. I let him do that..then he started rubbin my boobs..i let him do that too..i started unzipping his pantsz and yeh..it happend..we had sex..now we go out and we have been for 6 months..the thing is now..his ex-gf keeps calling him and he talks to her..

my question is:
am i losing my man as well as my bestfriend?


sincerely,
confusedddddd (link)
i doubt it. as long as you give him what he wants, he will probaly stay with you. and since he made the first move, he wants you. so, i would say no, let him talk to her.


my crush asked me to the halloween dance today. I accepted, but now im petrified. Im just really scared. WHAT IF EVERYTHING GOES WRONG... i dont know... what if ... geez, right now im freaked enough to believe that aliens can ruin this dance. i want everything to be perfect, but even still, in the mean time, how can i get rid of this... dance phobia thing ;) (link)
GET REALLY DRUNK!!! right before the party, get drunk ass tipsy. jk. don't do that. just do it. everyone else is pretty right, if he asked you, then he wants you. about dancing, a lot of guys don't dance, or know how to dance. if they do dance, it's usually ugly. just shake your ass and tits, and he will completely enjoy it. he won't be able to look away.


Recently me(14f) and my boyfriend(15m) broke up. We had plans to go to homecoming together, and everything so now that we are broken up I pretty much have NO date for homecoming, I do know a few people that like me... But I don't think any of them would want to go to homecoming on such short notice, but my friend wants me to go with their (her and her boyfriend) group of people including his extremely hot single brother, that thinks i am "Beautifully Stunning" so do i just see if he wants to go with me or sit this homecoming out? Please help xo (link)
DON'T SIT IT OUT. ASK THE HOT BROTHER. if he says that ur beautifully stunning, he wants u. either as a girlfriend or for a piece of ass, but either way, he wants u.


hey I apologise if this is long :(
so i've got a feeling that some one i know is going to get with me on the freshers party! yay :D
I fancy him lots and i think he fancies me too!
But I want to know how I make him want me so much it hurts. Don't say all the usual stuff about if he likes you it wont matter lol.
I just want to make him feel like there's nothing to do apart from be with me.
So this party x & y are going out and z is the one i fancy lol.
so I want to turn up to this party looking drop dead gorgeous and i want him to go weak at the knees. Does anyone know a way i can definatley (sp?) make him want me?
any help please i rate 5's for everything unless its offending or un-useful (sp?)
thanks
xoxo (link)
KISS HIM!!! just out of nowhere, go up to him and kiss him, with extra tongue. that is sooo hottt. he'll be like "what the hell?", but then he'll be like, "damn, let's do it again". but DON'T DO IT IN FRONT OF ALL HIS FRIENDS. that could embarass him. when he's kinda alone, do it. trust me, i'm a guy, and if a girl did that to me, i would melt, IN MY PANTS!!!! lol.
buena suerte (good luck-in spanish) let me know how it goes. u can e-mail me at slopez_87@yahoo.com




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