Im from england
Live in Md now
I sing and play guitar
I am totally torn btwn my boyfriend, my friends, and my mum
I am going into my sr. year @ school
I have a brother, mum, and dad and my dog, Oreo
I love giving hugs...
Plan to go to college in Italy for Interior Design and business (as a student from WVU)
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okay so normally i dont really care about these things.
But its happened so often i think its time i do something about this.
Beofore i even get to explaining it i want you to know that breaking up is NOT an option for me.
Whenever im on the phone with my boyfriend and he has his friend or cousins over.
He NEVER talks to me, he just talks to the people hes in the rooom with, and leaves me holding the phone to my ear and looksing stupid.
yesterday, i hung up because it was getting really annoying, and it took him ten minutes to realize i hung up, and only THEN did he call me backk.
Then he just does the same thing over again.
Every now and then he would say
"sorry"
or
"uhh ... hang in a second" and then goof around or talk to the other people in the room for like twenty minutes!
While I, again, am STILL on the line.
Or whenever i would try and get him talking, he would be like "......sorry what?" over and over again.
If your going to call me, TALK TO ME.
I dont know any way else to put it.
It really makes me mad, i think hes trying to impress me with the face that he has an awesome life of laughter and friends.
And i really think thats good, but when my boyfriend calls me, i want to talk to him.
He can goof around later.
Now, i love him very much and hes really sensitive to what i say ...
but this has just got to stop.
He also is different in front of his friends in front of me.
He'll goof around with them, and call me when i even HEAR hes having a good time:
then later on he'll be like
"Ugh (so and so) is so annoying i hate him, i only hang out with his cuz i feel bad"
or something like that
Please give me any solutions? (link)
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My boyfriend does the same thing. I will be on the phone with him to the wee hours of the morning and we might say like ten words to each other. His cousin is always there and they are always messin around. My mum is not very pleased with it but, what i do is say
"hey look, i am not going to hold the telly up to my ear for 3 hours to hear you and your cousin blabbering about who won COD4. If your not going to talk to me than dont waste my time."
Its mean but he always comes back with
"baby, im sorry. and then he normally leaves the room his cousin is in."
Boys need to set their priorities straight, and sometimes the girls dont come first.
I know you said ending the courtship isnt an option, but if he keeps ignoring you and not putting you first, it has to come to an end.
I hope this helps
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