Advice from a college student for high school students who want help from someone who's been to high school, done high school stuff, and... well, to complete the saying, 'got the t-shirt'. Mostly focused on interpersonal stuff, though I'm good for homework help too.
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I don't really like talkin to my mom and or dad about boys or if have a boyfriend i get sord of embarressed that they will make a big deal out of it and i dont really want them too. Any tips on not to be embarressed or nervous??? (link)
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This depends on how old you are. I'd bring it up to your mom, actually, because moms are USUALLY (but some of the time they're not) good sources of dating advice - don't use your mom as the ONLY source of dating advice, but she will most certainly be influential.
So, the age-old question of Boys. Definitely mention this to your parents. I was a little frightened when I brought the subject of my first crush up to my mother, in eighth grade, and even more intimidated by my mother in my junior year of high school when I first mentioned my first (and current) boyfriend, whom I've been dating for over a year and a half now!
Your mom's been there, done that - because she gave birth you, and your father had to factor into the equation there somewhere in order for you to be alive, and the vast majority of the time, children are a result of sex within a loving partnership. She'll understand where you're coming from. It's okay tell her you're a little embarrassed, because she will most likely be able to understand where you're coming from.
Hope this helps.
~Kathy
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