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OK S-beth....
OK ive been going out with this guy for a long long time and I found out hes moving but its still kind of hard to open up all the way to him as i can with other ppl(like other guys) and I dont even want to ask him myself what he thinks we should do scince hes moving and i've just been so confussed latley and dont know what to do PLEASE HELP ME
signed,
scared and confussed (link)
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ahhh i DEFINATELY know who this is.. and yeah i was in that position once too.. (cough cough TREY cough cough).. lol and yeah i thought i really realyl liked him and we talked about long distance stuff adn all that but oooomg theres NO WAY that stuff ever works at this age!.. ever!.. i mean hes gonna move FOREVER away, and ya you will miss eachother, but hes gonan find another girl and your gonna find another guy and its all gonna be good again.. yesssss i admit its hard at first but beleive me you will find someone else and it will get better.. and i mean if your not THAT close in the first place it shouldnt be TOO hard.. i mean i know you have been goin out forever but if your not even close enough to open up and tlak about long distance stuff what makes you think its even gonna work out?! lol well i hope it gets better!.. and i love ya!
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ok sbeth i need ur help.me and this girl went out 4 a long time and i really truly loved her but then she broke up with me out of the blue.since we have broken up i have gotten with a few girls but every girl that i got with made me want her back more and more.i need her,i need her 2 live,i can't eat,i can't sleep,i can't do anything except think about her.i no i am only 14 and we r just kids and stuff like that but i really love her.everynight befor i go 2 sleep i pray that mayb 2 morrow she will start likin me again(i no she never is though...but the slim chance is the only thing holdin on 2 me).its truly killin me,i haven't eatin in 5 days,i haven't got a good nights sleep in 2 months,but i can't eat and i can't sleep no matter how hard i try.i can't keep livin like this,but i can't just stop lovin her.all i want is 4 her and me 2 both b happy.but i don't no how 2 make it happen.
help me please!!!!!
signed,
the general lee (link)
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i know who this is.. and dont give me this shit again.. you should fucking know i would know who this is.. damn you.. why the hell would you even leave this in my advice column.. trying to make me feel bad again?.. yeah well how about you just never talk to me again.. im sorry but i cant put up with you anymore.. all you are doing is making my life hell and i cant handle it anymore.. okay?.. so why dont you fucking go tell someone else about your problems.. cuz obviously I DONT GIVE A SHIT!.. oh yeah.. and FUCK YOU!
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hey sbeth
i recently broke up with my girlfriend becasue she liked another guy, but she still likes me and there is this other girl that could be a possibility. me and this other girl went to the movies the other day and u know how that goes...;) but i don't want to let the other one down "hard", because i have feelings for her too, but more for my X. what should i do??
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sucks for the girl that you went to the movies with.. :/ this has happened to me before, so i think i'll know how to answer this.. alright well the other girl (the one you went to the movies with).. jus tell her the truth, dont keep leading her on if you haev feelings for another girl more.. cuz then when you do break the news to her it would totally crush her.. go for the one you like more.. but be nice and calm about telling the other girl, cuz girls take things kinda hard and you comin off rude to her about it would just make things worse.. wich you dont need.. so yeah just go for the one you like most and try to explain to the other one why you are goin with the decisin you made.. good luck hun!
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hey sb, this is neverletgo2005 again, and i meant that i don't think i 'like him like that' anymore, but im not sure. all i know is taht i want to be friends agan.. but the thing is, he doesn't even talk to me at all anymore. if u need more details im me thanks love ya
-neverletgo2005 (link)
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well.. maybe you both are just scared of rejection.. maybe he feels the same way you do right now.. you cant always depend on the other person to make the moves.. you got to contribute a little yourself.. just real yourself in there and start talkin to him again.. i know it sounds hard but ya gotta do waht ya gotta do.. hehe HAVE FAITH.. hope it works out for ya! ;)
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Hey Sarabeth, say you like this guy ever since march, then then on the last day of october he asks you out (im very patient ;)). you start falling for him, a lot faster than you want to. towards the very end of February, you break up with him, and you say its because ur busy and blah blah blah, but you're just scared (I know its dorky shutup), of love kinda. you've never ever ever dated the same guy for more than 3 months. i don't think i like him like that anymore, but it ruined the friendship. and whether we ever go out again, i dunno, but either way, i miss him. what should i do?
love ya!! ;)
-Neverletgo2005 (link)
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wow.. i dont understand.. do you mean you just want to be friends again and start talkin again?.. cuz you made it sound like you dont want to have anything to do with him anymore and then you say you miss him.. *confused* :/ ... lol try refraisin that for me and ill get back to ya! ;)
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s*beth is it true that you can fall in love at 14?? because i have emotions for this one guy that i never had shared with anyone before. i mean my friends tell me its possible. but im only 14. and its just soo confusing at this point in time. andd he loves me(as so he says) and yeah.
well i need your advice if i should concider saying "I love you" to my boyfriend. ive never said it before to any previous bf's. but should i say it?? love is a very passionate/serious word. and some girls just use it for thier weekend boyfriends. soo help me plz!
signed: LoveStruck (link)
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only you can answer that babe.. :/ i cant tell you if your in love.. and you shouldnt have to question it..
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ok what do you do when your friendship feels like its falling apart and you think it is your fault.People have been bugging my best guy friend to much and he thinks its me that puts them up to it when its not. (link)
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bugging him about.. what? :/ haha i cant help ya out with this one cuz im totally confused..
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Ok, me and this one guy broke up about a month ago, i really like this guy alot..and have for along time, but never really ever did anything with it. Then we went out, and broke up, then we out again..and now we're broken up for good. I hate it, i miss him so much...but now he likes this other girl, and this girl likes him...i don't know what to do. I don't wanna ruin anything she has with him because shes really nice to me. Oh well what should i do?! (link)
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well its weird.. im having the exact same problem.. except (sadly) im the other girl.. but i mean if i was in your position i dont know.. its really hard to like someone when either you know your not gonna get him back or he likes someone else or both.. but its life.. and shits gonna happen but you gotta take it and dont let it get in your way.. maybe this just means the guy isnt for you and theres someone else out there just waitin for you.. with open arms.. and the only thing you gotta do now is find 'em.. ;) and beleive me.. you will! and i also know its hard to try to just forget about someone and move on.. but we all have to do it sooner or later (i have :/ and it was REALLY hard).. but you will be able to.. but i guess all you can do is let what happens happen.. and i hope for the best for ya babe! ;)
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im startin to like this girl but im not sure if i wann gf......what should i do (link)
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hmm.. well thats in your own hands.. if you like her then maybe you should give it a shot.. but you gotta answer your own question here.. if ya like her then ya like her.. but now all ya gotta do is decide.. do you want a gf or do you not want a gf.. if ya want one GO FOR IT! if not.. then i dunno what to tell ya! lol do w.e you want to do, w.e makes you happy.. good luck! ;)
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About 2 months ago I was like in love with this one guy (I'll call him #1). He was pretty much all I could think about all day at school and anywhere I went he was all I could think about. Everytime I talked to him I felt like I was floating. He made me feel so good about myself. He liked me too for a little while. But, then he really started to like this other girl a lot(I'll call her K), and she was so pretty so I decided I would tell everyone that I didn't like him anymore when I was still like in love with him. Then, this other guy came along (I'll call him #2) and he REALLY REALLY liked and still does like me. So I thought I would give him a chance to maybe change me heart. But after a month of going out with #2 I still had the strogest of feelings for #1 so me and #2 broke up a week ago. And now #2 is my best friend, but he still loves me, and I just don't feel the same toward him. Well, now #1 is going out with this one girl (I'll call her S). Then have been going out for about 3 or 4 weeks now. Well Friday night I saw and talked to #1 a lot, and it was just like all my feelings were there with him all over again. Yesterday #1 told me that he still liked me even tho he is going out with S. I asked him why is he still going out with S, but he said he hates breaking up, and he in kinda known for short relationships at his school. He said he likes me a lot, and at first I didn't believe him, but he is not the kind of guy who would ever joke about stuff like that. Well #1 is still going out with S and I think I'm falling for #1 all over again. I don't know what to do. I meen I don't want to tell him how I feel, but then again I do. I don't want everyone to think I am bad if #1 and S break up.. What do I do? (link)
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lol.. that was a really well put story.. lol.. but anyways.. tell the guy how ya feel! for one it will make you feel a little better about all this and two it might help the situation out a little.. i mean if he likes you more then he likes "S" then he needs to go for you.. cuz for one thats hurting "S" and two he needs to go for who he likes more then going for the person he doesnt want to hurt.. and yes if ppl find out that you are the cause of their break up rumors will go around and you will probably have to live through hell for about a week or 2 but just dont let them see that the rumors are hurting you any.. and once they see that the rumors are doing nothin they will stop.. but you cant control who you like so just tell him how you feel and after that all you can do is hope for the best.. hope my advice helped a little.. good luck!
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sbeth,
i need your help DESPERATLY. me and my boyfriedn broke up but im still crazy about him....what do i do??
*need help* (link)
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if i knew how to answer this question then i wouldnt have been in the situation i was in about 2 weeks ago.. :/ all i can say is no matter what happens dont let it bring you down.. dont let it take over you.. things change and so do ppl but dont blame yourself for it.. all the breakup means is he wasnt the right guy fro you.. and i promise you that you WILL find that right one! just give it time..
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Hey Sarabeth! (link)
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just tell him the truth.. tell him how you feel.. and that you want the relationship back.. hes never gonna know how you feel and what you want unless you tell him straight up.. and dont wait to tell him how you feel either cuz then another girl might come a long and then you wont get a chance at all! and thats definately no good!.. but maybe he just wants a break right now, and guys at this age like being single more then they like having a gf.. dont ask me why lol but they do.. just give him time.. but dont hold back, tell him whats on your mind.. EVERYTHING thats on your mind.. good luck babe!
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ok me and my boyfriend broke up and im still madly in love [not seriously] with him. BUT he likes this other girl....i need hepl so bad to get him back...
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theres nothin you can really do about this babe.. yes i know it hurts.. and it will continue to hurt for a while.. but you gotta stay strong.. dont let it get in the way to much.. and sometimes you cant win them back, you cant MAKE someone like you again.. abviously he wasnt that *someone*.. dont settle for someone who doesnt really want you.. wait till you find that one who wants you more then anything else.. and beleive me, he WILL come.. give it time..
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wow..b*beth what do i do if i like my ex's best friend?? thats soo hard to chose. they;; fight i just kno it. is it that much of a hassle if i like the guy??
-CoNfIzZlEd
i♥you!! (link)
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hey.. this is junior high.. do what you want while you still can!
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okay first of all...
He wont freakin talk to me...i ask him a question and all he says is "idk". How is it gunna work this time if he wont SPEAK! lol...Anyways...it just seems different this time, ya know? I mean i love him just as much as i always have and i want him just as much...but there's something missing...maybe its the trust that we lost in all of this...or maybe its the fact that we were apart for too long! im not sure...what do you think about the whole senario?
second of all...
I feel like im loosing you and everybody else...:/ You dont talk to me as much and you dont tell me things anymore...I really wanted to be best friends...are we still??
third of all...
I know can be a total biznatch sometimes, and im sorry for that...im in a bad mood most of the time haha and NO its NOT PMS...lmao!! i love you sooo much and that will never change...
Good Luck on the Boy Hunt
BFFL (link)
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i soooo understand with you and him.. and yes things are different.. but hes confusing and all i acn do is wish you luck with him.. :/
and about the best friend thing.. i looove you soo much but member that one sunday when i went to your house and your other best friend was there? yeah well i felt REALLY out place cuz all yall talked about was your memories with eachother and everythng.. it was depressing and i didnt know how to act when she was around.. you are my best friend and im not TRYING to not talk to you as much.. it jsut made me feel awkward aroudn you when she was there.. and yes sometime you are in a bad mood.. haha (truth) but im always here and we will always be best friends! :D i love you toooons! thanx for everything! and good luck with him! ;)
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listen, u dont know me but im having a HUGE problem...ive been with this girl for 2 years and she was diagnosed with cancer and is now comletey bald..i love her so much but i know she wont last for much longer...what should i do?
thnx,..*take it all away* (link)
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this has GOT to be a joke!.. :/
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i think she means
that she doesnt know if her boyfriend is for real or not..
like if he actually likes her or not (link)
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shes the only one who can figure that out.. i cant read minds.. sorry babe! :/
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ok i have a huge crush on this girl but i cant tell her. I mean everythime i see her my legs get fatigue! shes like eye candy! shes soo beautiful! i dont know what to do please helpl SB fall in lovve with me!
♥ CrUsHeD (link)
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I DO!.. lol hehe i loooove you!
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Hey i like this girl REALLY bad and ive liked her since like 6th grade. i want to go up and start a conversation w/ her but i dont know how. she talks to me online and we always talk alot online but i just cant go talk to her in person. i dont just have a cruch on her cuz like i cant go a day w/o seeing her. i just need to go talk to her but i dont know how. (link)
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i TOTALLY understand.. it feels like you wont have conversation at all.. right? and it will just be like standing there in silence, then you would really feel stupid huh? lol well its NOT like htat at all.. once you start talking you cant stop.. beleive me.. and i know its totally nerve reckign to go up to the person you like and try to have a convo with them.. but if you ever wanna get anywhere with them you gotta talk to them (in person!) lol just try your best to get over htat fear of being around them and go up to them.. it only gets better from there! ;)
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Sarabeth
You know me but I'm not going to say who this is..I'm too shy to say..
There's this guy..and we have been friends for a while now..and I really like him. We flirt all the time ..until he got a girlfriend..Well today she broke up with him and he's really upset about it and he's scared to get into another relationship because he always ends up getting hurt..I would never EVER do anything to hurt him..I like him alot and he's the sweetest thing ever and he doesn't deserve to be treated like that..I want to be with him so bad..But I don't think he likes me..What is a good way to hint at it or something..or a way to find out if he really likes me?
Thanks (link)
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WOW! that sounds pretty familiar (cough cough.. with the situation im in cough cough) kinda.. anyways.. one thing you gotta learn GUYS DONT TAKE HINTS WELL! they dont realize you are trying to hint on to something.. you just gotta straight up tell him.. guys are THAT stupid.. lol and they are soo confusing, i understand but the first step is talk to him about it.. not me cuz i cant tell you what he wants or how its going to go.. talk to him about it and THEN come back to me and tell me how it went.. thats when i will REALLY be able to help ya! ;)
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