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Hey Guys, My name's Nikki. I'm 15 years young, and I'm always willing to help with anything you need. Don't be afraid to ask. I answer everyone's questions like I would if they were my best friends -honest & to the point-. If you ask me if those jeans make you look fat, and they do, I'll tell you. Haha. If you wish to add me on myspace or whatever, my info's on my column. Talk to you soon.
~Nikki~

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im 14f.

well last week i met a guy that i rele fancied and still want to go out with. i was with him and a few other guys by this party and i rele wanted him, so i went down on him, then a couple of his mates, but he didnt seem to wana talk to me much after.
we saw each other a few times ova the week and i made sure to wear short skirts and stuff and do things with him, but now hes with a different girl and they r going like a couple now and thats what i wanted. i tried everything but i cant get him to like me! i dont kno if its coz the other girl is better at giving head or if i wasnt good enuff, but loads of boys say im gd at it. what should i do?! and can i get him back and with me as a boyfriend?!

ok girl, Im 13 and i know you might not take me seriously but I've also been with a lot of guys and relationships aren't all about sex and trying to show off your skills at giving head. Some guys (believe it or not) just dont want someone that is always willing to do that stuff. sometimes (if they're actually decent) they want a relationship that's based on trust and love, not sex and lust. Maybe he just didnt have the same feelings for you that you had for him. and if he didn't you probably can't change that. Im sorry if thats not exactly what you wanted to hear, but its true. personally, i think that you should just find another boy that wants the same stuff that you want in a relationship. The guy's probably really happy with his girl and possibly, in love. i hope everything works out good for you. and if you ever need any other advice, just ask me. Ill most likely be around for a while.
~Nikki~

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Is it sad that I am 16 and never had a boyfriend? I feel stupid walking through the halls seeing all the couples and knowing that I have yet to experience that. Please let me know if I'm pathetic.

of course your not pathetic. you could be one of the best girls in school and not have a bf. the thing with boys is, they go after the girls who are easy, not even bothering to go after the ones that are actually worth something. (now, im not saying that all GFs are sluts) and while they're going after the easy ones, the good ones are all walking around wondering whats wrong with them. thinking that they're fat, ugly, too clumsy, or just plain wierd when the truth is, they are the most wonderful girls in the whole school. put this into concideration and let me know if your view on anything changes. ( just think about it. there's probably a guy that likes you right now but is just to shy to say anything) i hope i've helped.
~Nikki

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So i love this kid,
ive liked him on and off for 3 years.
He's went out with my friend many times and they broke up becuz they had a bad relationship, then over the summer, me and him kinda had a summer fling, and we went back to school and i still loved him but hes going to ask out the same girl again and i know she likes him.
IM very jealous of her, but the thing is , no one else likes her, shes not that pretty or anything special, shes actually kinda weird.
How should I deal with this?
Im soo jealous :[

haha. sounds like what happened to me last summer. Think of how the other girl feels, and whenever your jealousy gets the best of you, think of how she would feel if you did whatever you were going to do to her. also, if you can, try to just ignore both of them for a little while,try to focus on school. at least until they break up again. then I would probably say its safe to go after the guy.

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Well i dated a girl about a few years back. we went out for about a year; things happens blah blah blah. well anyways i still like her and i feel the same way. i've always wanted her to be my first but i dont know if that'd...happen.

This other girl, whose really into me. Seems to want the same relationship we have..and inside i feel that i cant replace what we had. But she wants to have sex with me, and i sware i am soo tempted but both the abstinence thing and the girl is stopping me. i dont want to regret anything, all i know for sure is that i want the first girl to be the girl i marry =\

really dramatic but if you can help thanks a million

don't listen to the last guy. He's obviously a retard. Anyway, about your question ... your virginity is something you should cherish because once it's gone, your NOT gonna get it back. my friend lost it when she was about 13, and she says she really regrets it. well,that said, if you really want to go through with it, I think you should make a list of the pros/cons of each girl. and I'm not talking about if she has a zit on her forehead or anything like that. I'm talking about,say, if she cheated on you w/ your best friend. That would be a BIG con. Also, think of who you can most likely see yourself with in about 10 years. Bt, the choice is really all up to you. I hope I helped.

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Girls, do you think that facial hair on a 15 year old guy is attractive. I know that girls don't really like mustaches. But do girls like anything, or should I just stay clean?

personally I like it clean, but you can do whatever. It just feels kinda funky when you kiss.

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