I've had an account with this website before, but that was when i was much younger. Now much older, I'm sure my advice is more realistic. (:
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im 15 almost 16 and im a girl and i been dating this guy for about a few weeks now and i dated him 3 times.a few days ago i started talk to this guy who is 16 almost 17 and he has liked me since he was in the 7th grade and we been talking and i never dated him and im really starting to like and i dont know if i want to stay with the guy im dating cause i wanted it work with and i dated the last time and break up with him for other guys and this new guy i known forever and i really like him but i dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend for him and my best friend whos like my sister hates the other guy and likes my boyfriend as a friend and she wants me to stay with him but i dont know what i want to do i want to be with both of them but i dont know what one to pick... (link)
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First off, if this friend, is your bestfriend like you say she is, and if she cares for you just as you care for her, then she would be supportive of whomever you date as long as you're happy.
I've kinda, sorta have been in the same situation, with minor detail changes here and there. But I personally think that if you've given your current boyfriend 3chances at your relationship, maybe you should just end it so there won't be a forth.
Try out the new guy, you never know, it could be the best choice you make.
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My boyfriend and I get invited to the same parties, and he tells me that he doesn't want me there, so I don't go (even though i really want to), and he does go. When i say that i am going to a party he is also invited to, he will say he doesn't want to go. Should i take a hint from this or not? It just makes me feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me. Also, we have gone to parties together and it was fine, so? (link)
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Perhaps there is a reason for him not wanting to be at the same party as you? Apart from you thinking he may be avoiding you. Maybe he wants to avoid the feeling, knowing you're present at the same party he's at, so he could have a good time and do whatever he wants? Like the person below, I think you should very much confront him about this. A boyfriend should want to spend time with his girlfriend. I mean, you are his girlfriend.
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Should the girl or the guy be the first one to make the first move? Why nd how are they gonna make the first move? (link)
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I completely agree with Jasmine. It's perfectly fine with either the guy or girl to make the first move. In my case, being a girl, I made the first move with my boyfriend, and we seem to be doing perfectly fine. We even laugh about it now, seeing as he was shy at the time.
Typical moves(as Jasmine stated):
-Longer hugs, maybe add a squeeze
-Holding hands (interlocking)
-Kissing (lips/cheek)
-Body language is key
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