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Q: Hi project9,
I would like to ask you for some advice on what to do about my best friend. I have had a MAJOR crush on him for a long, long time. I have just recently broken up with my ex and have really started to consider him as a boyfriend. I don't have the courage to talk to him about it and was wondering if you could tell me some of the hints or things I should look for to see if he likes me in return. Whenever I talk to him, he sometimes jokes about hooking up and making out. Is this a joke, or for real? Please help me.
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It really all depends. You can look, but from what you say - who knows?

...so yeah

Q: i feel so ashamed of my self
i let my cousin finger me !!!!!!
we never see each other that was the first time we have ever met... is it okay that i feel guilty?!!?
i hope to god its like your 3493208th cousin. i mean, if youre a kid who's into incest then to you its not wrong. but duh - feel guilty... god... umm eww. no offense.

Q: Girls can answer this two, but it would be really helpful if I got some answers from the guy's perspective..

How can you tell the difference from when a guy just wants to be your friend, or whether he wants more? There is this guy at my school, and he and I are friends, but not GREAT friends or anything. We don't hang out after school or anything. Sometimes in the halls he will catch up to me and start talking to me. And sometimes he will start singing a song with my name in it. Like for example, he will sing Batman, but instead of saying "dananananananana BATMAAAN" he will sing "dananananananana CATHYYY!" (Cathy is my name.) I know that he has a lot of other friends that are girls too, so I can't tell whether he just wants to be friends with me, or whether he likes me more than a friend. Help?
so you asked the same question as other people have. big effing deal. seriously people, what is this site? "advice" site.

anyways, you could probably outright ask. maybe not like "HEY JERK DO YOU LIkE ME?", but you know what i mean. if you're nice and you're is friend than you obviously have a chance. He either likes you, likes you as a friend, or "would go out with you"

just take a chance i guess. if he never mentions it, it doesnt mean that he DOESN'T like you, like someone else says, it could be a number of reason

hope that helps a little at least

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