Hi I'm Julie. I go to a small private school. Socially, i'd probably give the worst advice because i just don't make the effort to talk to people. With seeing everything, that's not true for me. I can help with boy problems for sure though. No, i'm not good in the fashion area either. For me, the idea of an amazing outfit would be a band tee & jeans or something. I don't wear makeup. I don't do drugs, drink, smoke or any of that stuff. I'm on the computer too much. I've had heartbreak a ton of times & it's horrible. Currenly, I have a boyfriend & he's amazing. I guess you could say I'm good at giving relationship advice [love life, friends, or family] because I do know about friends & how people can be mean & stuff. I know about overprotective parents since I have them, but not abusive ones. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm here to help. ♥ Julie
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Okay there is this kid, and hes so adorable; sweet; romantic; funny; and all those other things, like everyday before school i make sure my hair is perfect my make up is perfect and make sure my outfit is okay. Well when first period comes; he looks at me i smile at him he doesnt smile back. but he tells his friends that he likes me and all this other stuff. but durin class he doesnt show it..Why? Pleasse help..
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i think he doesn't show it because he's nervous to. i'm not a guy so i can't tell you what they think but um yea. i think you should talk to him & tell him about what you heard & ask him if it's true & tell him to be honest & you promise not to hurt him if he does [mentally of course] & care if he doesn't. it's the only way to get that sorted out. you need a direct source, not a rumored one. =/ i'm having a problem now too, not like yours, with this guy who i like a real lot & i talk to him online & stuff & i think he blocked me & i'm really scared [cause i have linked s/n's & he's on on one & not on the other, which is the one i talked to him on & he doesn't have b-list only] so idk what's going on. it's scaring me though since i just got hurt & i don't feel like getting hurt again. but anyways, sorry for my pointless ramble! good luck.
♥ Julie
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okay well i really like this one guy.. and i mean hes like soo soo perfect... and i know hes noticed me and i think we might have a chance of going out cuz were already friends and i just dont know what to do.. i mean i no i cant ask him out soo please help me please hes soo important to me but he just doesnt know that..
signed so so confused..
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hey. =] ok well my advice is..you don't have to ask him out. you can tell him you like him. or you can have a friend be like "so i was talking to blah the other day. i think blah likes you." & see what he says. my friend had her friend do that & she's going out with the guy now so yea. IM me if you want more help.
♥ Julie
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hi umm julie well i really like this boy....he is really nice and sweet and i kinda thinks he likes me cuz he would always stare at me and smile and ya but i'm not sure but anyways he is from my camp and unfortuantly my camp is over and and i mean i got his screen name and and i wanna tell him i like him but i dno how to tell him....plz i'm just a lil confused...plz help (link)
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you talk to him on IM & tell him..or you call him. no matter how nervous you are, that's how you have to do it. it will feel better once you get your feelings out. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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hi am 16 and im a lesbian and i dont knoe how to tell my mom b*c she is a christian and they dont believe in lesbiens or gays...so can you please help me tell my mom? (link)
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aww that is really tough. my mom is catholic & stopped going to church because of that. but i would just tell her openly & tell her how you feel & tell her it doesn't make you any different & no one has to know if she doesn't want them to. because, if she does anything wrong to you after you tell her that, it shows the world is going upside down. but you really need to tell her, no matter the consequences. =/ Good luck.
♥ Julie
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okay.. i kinda have two problems rolled all into one::
1) i am 13 years old and have a bf, zach (yes that makes me a girl), and i really like him! but my friends hate him... and they try to convince me that he is like really annoying, a jerk, and not good enough for me... you know the usual. but i know a complety different side of him. i know him as smart, funny, nice, everything that makes him perfect. what should i do to make them see this??
2) one of muh friends hates him so much that she is trying to tell me that he is gonna dump me!! i know how much he loves me and that he would tell me himself, not make her tell me. i have fallen for this trick before and lost a really great bf and friend. what she does is:: she tells me that he will dump me so i should dump him first... and she plans it out perfectly about lyke who he lykes and all that. i know it is an act, but i dont what to do!! please help!! (link)
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ooh i see. that's pretty horrible. for problem 1, go out on a date with him & bring your friends along. show them how he truly he is & how much you two care about each other. if they don't like, screw em all. for problem 2, tell your friend she needs to get a life. because she's not a good friend if she does that. tell your b/f about what she's trying to so he can straighten her out. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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okay im 14 and im a gurl im dating this one kid and hes like really likes me and hes really nice but i dont really wanna be with him because i wanna be with this other kid but i dont know how to dump my b/f.....can u help me? (link)
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just say to him "i really like you, but not the same way you like me. i just want to be friends. i know this sounds lame, but it's the truth. please don`t feel bad. i will always be here for you. just not in the way you want me to. i hope you find someone new who loves you as much as you love them." yea. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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if he loves you, the only person he will believe is you. you really need to talk to him about this. because your "friend" sounds a little screwy in the head. maybe you can get a restraining order. i know some people who have. i don't think you'll lose him over what other people tell him if he cares about you how you care about him. but restraining sounds like the best idea to me. it helps. it really does. hope i helped. if you need anything more, aim me sometime.
♥ Julie
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heyy julie wat do you do when your friend got your other friend to go out wit your bf at the time and he dumps you for her? wat do you do..im startin to get pissed
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you tell your friend she shouldn't have done that. & she's rude. =/ that is just wrong. they're not your real friends if they're idiots. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Julie...im going out with him now!!! yesss u helped me soo muchhhh ily!! haha
...sorry about friday tho!
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YAY!!! YAY KATIE YAY!!! i feel accomplished now =] hehe who is richard anyway? lol. if only i could get help with my guy problem *sighs deeply in thought*. & it's ok about friday. so far alison & theresa said they're coming..so i won't be alone. =] & you`ll be there...in spirit...i guess. lol!
♥ Julie
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julie! i really like...someone who mite read this and i dont kno how to tell him cuz ive always been the shy type wen it comes to things like this (altho it may not seem like that but i am) and i really wanna see if he feels the same for me...
PS..i miss you a lot!!
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yea katie. most of us are. you should tell me who HE is. lol. but anyways...you can try to tell him yourself online. or hint at it or something. or have a friend randomly be talking to him & then be like "yea i was talking to katie the other day. i think she likes you." & then you could find out his reaction. but it's pretty hard in that kind of situation to find something to do. oh & i miss you too katie. & good luck with guy stuff. wish me luck with all the people at lca too. hah i'm gonna need it. at least i know how the guy i love feels about me. like i'm crap. yea but hopefully if the guy you like finds out, he'll stay your friend, unlike *anonymous* >.< he makes me so mad. i want him to die, & then i'd have to die with him. ugh boys boys boys. they're just so darn confusing.
♥ Julie
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hey julie. okay well a lot of my friends keep telling me that i*m really obsessed with this guy. but for some reason i feel like its not an obsession. i feel that its really love. i mean i*ve realllyyy liked him for so long. and they told me that i*ve agrivated them because my away messages, profile, and xanga are all about him..which not all of them are. and also they say i talk about him too much. but i thought they were my friends and that i could talk to them about anything. and they kept telling me that he really liked me..er so they thought. but then today they said they were too scared to tell me the truth, and that he really doesnt like me. i had already known he didnt like me..its not like i*m stupid..but my friends are really making me mad because i REALLLYYY like him, and not ready to let go yet..WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!x0x (link)
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woa. same exact prob as me. cept mine's a LOT worse. if you love him, the heck with your friends. if they don't wanna listen, don't tell em anything. i stopped writing stuff everywhere. i just write i love you every now & then. yea my friend piss me off, but i love them nonetheless. cause they care about me, just not me loving this guy that they hate. so uhh yea. follow your heart. not your friends. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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omg i broke a nail!!! lol j.k
ok. julzy, you see i am on a swim team this year. well i have been for 3 years but not this involved as this year. i really really really like a kid named luke. he's one year older than me but we're both going into the same grade. my friend talked to him and he said he kinda liked me but he couldnt ask me out bc his sister said it was responsibility or osmething like that..idk...but i really like him. and i want to closer to him..what should i do?
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well if he liked you enough, he wouldn't care what his sister said. i say you need to talk to him about it. that's all i can really say. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Me And my boyfriend have been together for a month or more but the problem is he is in a grade older an i never see him . I dont know if i should stay with him beacause i never see him but i do like him ALOT . What do i do ? (link)
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tell him how you feel. tell him you wish you could see him more. make the best effort to see him. just cause you can't see each all the time, savor the moments that you get to. try your hardest to make as many plans as you can & call him & talk to him online & whatnot. i`m sure you`ll be fine. this is my quote "love cannot die from separation, only grow." so take that into consideration. hope i helped!
♥ Julie
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ok so i met this guy thru my friend, and he's really cool and everyone likes him. he told me maybe a month ago that he really liked me, and i told him i felt the same way. there's just one problem..hes 15, and im 12, so i dont exactly want my parents to know..because i know they wouldnt approve of it. are there any ways for me to meet up with him somehow without my parents finding out that im meeting up with him? or am i just stuck with going to see him with my friend? thanks for your help. (link)
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i`ve thought of this. it`s the same for me, except the guy hates me, & my parents don't let me date. make a plan with your friend to go to the movies. make a plan with the guy too. show up at the movies. make sure you have told your friend about you & him so she understands & she can see a different movie. same with mall, different place in it. if your parents let you do drop off & pick up, you should be all good. make sure at the movies, you let your b/f know about your situation so while your mom is dropping you off he doesn't talk to you. as long as you guys aren't doing anything [like you know what i mean], i say age doesn't matter. just stay safe. but if your parents find out, they`ll probably kill you like mine. so if you feel too guilty, explain to them about this guy & how much you really like him. & you have a brain & you will do what's right. you're not gonna have sex with him. you're not gonna do anything they don't think you're doing. but if you really don't think your parents are gonna listen to you, take option one. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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ok. well me & my boyfriend started going out about a month ago. and i mean the only times we hold hands is rare and we've only hugged twice. and it really doesnt bother me THAT much. but i mean all my friends and there boyfriends are all lovey dovey. but im not sure how to ask my boyfriend if he wants to hug more and you know, be more boyfriend/girlfriendish. any advice? (link)
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well, just cause your friends are doing that, you don't have to. only do it when you want to & it feels right. it should not be wanted, it should be something suprising, like a kiss that just feels great from someone you really care about. only do that if you want to, not cause others think you should. it's up to you & your boyfriend. & it's not a huge deal. not like you're having sex or anything. hope i helped & good luck!
♥ Julie
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Even though ur boyfriend tell you he loves you soo much
you shouldnt belive him fully right
cause i mean anyone can say i love and not mean it (link)
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well if he really means it, you should. you shouldn't say those words & not mean it. it's just wrong. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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I just heard that this guy I've liked, since, like, ever, is going with another girl. I can't get him out of my head!! What do I do??? (link)
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one;; how long is "like ever"?
& two;; tell him how you feel. or nothing will get done. find out if he likes you back. guys can still have feelings for girls even if they're with someone else [as much as the girlfriends wish to think it's not true]
♥ Julie
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I am going to be a freshman this year, and I have just started talking to this guy. Well, He is going to be a junoir and i know him from my sister--who is going to be a senior.
I have started having feelings for this guy. We talk alot online, and he is really sweet. But there are two problems. 1)He has a girlfriend 2)He still see's me as a kid.
Now both of those are really..hard. Because I think he see's me more of a little sister, then a friend. And it is so tough to deal with. Because I know i am not brave enough to tell him how I feel. And I know he doesnt feel the same. What should I do? (link)
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hmm. sounds like a crush. cause love is just more powerful. but with crushes, they're much much easier to get over. if you find that you do love him [you'll just know. no one has to tell you], then you NEED to be brave and tell him. but other than that, get over him. find someone your own age. but being his friend is cool cause he sounds nice. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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ok. im going to 7th grade and i have a boyfriend but none of my friends like him. well some do but my really close girl friends dont. and that sucks cause i really like him. i really dont wanna brake up with him. but all my friends do is nag me about him.please help me!! (link)
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tell your friends to back off cause you care about him. just cause you guys have different opinions, doesn't mean you can't be friends. they don't have to be his friend, just yours. trust me. EVERYONE hates the guy i`m in love with. i could care less. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Theres this kid i like but i see him hang around with other girls and stuff and i talk 2 him to but i dont think that he likes me and i dress nice and everything but i dont think he notices what do i do.. and i dont want 2 tell him that i like him because im scared if i get rejected (link)
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well if he doesn't like you back, maybe it's not meant to be. but if you like him enough, you need to tell him. & if you get rejected, just get over him. but don't "dress nice" so he'll like you. just be who you are. cause one time on a date if you don't dress nice, he'd be like "what happened to you?" & you don't want a guy who judges you by how you look. i know you're scared. it is one of the hardest things to do to express your feelings to someone else. but, you don't want him to find out through other people [like mine did =/]. so yea. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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