I met this really nice guy (lets call him warren) almost 5 days ago. We met at a bowling alley and I actually kinda liked his friend (Luke)- however when I found out that I was 4 years older than Luke, I knew that wouldnt ever happen because it would be illegal because he was 14 and im 18... so thats a negative. Well, Warren, Luke's friend, ended up letting me stay at his house for the night because it was too late for me to get back to my house. Warren hit on me, and then we started kissing, and well, one thing led to another. THEN, after that happened we were just talking and I found out he is my best friends cousin. I told her about me and warren hanging out and when i did she was like "Please tell me you arent messing with him." I told her i wasnt, but that i was becoming pretty close to him (which is true). I dont know what it is about him though. We are complete opposites. Im more of a voluptous girl, while he is skinny, im in high school, he is graduated, he is country, and I am proper. However the connection we have is hard to ignore; physically and emotionally. He said to me, "I bet you $100.00 that you will fall in love with me." and of course I denied it. I cant tell if by saying that he is wanting to start dating me or not. But based on the situation do you think that I should pursue the relationship or let it diminish? I just wanted an honest opinion.
madison
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Hey Madison :)
Ohhh thats a tough situation. I'll give you my honest oppinion from an outside perspective. He sort of sounds like a player. From his cousin's reaction and immediate disaproval and from his "bet" it seems he is pretty cocky. Confidence/cockiness can be very attractive (those are the types of guys I typicially go for) but they can be heart breakers if you're not careful. If I were you, I would not let it go since you seem to have a strong connection with the guy. I would see where it leads but not presue it too strong. Go with the flow that way you don't get too attached if something does go wrong.
Gooood luck! I hope things do work out
Hailey
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ok. its been about 2 yrs that have lost my virginity with a guy which i thought would be mine. but it happens that he left me the next day without any reason. what have heard with freinds that he is a playboy...
now am in a relation and my new boyfriend really loves me. we are planning to leave together in the future and so far didnt have sex with him. i feel guilty now cause he still think am a virgin. am dead. plz tell me what to do ... is it true that there are some steps that can be taken to camouflage the fact that am no more one ? is it true that, it may happen that you do not bleed the first time you have sex?
i'm sorry to hear about the boyfriend who left you after you had sex =(. the good news is that you probably only did it once with him, so it oculdnt have caused too much streaching down there.
the hardest, but probably best thing to do would be to be honest with him about what happened, if he loves you he will understand.
but if you dont want to do that it is possible that you dont bleed the first time. because you could have popped your cherry while riding a horse or a bike. you could use one of those excuses if he asks.
good luck with everything =]
hailey
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I have a huge crush on this one guy, let's call him Logan. Anyway, Logan and I are pretty good friends and he dosn't know I like him. I don't think he likes me back and I'm afraid asking him out will hurt our friendship.
I also don't want to ask him out because one of my other friends, let's call her Jade, already went out with him and then broke out with him. She dosn't know I like him, but she made it clear to me she thinks friends shpuldn't date friends exboyfriends. I'm afriad asking Logan out will hurt my friendship with Jade too.
What should I do?
since you're not sure if "logan" likes you back just yet, its not worth risking both your friendship with him and "jade". you should give it some time and see whether you get some signals from logan. if he shows intrest in you you shoudl go for it. but i woudlnt inisiate anything before you know there is something there. jade will understand if you both really like eachother, but she will be more upset if you were the one to go behind her back.
good luck i hope things work out
hailey 16/f
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