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Q: i am 17 and i have known this lad for 2 years now and i am falling in love with him i know he likes me but i am too shy to tell him how i feel as i do not want to get hurt i was seeing him before but it didnt work out and if i give it another try it will not work please give advice
If you DO NOT want to be with him just back off a little bit and ur love will fade. Try hard to focus on other lad's.It'll work.Luck to ya!-EmmaLee

Q: (m/14)Ok, I'm going out with this girl, we've been going out for a little over a month now.. shes awesome, I like her a lot.. but unfortunately my parents don't. They really don't want me to have a girlfriend at all, especailly one like her they say. I mean she is a little wild sometimes, but I like that about her, but my parents don't. They want me to break up with her soon, and they're pressuring me to do it everyday. I want more of a long relationship with the girl.. but I don't want love. In my opinion, nothing good can come from love at this time in life. So do I stand up to my parents and tell them I won't break up with her?.. or take their advice and break up with her before this relationship turns into love? thanks
You can't avoid love...dont break up with her!Dont tell her your parents hate her either! I know how bad that hurts...you might mean more to her than you know. Follow your heart (yes i said heart!!)-EmmaLee

Q: ok me and my boyfriend haven't made out yet and everyone is telling me to make the first move! lol how do you really make it lmao?! I never did before and I don't wanna but I'm gonna! any suggestions? please I need help! lol thank you sooo much!!!
Well Hun, follow your gut. Dont be shy, and lean in for that kiss! ;-)

Q: ok well i hav known this guy chris for a while now and weve been friends with benefits for like a realllllly long time now...weve gone through alot.....and we finally made time to see eachother on a regular basis (we go to diff skools) and he asked me out sept 25....i seriously think im love...i know we havent been goin out for very long, but weve acted like it for so long...he is everything i WANT! and well i have a few probs....1..he smokes weed...he just started...last time i went to his house...he was high and he told me he loved me...i didnt know if he ment it...so i didnt say nething back..and i kinda changed the subj....well wat shuld i do bout that? and my other 1s are....he doesnt like to talk for a while like on the fone...he never has....i mean hell call me EVERYDAY which is gr8 but we only talk for like 2 mins....i try to keep him on the fone but he kinda is just like o well ill call u tomrrow n stuff like that....and we make plans in like 2 mins! its nice but i wanna talk longer but idk how to tell him this i dont wanna make him feel like he HAS to talk to me for 20mins or watever....ok n my other one...i think i love him....ive NEVER felt this way bout ne 1..i want to tell him i love him...but im scared.....wat shuld i do...plz help i just dont now....im scared of rejection...i have a REALLY hard time trusting guys bc theyve ALL screwd me over or hav only gone out with me for bets or watever....so when he doesnt call i think he hates me n i get really sad...idk i just need help wat do u guyz think of this?? =\
ive gone through that.Im not saying you should propose marriage or anything but tell him how you feel about him. If he is everything u WANT let him know that in a suttle way. Too much emotion scares some guys. The phone thing.....mention that you think you two should talk on the phone more. Most guys dont like the phone cuz well think about it the phone talk thing is kinda known for girls to do.

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I love giving advice! I adore my friends more than life itself. Life isnt that great though. I get through day by day and theres nothing wrong with that.I would do all i could to help a person. If they trully needed someone. I hate it when people sit alone, or walk alone. I know what that feels like i was a loner when i was like in 6th grade. No biggie though!

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