I am a young girl. With no real experience. But all my life i have had people come and ask me questions!And at times my advice helped! at times its jus cleared things! at times it jus got people to think a little more! I Dont know if i can help you or not! But i will try my best if i can! I hope to be helpful and supportive! But that does not mean you do exactly what i say! its Advice! Use your common sense as well! :) That way! it should work out well hopefully! :)
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Location: Karachi, Pakistan
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Age: 13
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What possible problems could arise with being with a guy that was 17 years older than you? The guy I like is 44 and I am only 27.
The problems I could already forsee are that when I am 37 he would be 55, and maybe he would start to get insecure and think I might leave him for a younger guy my age.
Also, what could a guy that age really have in common with me? He likes fishing and golf, things that bore me to death. He hates a lot of the movies and tv shows I like too. He looks old enough to be my father. And I don't think my parents would approve.
But at the same time, I REALLY like him. He's a really nice guy and makes me feel so good about myself. He has a great sense of humour and more life experience than most guys my age have. He also has a good job, and would never freeload after me.(like some bf's of mine.)
Can anyone else think of any problems that could come from this relationship? And do you think we have a chance for this to work? (link)
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Age really doesnt matter. Honestly. If you like him and he likes you. thats it. and about the fact that his intrests dont intrest you! well! give it a try! this way your trying new things! and you can make him try new things! Both of you will be a source of inspiration to each other! With him you will be more mature! and will learn from his past experiences! and with you! he will get to be young again! :) as for jelousy! that depends on you right.
make him feel secure. If you both have that love for each other it shouldnt come in the way.
Parents not approving. Have they met hiM?! try that. then see how it works.
It is said that older guys normally are protective about the girls especially if they are younger! sounds good to me ! :)
Relationships have to be worked at! it can never be perfect! :) so i would say go ahead and give it a try! See if it can work out ! :)
Z!
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