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When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?

Can I have an example of what to say?

"Your cool and all, but I just don't see you in that way."

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hi, okay im 15/m and theres this girl at school i like, shees a Jehovah's Witness (im not),and im sure she likes me too, but wen i asked her out she said no, it was like really confusing for me because we like each other.i really like her but i cant think why she wont go out with me, we tell each other ALL our problems and everythings going fine in her life, so can someone plz tell me what i should so next or have any insight as to why she wont go out with me. by the way, shees really into her religeon

Well, let's put it this way:

A girl at my school once turned down a guy because God told her not too.

She's obviously a virtuous religious-freak type of girl. This will interfere with relationships because they dont want one, but they lead guys on BAD BAD BAD. She's probably sending off the message that she likes you, but you can't have her because of her religion. It's all a mind play. I know this might sound hard, but she won't give in to it, so if i were you, i'd try finding someone who... if they liked me, would go out with me.

maybe, if you went out with someone else and moved on, she finally see what she missed and you'd be happier off without her.

sometimes friendship is the best way to go.

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

gurl im 14 too n i havent "liked" liked one guy yet... so dunt b frettin ~nyladi~

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okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy?

it jus kinda cums... it hasta b the rite moment n u jus no wat to do. the only thing i havefta say is dont b too agressive... or else ur first make-out session il sux. hope i helped

~nyladi~

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my friend has liked this guy for a while, they were going out for like 6 months and they broke up in april every since, shes liked him since then and he still likes her too, but her friend from penfield (cute guy) she likes him a little too, so lastnight he told her that he liked her and asked her out, and she doesnt know what to do cuz shes been waiting for the other guy for months, and she really likes both of them

ight... the first thing that came ta my mind wus who dumped who, cus if he dumped u, u dunt want him to break ur heart again. second thing, is if u have already gone out with this guy before and it didnt work out, why would it work out for the second time? i get that its hard to get over someone that u once liked n stuf, but this penfield guy is givin u a new chance to start sumthin u havent had yet. so my opinion is go wit the one who ur sure wants to go out with yah, that way u know ur not losing somthing that could b realy realy special

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