i'm a 19 year old female and i like this female in my math class. i attend a community college so the ages are very broad. i saw this pretty girl. i assumed she was 21,22 i was staring at her and she saw me. the next class she's sitting at the table behind the one i sit at. when the teacher did attendance out the corner of my eye i saw her staring at me when he called my name and i responded. the next class she came when eveyone was leaving. so as i'm passing by her i see her turning her head to look up at me, i played it off as if i didn't notice. last week i turned around to look at the guys dirupting the class as i'm scanning the back of the room i see her looking at me and to me it appeared as if she pushed herself outward...? i held her eyes for a a few seconds and then i turned around. i wanted to laugh out loud at the idea of her staring at me the whole time i was turned around. she always stays behind in class and now that she sits in the back near the door i have to pass her (i know) i managed to pass without glancing in her direction which was really hard. the last time i glanced at her but she sat doing her work as if she didn't notice. now i'm wondering could she be digging me too? since i saw her staring at me would it be okay to assume she colud possibly feel the same way? what do you think?
Anything is possible but also remember it could be mere coincidence. Maybe you stick out a little being the only one turned around? Anyway, something you might think about trying that always has worked for me. No matter who you're talking to - every girl of course loves being complimented even if they disagree with what you say. Try complimenting her in passing on your jolly way by! Non-chalantly checking her reaction as well. When you get the balls, you might even try just sitting near her to where she can see you better and get her attention. *Wink*. Or if you really have big balls try sitting next to her and striking up conversation. Casually of course. If you have to you can make an excuse why you changed seats. She probably won't mind. Do you ever see her outside of that one class? Anyway, hope to hear everything turns out lovely! (Another good trick: smiling can be a real heart-stopper.) Hopefully she's gay! If not you can always make a new gorgeous friend!
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okay my boyfriend's party is coming up soon. hes my second bf, and i have no experience going to partys with a boyfriend. since its his party, its more pressure. I CAN NOT DANCE FOR MY LIFE. dancing tips. remember that i cant dance. at all. what do i do. its coming up soon.
Watching the other girls/guys dance will help, just mimic what you see... maybe down-play it a little because it's your first time. And you know something? Your boyfriend might even think it's cute that you don't know how to dance, and then there's the fun of him teaching you! It's much easier than you think. You don't have to do anything crazy like drop to floor or any such thing like that. Don't be afraid, it'll be fun! Put on some dance music before you go and dance in front of the mirror in near darkness and see what you got. If you don't like it you can always change it. Or not dance at all... But there's not just one way to do it, everyone has their own way. You just gotta find yours! Try not to worry too much about it. You're probably over-reacting. There's no law saying every girl/guy has to know how to dance. Just have fun.
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this is kind of hard for me to explain, but i finally met the perfect guy. the one guy that has replaced my exboyfriend, the one guy that i can honestly say i'm in love with & know that it's the truth, or at least i thought it was.
ever since thursday, everything has been going downhill.
to start it off, i'm 17, he's 16. & we've been together for about a month & truthfully, he never really called me but like twice a week, he always wanted to talk on icq(which i hate). but whenever he would call me, it was perfect & we'd talk until like 3am because we just had so much to say. out of this month, we've only hung out twice because we go to different schools & because he never wants to make plans. i always try to do something & he always says he can't, or he cancels at the last minute.
well my birthday was friday & we made plans for my birthday so right as i was about to leave to go pick him up, he cancels on me saying his mom is making him stay home all day because his brother is in. so i was fine, and me & my friends went out & let alone, him & his friends were out driving around & they saw me & were like 'your boyfriend is in here' pointing at him, and he was hiding his head from me :(
we fought over that & then we fought again the next day over stupid stuff, he just kept being really difficult & wouldn't hardly say anything, and he kept making up excuses as to why he couldn't call me & such.
i really love him, and i know the obvious answer is to get out of this relationship, but i can't. i feel like if i wait a little longer, maybe things will improve? like he gets his license saturday & i'm hoping things will change.
i just need some input :(
I am sorry you are in this predicament. Now, I don't know what kind of girl or guy you are and what style advice you respond to best so I'm just going to be frank with you. I hope I don't offend.
- Even that unconditional everlasting love you find when you've truly met "The One" for you - trust me it is not perfect by far. There is always something that clashes. No two people can be perfect, we are all prone to error and so must our relationships be so as well.
- No one should ever be allowed to be replaced in your heart. If you stop loving them I believe you never did in the first place. Even if it was an illusion you unconsciously created. It's just not that easy.
- You shouldn't be with anyone if you are not over somebody. It messes the whole thing up even if it COULD have worked.
- You have been with him a month and you love him? That would scare anyone away, I'm sorry. You have to ask yourself how well you know him, why you want to be with someone who doesn't seem to want to be with you, and what it is exactly you love. ... It feels good to be in a relationship but why settle for a crappy one? He lied and he hid from you, read into it. What does that tell you about him? It sounds like he's two different people. One with his friends and behind your back, and the other... well, he can talk on the phone with you for certain days for a long time but can't be near you? That's not a good boyfriend. A license won't make those things change.
A good solid tip? If he really wants you, he'll come after you. Especially if he knows you want him to. Most guys don't like aggressively romantic girls right off. And girls too for that matter. Give him room to breathe, and yourself time to think. What do you need? Him? This ring-around-the-rosie B.S.? You know you deserve better. And the next person you're with deserves to get all of you (not right off though of course - I'd really wait for the other person). If your heart's in somebody, don't use someone to spend your love on them. You will only hurt them in the end unless a miracle happens. Trust me, I learned the hard way on that one. And I'm still paying for it today.
...And I've played the hope card as well. Sometimes it just isn't in the cards, hun.... In this case it seems that is so. His loss, eh?
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