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Hey yall, im a freshman in highschool and realy would like to help you with all your troubles.Im a happy go lucky guy, and i love to hang ot w/ friends, and have a blast! Im usually prety good about answering questions quickly, but bare with me, my life can get prety hecktic.

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I really want a boyfriend and I think a know a few guys that like me but the dont have the courage to ask me out...what should I do? f/13

Well 1st of all your 13, you dont NEED a boyfirend right now, so dont worry you have plenty of time to get one. As far as the guys who like you if one gets the nerve to ask you out then you can go on a daqte with them, if they dont ask you out then the apparently dont like you that much. Hope i helped :)

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what are some signs that a guy likes you? i mean this guy always tries to talk to me and come near me..and he always stares too, he is very sweet and nice and i just wanna know. o ya and my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me(she did this w/o asking) and he stuttered and said" uh..uh..uh..no..i..i..dont..um..like her..i uh..i.sw..i swear!." then he told me about it. i mean does this mean he likes me?

thnx in advance

um yes

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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me

Its not wierd, he just likes you, theres nothing wrong with that.

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ok, so this guy and I kinda have a thing going on. We both like eachother but we are not really going out. We have been on dates but i dont know, we aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend". I want to be though. I either want to go out with him or move on. But i dont want to ask him out...im old fashioned like that. lol. what should i do?

I Wouldnt move on just yet, you have a good thing goin on it sounds like. You can do a number of thingsas far as geting him to ask you out on another date. You can throw hints at him all day long lol. You can Mabey get a friend of yours to kind of set you guys up, or just have your friends throw hints at him as well. If he absolutly wont get off his butt and take you on a date, he isnt worth it. But dont give up yet lol. Hope i Helped

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hi umm i have a question, how do you know if a guy likes you or is interested in you? For example, this guy keeps starin at me, does that mean i have somthin on my face or what?
PLEASE HELP

Pay atention to how he acts arrouund other girls. If he acts differently arround you thats a big red flag he likes you. Everyone flirts differently so this trick is a helpful way of knowing if someone like you. As far as staring at you, it doesnt nessairly mean he like you, guys stare a lot lol. hope i helped :)

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i hav been goin out with my boyfriend for bout a month n a half....n we argue all the time!! its always about really stupid stuff...like the health benefits of chocolate n stupid stuff like that....we argue evrytime we talk almost.....a few times we actually got into fights....one ending in him telling me i need to grow up.....we dont mean a lot of the mean things we say to each othr in our arguments/fights.....i like him a lot n i dont wanna ruin nething.....is it horrible that we argue all the time?! is there anything we can do to not argue so much?

Argument can be healthy in a relationship, but i mean chocolate?? i dont know what sparks the arguements but it doesnt seem like it could b strong enough to spark a big fight. Both of your should mabey try everyonce and a while to not be so opinionated, and mabey hold back your thoughts every once and a while, just to save you time and hurt feelings. hope i helped.

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Hey woodie! omg ok, so this guy and i went out, and he told me he still loves me, but he has a new gf at the same time. he told me tho that i'm more important and that he's only with her b/c he knows we can't be together (true). I told him that if i was really that important, he wouldn't be going out with her. Needless to say, we kept our distance for awhile, but now we're friends again. And it's kinda the same thing all over again. Does this make sense? Anyway, do you think i did the right thing? and wat do i do now?

You are absolutly doing the right thing! Your right, if you were that important and he was still "in love with you" he would b dating you, not this other girl. As far as what to do now, i always vote for staying friends, if you can. try to make it work out as friends, and if it doesnt work, give him some time without you and see if your realy that important to him. i hope that made since, and i realy hope it helped.

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and you may no that

Ive never been in a long relationship. Well i have but it ended in disaster, so i dont realy count it (quite embarassing realy). But just cause i havent been in a relationship like this one doesnt realy mean i dont know what im talking about. My suggestion is to get out of this relationship. He sounds like bad news to me, almost like hes using you as a trophy. I wouldnt trust a guy who eggs houses and breaks public property itsnt the most honest guy in the world, espicaly when he hangs out with other girls in his room without you arround. As far as how to end it... ill sya the same thing i always do, be honest and upfront, say whats in your heart. hope i helped and good luck!

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i told the i i liekd him he likes me too. but i mean i dont think he respects me and i think hes aplayer i dotn know wether i should have a realtionship with him. he makes me so happy but yet he causes me so much heartache he has saved me for doin crazy things but im going crazy i liek him so much i but i dont think hes the person it haught he was. i dont know how to talk to him about eveything and liek what to say..

honesty is the best policy, just be upfront with him. and as far as what to say.. say whats in your heart. it may be hard but it sounds like it needs to be done.

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i hav a great boyrfriend, n hes really sweet n does a lot of sweet things for me, what are some sweet things i can do for him to show how much i appreciate and like him?

well i know i would like just 2 b huged and loved. mabey if he has some aftyer school activity (sports or w/e) go see it. sometimes the simple things are the best

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Theres this guy i like hes a year older and i liek hims p much like more then ive ever liked anyone.. my parenst dont really like him but they know how much i do . i see him about once evey 2 weeks and like last week we kissed and yea. i dont know how to tell him how i feel without sounding desprate...( your so cool )

ok well first if your realy concernd about how your parents feel about this guy, have a talk with them and see if that helps. and second if the guy still doesnt get how you feel after you kissed.. then well... lets say he may not be the sharpest pencil in the box. but seriously u might just wanna tell him how you feel, he may feel the same way about you. hope i helped

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i hav a problem......i like this guy, n he likes me, but he also likes sum1 else.........shud i dump him or wait n c who he chooses?!

Well it realy depends who you are talking about. If you trust the guy, realy trust him, and think he will pick u in the end with all ur heart and soul, and u realy realy like him, wait. but if this guy has commement issues (which sounds quite possible) or u arnt totaly shure he will pick u in the end, dump him. If ur askin me what to do i would say dump him, but do what you feel is right.

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