Ok i have this boyfriend named john and he is so sweet He wouldnt do anythingto hurt me (i think) but we went to a fieldtrip somewhere dont know where but well before i walked into the thetre or how ever you spell it but anyway there was this kid who was sitting by him and someone said hey baby to my friend brittany and she turned around and the kid named cody said it wasnt me i swear to god and john was the only left well i called him after school and he said it wasnt him and i dont know who to believe and my friend rebecca said that she called him and he said that he has fellings for his ex taylor but i called him and he said that rebecca needs to shut up because she is lying and i still dont know who to believe someone help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It honestly depends how close you and rebecca are, and how long you've known john.
If you've known rebecca longer than john, and are really close to her, then I'd believe her,
if you've known John longer than rebecca, then I might believe him.
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welll, our town has this thing called summerfest& it's like a little carival pretty much, theres this guy I like, grant& I hung out w/ him& his friends for like 3/4 of the day- I thought he wanted me too? like he came up to me& we went to his friends house& he was leaving& I was like bye, hes like arent you coming?& I was like uh, I guess, so I did. then if I would slow down to like leave them& go w/ my other friends grant would stop& then be like you walk slow, I thought he wanted me there, then afterwards, it was almost closed& megan& I were sitting against a wall& grant& his friend brenton come up& start talking to us& then brenton was like wow this is the most you talked all day, you kinda just followed us around, did he mean that like I was annoying or what? do you think grant wanted me to come w/ then? i'm so confused!
i'm NO expert on this kind of thing, but, it sounds like grant was really enjoying your company, and i don't know him or his friends or you or anything like that, but it sounds like grant wanted your company but brenton didn't? either way, it sounds like grant wanted you around. ;]
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Basically I have begun to really really like my guy friend. I am 13/f. He has gone out with 3 of my girl friends but they always dumped him because they stopped liking him. I have liked him for months now and seriously think about him 24/7. We flirt alot and I was wonderring if you have any ideas on how to tell if he likes me other than just asking him. These are things that he does that make me think he does like me:
I catch him staring sometimes and when I do he'll smile back and stick out his toungue (i know childish)
I am of mixed race and when people bug me about it and call me names he'll defend me and get them to stop
Sometimes he'll trip me for no reason
He always says hi to me in the hall
When we talk we have total eye contact (never wavers)
When we talk we'll usually end up shoving eachother and touching eachother
When he says something mean (even if it was a joke) he'll say sorry afterwards
If he's talking to the guys and I walk into the con he'll acknoledge me immediatly
he shows concern when im upset and kind of demands a reason why and such
Sometimes he'll put his arm around me for no reason
Reasons I think he doesnt:
He flirts with my friend who dumped him last year
If people say we look like a couple he'll suddenly run away
If people say were flirting he'll yell something like "Stop Flirting With Me" or "AAH Shes trying to Rape Me"
We walk to our buses together and whenever he approaches his he'll see the guys then run away screaming
He says rude coments when people say "we should just go out" such as "Oh ya like Shes sooo wanted" in a mean sarcastic tone
I have no idea if hes just being a good friend or maybe likes me! Any signs? How could I find out?
ack! that IS confusing. i've always wondered about a guy like that. (my guess, totally NOT accurate, as I never figured out about that guy either) I think he likes you, and is just immature. As in, its not a bad thing, he's just sometimes not as mature as he should be. I know its confusing, but I live by the "Its better to know than wonder forever" quote, so I'd say go for it. I know heartbreak is hard, but eventually it gets better, plus, I'll bet he likes you anyway
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Okay, first off I will give you some details about me. I am a Senior and 18. Now usually I like guys my age or older but since last year when I was a Junior I kept notcing this cute guy checking me out. His locker was in the 8th grade hallway but I didn't think anything of it. He looked older than an 8th grader and had the most amazing blue eyes and smile I had ever seen. Everyday when I walked to class, we would catch eachother looking at one another. It was funny. He would look at me, and then I'd look at him. He would look down and so would I, and then we both would look up at the same time again and smile and then he shyly would turn away. Well this year I noticed his locker was in the freshman hallway, so I asked around about his name and what grade he was in. Turns out he is a freshman and he is only 15, but turning 16 soon. I just turned 18 and it is so weird to me that I can't let this guy go. He is just so adorably cute and I can't get over it. He seems really outgoing and I am very outgoing, but when we are near eachother, we get incredibly shy. Both of us. This isn't like me at all. Well at our school we can get guys/girls stuff for Valentine's Day. I bought a pink note (meaning secret admirer) and wrote a little poem on it. It said, "I've seen you around, You're very cute, but I can't seem to let you know what I want to do. So if you can figure out who wrote this to you, then write me a note and tell me if you feel the same way I do. Happy Valentine's Day." The notes get sent out on Valentines Day. Now there is no way that he can find out I wrote this, but I am nervous that if he finds out its me he might not say anything. I just want to talk to him and break the ice. Because we both abviously like eachother because we both make eye contact and stop talking to who we are talking to when we see eachother in the halls. Any other ideas about what I should do to break the ice. He recently added me on Myspace, which I had no idea how he found me, so I guess he had been searching me :) but he never wrote me anything, and I am too scared to send him a message or comment on his page. Any ideas?
I know you said you're shy when you're around him, but try saying Hi, I'm -insert name-. And just try a casual conversation. Like, I saw you added me on myspace. :) Or something. And if something does happen, he's definitely not too young for you. My best friend's sister was a senior who dated a freshman for a while. Good luck! Hope this helps.
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