Mmmmkay:)
I Think I Need To Be In Tough Love Bootcamp:)
Alright. To Make this Long Story Short,
I Live with My Aunt, Uncle, Little Brother And Younger Cousin. Recently (A Year Today) My Dad Died. So Thats Why My Brother and I Live With Them.
Okay, So Recently My Cousin Got on the Girls Basketball Team, And I Go Twice a week To Her Practices.
She Has A Friend Who's Brother, Who Is Ahhhdorable;)
But Apparently; Has Never had A Girlfriend And "Doesn't like girls" Said His 10 Year Old Little cousin.
No I Know for SURE He Is Not Gay.
He's Just Really Shy. And Thats What I Need Help With.
What Do I Say to A Guy, If He Isn't Even Interested? Or I Dont Even Know If He Does,
Ahhhhh! Help! Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee:)
xoxox Cassidy
Just because a guy is shy does not mean he isn't interested in you. So, don't worry about that :). Feel free to approach him and see how it goes.
As for how you should approach him, just relax and be yourself. Do not follow any flirting tips you found in some magazine. Do not play games. Do not dress provocatively. Do not play hard to get. Following tips you find in magazines or sticking to concepts you've seen in movies will only screw you over. You shouldn't have to manipulate a guy to get him to like you. And there is no right or wrong way to approach someone.
Just be yourself and treat him the same way you would a friend.
As for some fun things you could do together, here are some ideas:
1. If he goes to your cousin's basketball games, sit with him! This is the perfect chance to spend time together.
2. Ask him if he would like to see a movie. Everybody likes movies :)
3. Go out for coffee, hot chocolate, or some other kind of drink.
4. Invite him over to your house.
5. Ask him to spend Valentine's Day with you.
In other words, please do not waste your time contemplating how you will approach him. Just do it and then turn your attention to actually getting to know him. That is what real relationships are about. They are about knowing somebody, spending time with them, etc. They are not about luring somebody in, saying things in exactly the right way or trying to be seductive/attractive.
Just get in there :)
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This could be beneficial to you, actually, if you choose to spend Valentine's Day with this guy. I have an article dedicated to Valentine's Day that you might like to read. Moreover, I would love to read your feedback and ideas on the holiday :)
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Good luck getting to know your guy! :)
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So I got back with my ex (23/M) and its been almost a month we've been together. According to him, he's going all out on Valentine's Day.
I don't have a clue what to get this guy!
He likes the Bruins (but everything is expensive and he has a lot of stuff)
We tend to joke around a lot with each other so funny jokes and humor are good!
I don't know what to do...its driving me CRAZY!
Any suggestions?
Sincerely,
InSanE
The best way of uncovering what your guy wants is to ask him. Let him know that you are stumped, and would like to know what would make his Valentine's Day special for him. This is the most honest and direct approach, and it would probably lead to you getting him something he truly wants (as opposed to just something you think he wants).
However, if you feel that gift-giving is more fun when it is a surprise, here are a few tips:
1. Start with the classics. Chocolate, candy, card and some romantic time alone. Valentine's Day is about expressing your feelings towards your loved ones. So begin with that. Do something small, with the aim of showing him that you care. Once you know what you are doing to take care of the romantic aspect of Valentine's Day, half of the battle is over.
2. Something related to his interests is always a good idea. If he likes the Bruins, go for that. Maybe you could get him a pair of tickets to a game and the two of you could go together!
3. As far as jokes go, by all means, make him laugh. Buy him something related to an inside joke that the two of you share. Or, think back to the funniest moment the two of you shared and give him something that is representative of that.
4.If all else fails, just go browsing. Walk around your local mall or shopping centre and just see what's there. There may be cool items out there that you never would have even thought of buying him.
For additional information and ideas on Valentine's Day gift-giving, please visit my blog. www.wecareaboutlove.blogspot.com
I am writing a Valentine's Day entry and would love to hear your thoughts and feedback.
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