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Okay so theres this guy that I really, really like, and I know he likes me too.. The only problem is, I know he's going to ask me out soon, but every time I get a boyfriend, I freak out and think that they don't like me and I get convinced that they're only staying with me to be nice, and I really don't want that to happen with this one.. Any ideas on how to stop freaking out and just let things happen?? thanks so much! (link)
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well first you need to calm down...and remember they wouldn't ask you out in the first place if they didn't like you...most guys wouldn't stay with you if they are unhappy...soo when you get a boyfriend just forget about him not caring for you and have fun with him..if he does break up with you its his loss...
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ok well heres the deal..i REALLY like this guy and hes sooo sweet! he told me i was hott and hes always talking to me and leading me on..and if he askes me out..i would have my first boyfriend ever. thing is, one of my best friends supposedly "loves" him and she doesnt even know him and they never talk..unlike me i have talked to him lots of times. and now my best freind and him are starting to talk like online, but he ignores her a lot so he can talk to me..and shes making it seem like a competition and always rubbing things in my face whenever they have sumthing in common. another thing it, she knows that he likes me, but she doesnt know that i like him...its really confusing. if she found out she would be soo upset..she even said "if u ever liked him i would hate u" and i dont know what to do cuz shes had tons of boyfriends and i really want this guy to be my first bf. pleas help..ill rate everyone. (link)
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well it seems your friend thinks she's better than you and cannot respect you enough to admit that a guy likes you better than her...i would still go for the guy even if she does get mad...if she can't accept you and him then you shouldn't worry about it and find more friends that won't think that they are better than you...a friend that would be on the same level...
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I have never really understood how the feet move/feet positions (Where they are) while slowdancing. Can somebody explain it to me? (link)
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when i first slow danced i just watched people and went with the flow of my partner
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I feel that I need a boyfriend. All of my friends have one. But no, it's not because of that. You see, I think I need someone to talk to, someone that will make me feel better, someone who is sweet and there for me. I want a boyfriend, and it's NOT because I wanna impress people that I have a hot boyfriend. I just feel lonely. But IDK how to get a bf. I wana ask guys out, but I am SOO sure that they'll say no, because they don't like me. They like the popular, hot girls. Not fat, ugly, stupid, weird, girls. (link)
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You need to be more confident in yourself. Guys wont like you if you dont like yourself. Find all the good qualities you have and take it from there. Once you got that down, look around for guys, find one you really like and talk to him, smile and be nice to him. dont just go up to him and say "do you wanna go out with me?" because he will probably say no because guys do that, they'll run away from anyone. Don't ask him out unless your 100% positive he likes you. Get to be like one of his best friends first and take it from there. Hoped I helped!!
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What are some things I can do to make a girl like me more... and also how do I tell a girl that I like her? I mean, I really want to tell her, but I'm too shy..
Please answer this question, I really need to know ASAP! (link)
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show the girl you're interested...smile at her, joke with her (in a friendly way of course) talk to her and be nice to her...if she does the same back to you, she probably likes you too...she asked you who you like, so she seems interested in you too...and just because someone likes you don't ask her out because your feel sorry for her or you just want a girlfriend...you would end up hurting the girl and yourself..
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Um...there's this guy at me school who I like. He's really popular, but he's SOO nice. Everybody likes him, I think. Anyway, I can really see us together, and I can really see us falling in love, you know? But the thing is I know he likes this other girl (which I'm fine with, despite a small twinge of jealousy) and I'm afraid he wouldn't like me because I'm not really in his group. I'm kind of a loner, but all my friends are his friends too (heck, everybody is his friend lol) and I was just wondering...how do I make him notice me? Not that he doesn't now...but, you know, I want him to get to know me. Know who I am. How should I go by this, without truly flirting? I don't want to make him uncomfortable.
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Everyone's his friend, so be a friend...talk to him, treat him like you would treat girl friends...also since you have some friends that are his friends, ask them to mention you in one of their conversations...
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Hello, I'm 14 and am a Freshman.
Recently I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks. We have been getting along great except for one thing. I have been cheating on him. (I know I hate myself for doing so)
It all started when this guy I was friends with told me he liked me. I felt really bad for him because he always got picked on. So I told him I liked him because I did at the time. And after a week I started going around secretly after school kissing the guy every day. (I had to make stupid excusses for my boyfriend)
Today I stopped because I knew it was getting way out of control. ( I couldn't believe I was doing this to my boyfriend!!! And yesterday I almost french-kissed the guy! It turned out feeling terrible because I wasn't comfortable with him and it was his first time kissing a girl that way!) Today I wasn't late so I went outside and waited for my bus. Me and my boyfriend were having a great time playing around! But the guy I stopped kissing got mad at me because I wouldn't kiss him anymore and now started crying because I'm with my boyfriend. (I know how the guy feels, but don't I have a right to be with my boyfriend!) I feel like I am limited to what I can do with my boyfriend becuase I want to kiss him, but the guy is aways around to see and I don't want to hurt his feelings anymore!
Please help! I wish I had never cheated on him and I don't know what to do so the guy wont be mad at me anymore... (link)
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well it seems to me that you just have to decide who you want more...obviously you love you boyfriend and its possible you may have feelings for the other guy (a little at least) you cannot go on forever like this...you have tell either one of them that this is not going to work out...no matter what someone will get hurt...you just have to decide who you love more...
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3 mouths ago I meet the most amazing guy ever. My perfect match, the man i've always dreamd of. We'd been going out 2 weeks & every 1 encluding his mum told me he was mad about me. That was the week he told me he was in love with me. We went out for a mouth in total. Then we broke up. He said he still loved me & that if I gave him a week or 2 he'd go bak out with me. A mouth later the rumer went round he was engaged. I ended up in hospital. But he ovioly stoped seeing her.Then the other week i had a party where my best mate told him how i felt. We then ended up having sex!!
I know it was just sex but i love him and i just wana know if he wants me bak or what. His best friend says that he does love me and want me bak but i cant find the guts to talk 2 him.Coz i dont want him feeling boxed in like he cant get away from me. WHAT SHOULD I DO? am female!! (link)
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well if you really love him you would find the guts and talk to him about it...but i really think you should get rid of him...he sounds like he's just leading on and eventually will hurt you again...he might just end up using you for sex...and if all the rumors were true, he doesn't seem like the so-called perfect guy
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Ok, I like 3 boys and I am so comfused on which one to stick with.... Ok I will tell you about them and some other stuff:
1.Jaylon
Ok, I realy like him and we are realy good friends and I would never ruin that. I have known him sence 3rd grade. Lots of girls have a crush on him....HE is a sweetheart and is nice to every one and he knows I realy like him, I like him because hes sweet and smart and I love his personality(That explains everything).
2.Kacey
Ok...He is realy nice around girls... he has a crush on me and another girl, I have known him sence kindergarten and he has had a crush on me ever sence(But he is scared of going farther, lol). I like his personality and I like that he is tuff!
3. Tyler
I have known him sence this year. He is realy funny and always makes me laugh and smile, even when I am mad at him. He is kinda gross but it dont bother me coz I am that way to. I like that he is sorta naughty and how he always makes me laugh and I like most of his personality...But he can make me realy mad some times. (link)
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ok you said it yourself...you like Jaylon and you two are really good friends so if ya'll would happen to get in a relationship, you already know that you would get along...and even if he only likes you as a friend now, its a great possibility that he can start to like you more if you give him some time to think...now as far as Kacey, I agree with Brianna; it would be easier to hook up with him since he already as a crush on you but if you decide to go for him make sure you're not doing this because you feel sorry for him; it would hurt him less now than later before it goes too far...and Tyler seems like a brother almost;n so i don't think you should go for him...I would say go for Jaylon because obviously you like him the most...
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