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hey, there is this guy i really like. he is really shy, so i can not tell if he likes me. He stares at me alot, sometimes from the corner of his eyes, but when he notices i see him staring, he looks away. sometimes, after he looks at me he will smile. sometimes he blushes too. i have never talked to him, and i think, if he likes me, he wants me to make the first move but im really scared. what are some signs that a shy guy likes you? and if you think i should talk to him, what should i say to him? write back asap ♥

hey sorry this is taking so long. but i just got back from vacation..those are deffinitaly signs that he likes you. i think you should go up and talk to him.. if your not comftorble face to face you can get his number and call him. and theres always writing a note if your to nervous to do either of those. i think if you dont want to do the face to face conversation then you should call him. and maybe make plans to hang out outside of school sometime.. and talking to him on the phone will make you comftorble talking to him at all. well i hope things work out with you guys. and feel free to ask me any other questions.. or just tell me how things go =) hope i helped..
and im really sorry i took so long to answer..
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okay i've been talking to this guy and a couple of weeks ago he tried to do stuff w. me at a party well i've liked him for a while now and he talks to me occasionally like if im walking with a boy that is just a friend he will say something like " this boy dont want to go out with you" or he'll say whats goin on here ? and i like him soo much i cant get over him and all i think about is him like in school i cant do my work cus i think about him soo much and i dont ever learn anything.. what should i do should i try and talk to him?

i think you should try and talk to him//what do you have to loose? he obviously likes you if he gets jealous whenever your around other boys.. and he tried to do stuff with you. just tell him that you like him a lot..and go with it from there to what he has to say. i hope everything works out..
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manda

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okay well.. i was gonna tell this guy how i feel about him, but i got nervous. could you help me think of a way to tell him?
~ASHLEY~

If your going to tell him face to face.. just start it off with a conversation like hey.. how are you doing.. blah blah.. and then maybe just say yeah i like you and stuff.. if your afraid to say it face to face.. maybe write him a note saying how you feel about him. if you dont want to do that you could try calling him on the phone.. i think its easier to tell someone something on the phone then face to face. you could always try online too.. it might be best to tell him face to face because then you can see his first reaction.. good luck with telling him..
hope i helped..
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im the shortest kid in my class and i like the tallest boy. Everybody know i like him and are always saying stuff like "yeah _ go get your girl" but im always like "shut up" and he acts like he doesnt here. The other day i was asleep in class and when i got up to do my work i looked up to glanced at him and he was looking right at me smilling and well im very say and turnd around really quick and it looked like he got mad or somthing cause he moved his seet and like facing his back at me and now hes wird all my friends say i should talk to him about that but i dont want to look silly talking about that and asking him if hes mad at me how can i talk to him about that with out starting with what happend so i wont look silly or what can i do??????????

try starting the conversation with him.. but start it off with like hey.. how are you.. and see if he seems mad at you.. if he does ask him like whats wrong or something.. if your scared or dont want to talk to him about it face to face.. you can always talk to him online if he has aim.. or you can write him a note or something.. good luck..
hope i helped =)
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manda

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what are some signs of when a guy likes you? because theres this guy i like and im not sure if he likes me...please help ill rate

well if he usually comes to talk to you.. or starts conversations with you.. theres a ton of signs.. flirting- if he's teasing you a lot in a joking way.. or just messing around with you a lot. also if he looks at you and then you see him and he like quickly turns around or something.
hope i helped. =)
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Hiya, my name is Diane I'm 13. I really like this guy, lets call him Tom. Tom and I used to hangout every Friday and I mean we've kissed and stuff during spin the bottle but it has never ment anything. In november i was at my friend Joe's party. Joe was with his girlfriend, Joe's other friend John was with his girlfriend and I was just with Tom like walking around this park we went to. Since we were alone we talked alot and he put his arm around me for a good 10 minuets...until I kindof push him off. Anyway since then we've been really close friends. We flirt all the time even when his girlfriend walks by (one girl dumped him cause of that). And he tells people he wants to hangout with me, but I want him to make a move already I mean i'm probably sending mixed signals or something but how do I get him to make a move?

i think you should just make your move first..it sounds like he probably likes you if he wants to hangout with you all the time.. you said you pushed his arm off of you, so he is probably confused on whether you like him or not.. maybe you should tell him and make it clear that you do like him and then maybe he'll make the move then.
good luck with him though =) hope i helped
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manda

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okay.. i ride a bus home.. and the guy ive been crushin on sat with me today.. well we were tickling each other, holdin hand, and all that stuff... and his ex (not exactly, they didnt date.. just flirted ALOT) was staring at us.. shes kinda my friend too.. ne ways.. well how will i get her off my back?

just tell her you like this kid. and hopefully she'll lay off. if she doesnt tell her that she's already had her chance with him. and now its your turn.. good luck with this kid though =)
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manda

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