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Q: First off, I'm a girl and 15.
K, I've known this guy Justin for a couple of months now. We hit it off well right away, and became friends while I was getting over an ex-boyfriend. Well, we got to talk more and more .. and I started to develop feelings for him. I wasn't sure I wanted to start a new relationship, but Justin was really sweet to me, and I decided I'd regret it if I didn't at least try to see if anything could happen between us.
So - after debating it for a few days, I told him how I felt. I was so nervous, but he told me he cared about me, too -- it had just been hard for him to tell, cus we've known eachother for so short a time.
Sounds great -- but the thing is, he's already told me he isn't interested in having a gf, and I told him I'm not interested in friends with benefits. So, nothing is progressing at all. I really like this guy, though. So my question is - what do I do from here? I don't want to just give up ... but I don't want to wait forever, either. Is there any way that this guy might be able to get the hint?
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Well hun, firstly you actuly have to make sure that you do like him, you said that you started developing feelings for him while you were getting over an ex, you may subconsously just be be looking for a...how would you say...? support, someone to make you feel secure do you know what i mean? but if your 100% sure you do like him for him, not just because you feel like you need him, i think you should keep at him, if you do like him alot nad you think he is worth it, eventuly he will come round, they always do, he may not want a gf but if he does really really like you, he will put out, and like i said eventuly come round
hope iv helped : )
good luck x0x
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Q: I dont know....
I just recently got a boyfriend and really its great. He's wounderfull. But I dont know if things are going to fast.He asked me out on the phone, And I said yes then when we had to go he said I love you..I didnt want to be akkward so I said it back and UssALY everytime were on the phone he allways says that. Then me and my other friends and him one day went to valley fair! it was awsome! though we didnt talk much. We guessed it was beacuse we were just shy. I have to addmitt I kind of was. But then We went to the mall with only his friend and us, I guess the shyness wore off a bit. We held hands and then later almost after it was over he kissed me! ok not a french kiss but a kiss on the cheek. I know, Really babyish for our age but it was sweet. now soon We are going to the movies. And he asked if we could makeout! we are going to be alone..no friends around. Also about french kissing, touching whatever kind of makeout.. I know. I mean I have french kissed other people before but I never really made-out like touching like that. I dont know to tell the truth I sort of want to do it. but I dont know. I get really nervous.. I dont know I need advice!
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Hun, it sounds like you really like this guy im not sure how old you are, but your first kiss with your boyfriend is allways a big deal : )
If you said yes to the making out then thats cool, but you will have to let him no your limits with the touching, ifyou feel he's taking it to far you have to tell him to stop, if he doesnt he isnt as gooda guy as he makes out to be, he should respect your choice, and if he sucks at kissing tell him you really wana watch the movie :P
hope iv helped a little, need
good luck x0
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Well were to start, Im a student at John Paul college in Rotorua. Love helping people, Love giving advice, its like this web site was made for me :P feel free to ask anything you like : )
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Gender: Female Location: Rotorua Occupation: Student, How exciting, I no! Age: 16 MSN: action_gurl@hotmail.com Member Since: November 21, 2006 Answers: 16 Last Update: December 17, 2006 Visitors: 2051
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