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okay so theres this guy i like and i dont think he knows i like him or knows who i am. we never really talk but every time i see him it seems like hes looking at me and smiles at me and if im talking to my friend (shes friends with him) he will come over and say hi to her which he never does when im not around...i want to know if he really might like me or if its wishful thinking?

You should try to talk to him when he comes over and says hi to your friend and see what happens.

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ok so i'm sorry if this is long but for you guys 2 understand you need sum background info. I want guys and grls 2 answer this question please.
First of all i'm 14/f and in 8th grade. I like this guy alot at my skool. We are friends and talk 24/7 on IM. We have 2 classes with eachother band and L.A. When we go on band trips he askes me 2 sit by him on the bus, he's been asking me who I like lately and sumtimes i c him looking at me. Plus he is so nice 2 me and says things that make me feel good about myself. Seems like he likes me right? Wrong. So I found out who he likes and he says that that is true. Plus another sucky thing for me is that the girl he likes, likes him back! How much worse could this get? I was devistated. I keep talking 2 him and he does the same things. Are these things signs? Or do I just like him alot and I want them 2 mean sumthing they dont? Any way i'm just really confused. I need 2 know how 2 make this guy like me. I REALLY REALLY like him and I really want him 2 like me back. I really need help please. I know there r hundreds of these kinda questions but i don't know i just need you 2 answer this one please.
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He sounds like just a really good friend.

It's possible that he could like you but not think much of it because of this other girl he likes now.

You should talk to him about your situation and see what he's thinking.

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I really want my boyfriend to kiss me before I kiss him. I was thinking of asking one of my best friends if they would tell him that I want him to kiss me before I kiss him. Do you guys think that will work? And does anyone have any other ideas?

That could work, or you could try something like this. Start talking to him about something that has to do with kissing and see what happens then.

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Okay so, there is this guy that I like. The only problem is, I don't think he knows me. He is in my drama class but we never talk and I am sorta nervous to be around him. My friend is really good friends with him though, but I am also nervous to tell her! I really like him though, what do I do?!?

You should hang out with your friend when she is talking to this guy. Then you might start to get more comfortable with being around him when you see how easy it is for your friend. Then you can slowly start talking to him and getting to know him more. That should help with you guys getting to be friends. Then you can tell your other friend that you do like the guy and I'm sure she'll help you out with that.

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ok I finally met this kid who ive been talking to on the internet.. and im so confused with the way I feel about him. Its like I couldnt decide whether I liked him or not. Im basically preppy girl, and hes a punk rock (dude) kind of guy. Hes so different than the guys I hang around, and I cant decide if its good or bad. I know him and my guy friends wouldnt get along, and I dont know what to do or how to feel. I'm so confused. Any help?.. I rate :-)

Ignore the fact that he doesn't fit into your "usual-crowd" genre. If you really like him, it will be easier to know if you look past things like that. Also, if you do end up realizing that you really like him, it won't matter that he isn't like you. If your guy friends are having the same problem, not getting along with this guy because he isn't their style, try to talk to them about the good qualities of this guy and that they shouldn't judge him on his style.

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Im 15/f and its been 2 years since i was really involved in a relationship. From 5th grade-8th grade i had a nice share of relationships..but now it seems like i'll never have a relationship with someone until after i graduate! I'm a normal 15 yr old.. i want someone to like me and i want to like them back..have a relationship..make out with them..have a bond with them ,etc. Its getting to the point where im becoming desperate for someone. What should i do? Is there anything i can do?

The best thing to do is just wait. Just keep being yourself and I'm sure you will find someone, but being desperate isn't a good way or reason to start a relationship. Relationships are suppose to be special, don't settle for just anyone.

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i really really hate my appreance..ne suggestions on how to make myself more comfortable wit the person i see when i look in the mirror?

First you need to figure out what you don't like about your appearence that maybe you could change. A new hair cut or color? Different makeup? If it's something you can't change then you should stop being so hard on yourself.

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