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I've been with my boyfriend for around two years.
The first part of our relationship was pretty bad because I had a drug problem. Around a year ago, I ODed on some prescription meds.
At the time, I was hanging out with a guy I had just met. He knew I was way out of it and took advantage of it, starting to flirt and hold my hand. I then tried to text my boyfriend saying "it's over", but accidentally sent it to the wrong number. I made out with the guy and he kind of forced me into doing more.
I went home and slept for a long time. I woke up to texts from my boyfriend, went through my sent messages, and realized what had happened. I had cheated, if not intentionally. (I had zero interest in the guy). I never told him. I know I should have.
Now, over a year later, I've finally come clean about what was going on with me during that time, but not about what happened with the guy. I'm wondering if I even should. My boyfriend will dump me, I know him.
I would never cheat, have never even been interested in another guy while with him. I haven't gone near drugs since then. I just don't know if it's worth destroying what I have for ancient history. What should I do? (link)
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Hi! Considering it's been so long since this occured, maybe its better not to tell him. Im not a big fan of secrets but unless he ever questions you about it, then i wouldnt.
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16/f
So, just recently I found out that my boyfriend of a month is a compulsively lying player, horrible, I know. One of my best guy friends, "David" gave me insight. I know you're not supposed to listen to he say she say but, I always suspected that something was off about him. Everything that David told me seemed to add up about him. Apparently before we became an item, he was messing around with a lot of girls at one time (including me). And David told me that it was all because of our physical attributes. When I asked my boyfriend about it, it seemed like he was leaving stuff out. So, I decided that I want to leave him. Do you think it's wrong for me to want to dump him? Also,I wouldn't know how to go about "dumping" someone...I could use some advice on that please and thank you. (link)
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I don't think that your'e wrong for wanting to break up with him. I dont think you should settle for any less than your standards and surely a guy you cant trust most likely isn't the one for you. I personally have never had a boyfriend,even though I'm sixteen just like you but I would just be honest with him, when breaking up. I would tell him the truth, that you can't really trust him because you don't feel like he's telling you the whole truth about his past relationships, etc.
Hope I helped!
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