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i have been dating this guy for 5 months now, and we have had sex and we both care about anther. i love him and i have loved him for awhile now. i know he cares about me but he hasnt said "i love you" he has told me that he is scared and doesnt want me to get hurt and that he about about me.he knows how i feel, even though i havent come out and told him that i love, but he knows. i dont want to tell him i love him because i dont want him to feel pressured into saying it back. so the question is; does he love me? (link)
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no he just used you to be able to say that he has lost his vigenity and that he dont want you to get hurt
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(20/f). My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, on and off. I really do love him, and we've talked about the future a LOT- moving in together, getting married, all that jazz. He treats me better than any guy I've ever dated, and I can tell he really loves me. Our families know each other and we each feel comfortable with each others friends- it's nearly a perfect situation. THe downsides are, he and I don't have a lot in common.. He doesn't like reading, I do. He hates the movies and music I absolutely love. And he doesn't want to be an organ donor, which is something I'm very upset about. There are a few other differences too.
The few breaks we have had, however, have all occured because there's a BIG part of me that will never stop having feelings for my best male friend, the guy I lost my virginity to when I was 16. This guy has always been my greatest downfall- My dream guy, except that he's always involved with another girl when I'm willing to be with him. My friends and family don't trust him or like him because we had a huge fight about 2 years ago, and only recently started speaking last fall. He hurt me more than anyone, but now we're better than ever. Well now he's single and he keeps telling me how he does love me and how when he's trully over his most recent ex, he can see the two of us being together. He and I have almost everything in common and we always have an amazing time when we hang out.
I told my bf how conflicted I was, because I love both of them a LOT. He told me I could either never speak to my friend again, or he would dump me. It's impossible. As of right now, my bf thinks I'm no longer speaking to my friend, but I've been texting and hanging out with him behind his back =/ Really bad, I know.. it feels like I'm practically cheating. I know it can't keep happening and I know I'll need to make a choice.
Do I pick my boyfriend, who wants to marry me and take care of me and all my needs? Who's sweet and caring and concerned about me but who hates my best friend, and doesn't have much in common with me?
Or do I pick my best friend, the boy who loves everything I love, the one who I can share my soul with and who always makes me laugh? The one who none of my friends and family care for? (link)
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well in my opinion i think tht you should pick ur best friend because if your faminly really loves you and cares about you they will accpect who your planning to spend the rest of your life with and if you have a boyfriend tht you have fun with no matter what and kno he luvs you {you must take the chance if you really like him and on the other hand if the boy your with now dosent trust you then there is no relationship if he cant trust you around your best friend
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