My name is Lacey,I'm 16 years old.I am a very talkative person,also athletic.I play softball and outgoing and nice.I'm an open person,Willing to answer any questions.Well if you want to know more about me IM me on my s/n and i'll be sure and answer anything.
E-mail: lovelylacey08@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Houston,TX
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: LACEY LiKE WOAHH
Yahoo: Crazypink08@sbcglobal.net
MSN: lovelylacey08@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 15, 2005
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Ok...so there's this guy that i really really like...and we have our winter formal dance coming up and i really want to ask him but i'm one of those girls who are like super shy. we talk pretty much everyday...so it's not like we're strangers or anything haha anyway...i was just wondering if you have any "catch phrases" or ways to ask someone to a dance? THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!
singed, shouldi? (link)
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well if you talk everyday it shouldn't be too hard.Just gradually bring it up.Like be like are you going with anybody to the formal?&& if he says no or I'm thinking of asking someone be like.Well... I was wondering if you wanted to go.Just something special.You don't need to impress him with something ohh so smart to say.A simple way of putting it.Well hope I helped.
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Hi there. So, there's this guy named Robbie. I've liked him ever since 7th grade and now i'm in 9th. He's super sweet, and like a really good friend, but if i ask him out, i'm affraid that our friendship may be disrupted. what do you think is the best way to go?
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Well it's really all up to you.If you think it will last && is worth it.Go ahead.If you think that if you asked him out it would change yalls relationship.Then just stay good friends.It's a matter of the results.Depending on whats he like && knowing if he likes you in that way.Don't come to conclusions either.Just relax && take it slow.I suggest you stay friends , But you can do what you please.If you think it's worth your friendship then do so.Well hope I helped.Update && keep asking questions.
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hey well i liked this guy at the very beginning of the year n i cud tell he liked me.. and then he told his friend he didnt well at the end of the year we really started liking eachother and we started goin out.. i acted liked i really cared about him but then i felt that i cudnt tell him i loved him n it hurt him when i didnt say it back.. but then i did somthin with another guy while we were goin out n i told him n he was upset though we got back together and we seemed like a better couple.. i still didnt feel like i wunted to b around him alot.. but i did .. i even thot i loved him.. well then i noticed we were too good of friends.. but still we werent friends if we werent lovers as it seemdd to me... well anyways i broke up with him while he went out of town over the summer.. hes is still outa town.. but i miss him alot.. and now i told him i didnt kare if we got back together or not out of anger.. i thnk he wants to get over me.. but i keep dreamibg about him.. and i really do miss him.. how do i tell him i made a mistake and i want him back without looking like i dont know wut i want???by the way im in ur grade and yes u kno me...
Sincerely,
Blury Vision (link)
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Well from the start why did you do something with a guy?Was it really necessary?When he comes back to town.Express to him you "DO" care if you guys get back together,Because you still have feelings for him.If he doesn't accept it or want to.Then you have to accept the fact he doesn't want to come back.See how he's doing.Do whatever it takes to see how he feels and everything.If he isn't ready for it.Don't sit there and wait til he feels as though to come back.Just be cautious he's there but don't be so forceful.Well hope I helped keep me updated
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and my dad knows that we have something going on..and while u were writing a response he asked me out....we started going out on june 22nd! (link)
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Nice...Good for you.I'm glad it worked out for you.Tell me what happens with you guys.
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okay heres the story first my dad works at a big company and recently they hired a new kid whos only 19 so my dad and his started talking about me..( my dad isnt his boss they just work together) about a week later we exchanged aim s/n (his idea) and like when hes on he doesnt really talk its basically a "whats up" and then he stops talking. Does that mean he doesnt like me even just as a friend? also hes so shy everytime i see him when i go for my dad at lunch he just sits there smiling but doesnt talk whats his deal? but theres another question how can i spice up our conversations a little??? People had told me that it maybe because of his age but he had said age doesnt matter...this is something he recently told my dad's other friend."WorkinIt234(6:15:26 PM): and im 19 shes atleast 16 and im within 4 yrs so its legal besides age doesnt matter and shes cute" any ideas? i rate high and even if your answer isnt that good ill still rate pretty good. thank
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Alright...So your 15, and he's 19.Big difference,But that doesn't always matter.Question is that does your father know yall have something going on or not.I don't know.Might be a issue.Maybe not.Your relationship seems strange.He might be the stand back kind of guy though.More of the layed back kind.You have to get the side of him where he talks more.Try to ask questions in your conversation get to know him better.He may not like you though.Although he might.Theres the chance of it not working though.Just act normal.Try flirting with him some.Not too much that would throw him off.Just keep him on the edge of his seat.See what your going to do next.Hope I helped.Keep me updated
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Hey omg i absolutly love your advice column...ok well i really need some help, how do u make a guy want to kiss you?(im pretty positive that he wants to but im not sure)! please help me! (link)
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Well... thank you.Let's see.You can't really make a guy want to kiss you.It's all in liking the person and the right time.He'll make the move when he's ready to.Just be patient.No rush.Then you'll be okay.You can't be so sure the guy wants to kiss you.Or likes you.Take it slow.Well hope I helped
~*~Lacey~*~
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I don't know what to do. I like this girl alot and I don't think she likes me back as more than a friend. It's also the middle of summer so even if I could ask her out that's another reason not to. What do you think? (link)
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Well you don't really know if the girl likes you or not.Just get to know her more.Act normal.She might just want to be friends with you and sometimes you have to let it be.I mean would you want to ruin a good friendship.Sometimes its better to have a close bestfriend then a g/f that you would probaly break up then feel awkward talking to them and your not as close.And some girls don't like having boyfriends in the summer.They like being single and having fun rather then having drama.Keep my updated to see whats up.Hope I helped
~*~Lacey~*~
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hey baby nice lil advice page.... i dont have a question, i have more of a lil message. im so glad ive had the pleasure of knowing your for the past few months, and i have fallen for u. your the most precious thing to me right now,i cherish you. there isnt a day that goes by without me thinking of you , missing you. ive never felt this way about a girl b4 . i used to think i knew what love was with past girlfriends, but i was always wrong. i also thought id never find that one special someone. now i have found her in you.
i love you,
Enamorado (link)
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Hey you... OMG.Your so amazing.I'm glad I met you too.Your the sweetest.You know how I feel.I have no need to share it here.You know I feel the same.Thank you for being here for me.
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what do i do when my boyfriend wants me to loose my virginity to him and i'm only 14 years old?? i dont know what to do, and i dont know if thats the only reason he's going out with me or not!! how do i find out?? i dont know if i should go along with it and what happens. . .happens!?! please i need some advice!! i dont know what to do!? (link)
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Okay... this tends to be a problem b/c the boyfriend might tend to be more agressive and you aren't that agressive.Try talk to him.He might be in it just for the sex.I'm not sure.It's hard to tell really.Just make sure he's not.Keep posting
~*~Lacey~*~
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i have this friend who is a boy and we have been best friends forever!! and we have liked eachother just 2 times of our life.. i dont no what to say to himand i dont no how to say it. he flirts w me all the time and its fun but i feel lead on sometimes.. and thats bad.. i thnk liking your best friend s bad.. but i admit it now.. i used to deniy it.. say i didnt nlike him .. but i do and i no it.. so does evryone else..i jsut want to no what to say to him.. and how to say it.. ya no? (link)
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Well this seems to happen when you get to this point.You've been friends for the longest time and you have the same qualities and know alot about each other.Most of the time one or the other likes each other and thats fine.If you both like each other consider discussing it with him.Ask him if he likes you maybe more than a friend and if he does say you do too.I don't know if the best idea is going out because thats your bestfriend and I think its best if you stay friends because then if you guys break up you might feel awkward talking to each other and not talk and not be as close,But if you chose to go out be sure not to lose your bestfriend.It's always nice to have someone there.Well hope I helped.Keep updating and asking for advice.
~*~Lacey~*~
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Hey Lacey...Recently I've noticed that I like this girl (you know her she's in science with us) but I don't know if I want to or even if I should ask her out...what do you think? Also I don't know if she would say yes...is there some sign that girls give if they like you? Haha
Thanks,
CuriousGuy (link)
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Well first off.Do you really like her or is it a week or two and you like someone else.I mean you got to be sure you like her.And signs of liking someone.If she always smiles at you.Laughs at you.Kinda flirts with you.Plays with hair.Some what touchy when she talks to you.Stuff like that.To get an idea.Try flirting with her and see if she reacts good and starts flirting with you back you might have a chance.Mmkay well hope I helped.Byes
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i broke up with this girl a little over a year ago and ive missed her ever since. i regret breaking up with her but we never saw each other because she lived kinda far away. i still love her, and i just wanted to know what i should do. Should I tell her how i feel? or act like i dont miss her? I would do anything for this girl..and my life would be perfect if i had her back. she doesnt feel the same, and that tears me apart. Any advice? (link)
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Well I mean if you broke up with her than I guess that's how it should be.If you never saw her.I mean it could work.But it would be very difficult.And it has been a l0ng time since you guys have been together.And if she doesn't feel the same anymore then I guess you have to move on.And she probaly doesn't want to be hurt again.Since you did break up with her.You could try talking to her about it though.She may still love you ,you never know.Alright well h0pe i helped byes.
~*~Lacey~*~
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Ok I liked this girl and we were becoming really good friends. I asked her out and she said no...and since then it seems that she doesn't act the same around me. Is it just me or is it really because I asked her out? Do you think I ruined our friendship by asking her out? And if you think I did how do you think I could try to make it like it used to be? Thanks,
Guy That Wants His Friend Back (link)
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Well since you like her.I think shes kind of surprised and being distant.She realized a friend of hers likes her.You may think It's scaring her.But really she just wants to be friend.It takes time.Try being distant for awhile.Try to get over her and try to be friends If that's what you want.I know It may hurt but try your best.After awhile she'll might think your over this.And be your friend.It may not be the same though.But It's okay.Well hope I helped.
~*~Lacey~*~
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hi lacey..ok well there's this guy at my school and ive liked him since december and a lil it before that..i REALLY REALLY like. ive never liked another guy as much as ive liked this one..and i really wanna go out with him..i think that we're not going out already is cuz im an 8th grader and hers a 7th grader..he already knows that i like him because my 2 best friends told him.. so do u think i'm wasting my time..should i get over him? or keep going after him?? please help.. love, a gurl who needs HELP (link)
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Well do you talk to him alot.I mean do he know you?...Start to talk to him.Acknowledge him that you are interested in him.When you get comfortable enough.Start flirting with him.If he flirts back then maybe he might like you.I don't think It really matters If he's in 7th grade.But I don't seem to find a reason for you to think it's a issue.People might rag on you about It.But It doesn't matter.If yall both like each other than It's cool.Well hoped I helped.Bye
~*~Lacey~*~
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Help!! My Twin And I dont know what to get our boyfriends for Valentines day! Valentines is a week away tomorrow and we have no clue what to get them! We dont want to get them candy because thats sorta a girl thing. Hmmm No Clue!!! I need some good ideas for me and my twin to use! Please All answers are fine with me i am very open at this point!
--Thanks!!--
**I am thinking maybe a big basket of candy and a card???** (link)
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Buy Cologne, or some Collector cards or Boxers lol something sweet...and by the way the reason noones answering is because you keep repeating the same question over and over again.Byes!
~*~Lacey~*~
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I like this girl, by the way I am a guy, probably the first on your site, and I like this girl who just broke up with her boyfriend. Since we are already really good friends people say that we'll end up going out but she says that we are always just going to be friends. She does like this other guy, she hasn't ever said a name though. Is she just saying we won't go out to get people off her back? Should I ask her out? Could me doing so ruin the friendship I have with her already? I need HELP!!! (link)
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Well If your good friends usually one of you guys like each other..I'm not saying I'm right but yeah.So If she flirts with you she might like you.But If she says she likes someone.She could be fibbing, for whatever reason.Maybe she is nervous or something.Well I can't give you a straight answer.But if thats a good friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship you might want to consider not chasing for her.She might be a great girl.But friendships are alot better.Tell secrets and such.Just someone to be there.Well hope i helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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Ok so I really liked this guy and we went out for about 4 months...Then he broke up with me right before Christmas. I was so sad!! He made my holidays miserable. When we went back to school I still liked him and he still flirts with me too! I really like him alot now! I want him to ask me out again. I have told him I like him too! He told me he didn't want a girlfriend now. Don't tell me to go onto another guy becuase I have tried but I keep ending up at the same one! PLease help me!! Laura!! (link)
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Well yall went out ...then he still flirts with you...he might still have feelings for you.But I think he doesnt want a g/f because maybe he doesn't want to commit.Then again I may be wrong.But If he doesn't like you and won't want to go out with you.I guess the only last solution is move on.Even If you think you can't you have to.You can't make a guy like you or go out with you.That would be too pushy.Might think your a bit annoying.I dont know but yeah hope I helped.
~*~Lacey~*~
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im 12 and in the 7th grade.im flat chested.i want boobs .i thought of cotton but i want natural.or i want it to look natural.im not lesbian but i find my self looking at other girls chest.any sugestions? (link)
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Well it takes time for to develope.Don't worry hun.Don't fake things like that,Theres no reason to cover up things.And the you catching yourself looking at girls.Well sometimes It's okay to look sometimes.I mean It doesn't mean your lesbian or Bi just is just like comparing your self to others.And it's okay.Well hope i helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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wut up well lets c every 1 says im anoyin n da last 3 gurls i liked said no or got another man wut do i do n every 1 thinks im a big flirt sumtimes i feel like killing my self help me (link)
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Well If they think your annoying try not to be a follower and a clingy person...Be distant for awhile and see If theres any progress.If there is try making a change.And don't be so much as a flirt.Sometimes girls don't like a pushy or touchy guy.And the fact the girls you like don't like you isn't your fault.They don't like you like that.So be it.It takes time.Phases...Hope I helped~!
~*~Lacey~*~
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ok i feel like my life is so outta hand..and i jus want a boyfriend to love me for who i am..im tired of impressing people..i jus wanna be me..and all i can think about lately is GUYS! i like this guy that has a gf but i dont wanna lik him but i cant get over him...and theni like my old bf ALOT because we flirt alot but my BEST friend likes him...so what should i do? i kno is sounds lik nothin..but i need help.. (link)
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Well...first of all this guy you like...does he like you back...?Does he seem happy with his g/f?You should talk to him about...Does he really like his g/f...dont be too obvious though.And your ex...Is he involved with anyone too?And your bestfriend...Does he seem to flirt with her too.Well talk to him about it...See how to fix things out...Well hope i helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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