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i am from india , my age is 22,
i have one gf in my life and our relastion is going good but my gf always fight with me at my final exam time,and i don,t have to consntrate on my reading,,finally this time my exam result is come and i am fail in my exam i have lost my 1 year and i m detain,,,and after my result come my gf say i don,t carrry thid relastionship more ,she ask me my parents will find guys for my marrige and this time you are not able for marrige ,and she leave me at my bad time. i have lost my all confidence so please help me ,,,i don,t have any one support
You deserve better than her. she basically made you fail and then left you . don't lose your confidence. just take this as a the first step to finding someone better who'll stay with you .
okay so i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months now. Everything is great. I feel like he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. He knows how to make me happy & he's just the sweetest thing ever. We've had our ups and downs just like any other couple. The biggest problem we have is trust. He trusts me but it's kinda hard to trust him. In the beginning of our relationship everything was amazing, just perfect I never thought things would get so badly to the point where we almost broke up. We would argue because I would find out things that he lied to me about. He's gone to parties without telling me anything and I got mad because he lied to me & told me he was going to sleep. Then later I found out he lied about smoking. He told me he quit for me but he lied. & he's lied to me about other little things which made me question him at times. There were also times where I felt like I was in competition with other girls. Ive told him about it. & hes change. He stopped with everything & things have been getting better. But is it bad that I just cant get over what he did? Like its always in the back of my head & i guess i have some anger towards him still. There are times when were talking just fine & it reminds me of the past & wat he did & i bring it up & we argue again. Can you please tell me ways to get over it ? I dont know why I just cant forget that he lied to me & hurt me.
i cant tell you how much im the same way . ive been through the exact same stuff and i know the feeling. its hard trusting someone after they've lied to you. no matter how good its going you're always gonna remember whats he lied about and done in the past. its hard to just start trusting again.. the thing is if you want the relationship to work you have to learn to accept that it was in the past and that he's changed. you cant keep going off of whats happened in the past. not trusting just makes everything harder and you just get anxiety worrying so much. its not forgetting that you need to do its just accepting and moving forward. you just have to let it go and take small steps to trusting him again .
well it's been a year since me and my ex boyfriend broke up, and its pretty weird lately i keep getting these next feelings, basically yesterday on twitter i posted a picture and he Favorited it, a while later he un done it, i don't understand whats wrong with him? Something in me tells me he doesn't want to admit to himself deep down he still has feelings, he hasn't had a girlfriend since we broke up, it actually shocks me.
I think he isn't brave enough to admit to himself nor to me that he still likes me, (i am his first love anyway), and i know some guys are too stubborn to admit to anything.
But from my point of view if your over your ex you would't still have them as a contact or like their pictures right?
I can't lie i still have feelings for him but i do try not to think about it.
He's on holiday atm, and i got the weirdest phone call it was a number from another country and a feeling in me said it was him, we have not heard each others voices in a year, as a women I have this sort of 6th sense that tells me he still likes me, but his pride is getting in the way of telling me.
i really don't know what to think anymore ...
most guys are so stubborn with their feelings and i can say that from personal experiences. you said that you still have some feelings for him and you think he still has feelings for you. the best thing to do is just work up the nerves and have a conversation with him. just ask him if he still has feelings for you if so tell him you feel the same. and if he's still too stubborn to admit it then don't worry about it. don't waist your time worrying about it because just know sooner or later he'll regret not speaking up when you gave him the chance too
I am 21 and I've been dating a guy for 7 months. We've definitely had our downs and ups, but we always find a way to make our relationship work. In the past, this guy has hooked up with a lot of girls and also had a few long term relationships being 1-3 years long. At first, I thought he had a commitment phobia, but then he asked me out and I was happily surprised. Since then I have caught him flirting with other girls on fb, accused him of cheating once and had my upset moments where I've ended up leaving his house. When I mentioned that I thought he was cheating, he told me that is absurd because he would never do that to me since he's had numerous girls cheat on him in the past. But because of the messages I seen on fb, I get this feeling that he might be playing me though he calls me his gf... Yes i looked at his fb cuz i was suspicious. Now on the flip side: he is making time for me more, insists on cooking for me and is overall becoming the guy I hoped he was when we started seeing eachother. And here's where my dilemma begins.. I met this other guy not too long ago and we hit it off instantly. My first thought was 'why didn't I meet you before I started seeing this other guy?' and we instantly connected. Now this 2nd guy wants to date me. He says I'm the perfect girl for him and we cuddled once which was the most amazing feeling I've had with a guy before, though I feel horrible for doing so. I mean, just when I start making things work with one guy another one shows up and makes me question seeing the first guy. What do I do? I know you are going to say 'if you fall for 2 guys choose the second' and whatnot... but I just cant bring myself to do that. I like them both! I've even made a list of pros and cons between both and it comes out very close. I feel like ive known the second guy longer even though we've only known eachother a short while and I feel like the guy I've been seeing is trying his best for me and that we could be happy in the end... I've never been in this situation before.
I know exactly what you mean and how you feel . ive been in that situation so many times before. i think maybe you have the fear of what if you leave the guy you were with first just when everything starts going right for a guy you recently met. in all honesty its all about what your heart feels. if you end up breaking up with the guy you've been with for 7 months to be with the other guy or vice versa . if it doesn't work out with with whoever you choose , if youre meant to be with the other guy it'll all work out .