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hi i'm kirsten,

my real name is johanna but i ahte that name..
i'm from the phillipines which is in asia but i live in Chesapeake,Va.
i'm 14 and i'm very good at advice for other people.so don't mind e-mailing me......

advice

i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do?

okay first you need to confront your friend.dont PURPOSELY hurt him but tell him its uncomfortable to you that he's acting as if he's stuck to you.tell him it's okay that he likes you but you're taken and you want him to respact that and keep your space.also tell him you really dont WANT to hurt him in any way but it's reality.

you're in love with you're boyfriend dont let anyone ruin that feeling...but dont be too harsh.

johanna.
-i hope this helped!

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I havent seen my best friend in less then a week and already I miss him sooo much. we only live about 20 mins away from eachother but i wish that I could see him more often.I heard that last weekend when i saw him i was supposed to get asked our by him and he didnt ask me out? why not.I really want to go out with him really bad but I dont want to ask him about it. I love him soo much!And I kno that he loves me. We always make out and shit when we see eachother but it has never gotten past that.I want to go farther with him bc I think that it is right too do. I think that he would but I dont want him to turn me down. We used to talk about doing more but we never have actually done more. I used to think about having sex with him and to be honest I really want to. He isnt a virgin and I am. I just want to be alone with him so that we can talk and be more serious with eachother. What should I do? How do I bring it up to him ?

*thanks sami

i don't think you should have sex because you're a little too young though i might say go after him if you really think you love him just don't have sex until your not guessing your ready.in other words follow your heart that's the only way you'll know that you're right

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