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OK.. so heres my story. There's this guy I met and its hard to explain but only fate brought us together. He lives in a state I had never been to but b/c my mom met his mom through a school she is going to in Virginia, thats how we got brought together. And its the craziest thing... I mean I know it was fate. When we went to go see him, I was like wow.. I feel at home. But now Im at my real home. And it sucks. It really does.I dont think he knows I like him more than a friend.. but he hasnt been online. And I really wanted to talk online. I cant call b/c I dnt want to stalk him I already gave him my number I already made a move. So for all you advice givers I CANT CALL HIM... lol long distance is too much. He hasnt been on but his mom was telling my mom hes busy or whatever. I know theres no point in giving up, this was such fate and whether or not I say 'im giving up on him' deep down you cant do that if your really in love. So what do I do? Just wait... and if he does sign on, is it good to tell him I like him.. or will that ruin eveything.. how do you even ease into that topic?
Well.. sorry if I've stumped alot of people :-p
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I know how you feel. I think that if you honestly believe that paying a little more to talk to him for just a little bit is 'too much' then it's not really fate. If you aren't willing to pay the extra dollar or whatever just to hear him, maybe you aren't that serious. Try talking to him online, but don't come out with everything at once because most guys get scared away by that. Let him know slowly by dropping hints or saying 'my friend said she thought we'd make a good couple'.. little things like that. Hope I helped
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I love this guy he loves me and we have been dating for a while but latley hes been selling drugs for his prohbation officer and up to now i've always gave him money if he needed it, and he knows that, he told me he would stop all of this afterhe was done with prohbation,i am there for him 100% but only because i love him, but at times i just want to tell ask him if he knows what he is doing. He has looked for a job all over the city and no one will take him because he has a bad record. I cant just up and leave him because of this because me and him has been really good friends for almost three years and we've been dating for like a year or so. Please tell me what i should do (link)
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Hey, I have a very good friend who is in the same situation with the bad record and selling drugs. Help him look for a job, and just be there for him. Don't get involved with the selling or anything, but help him look for a job or let him know that if he stops selling you'll help him out til he gets back on his feet. He needs to start somewhere, so even if he gets a job at a small place for small pay, it's not selling drugs.
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