I don't think I react to things the way I should,
I lost my father in 97 and I didn't cry all the much and I loved my father very much, then in 2002 I lost my Brother to A Car Crash, and I just don't think I was as sad as I should have been I know you guys are probally think I am cold hearted and made of stone. I fear the same I mean I feel regular emotions like LOVE and anger, and Joy. But when it comes to sadness I just kinda of go numb is something wrong with me, or am I just worrying too much?
There is nothing wrong with you at all! Some peoples way of dealing with grief is numbness and shock that they don't know what to feel. The way you reacted is perfectly normal, in my opinion. If you're feeling uncomfortable about the way you feel though, talk with someone about it.. preferably a family member. You'll get closer with them and then you'll be able to heal the past.
Hope this helps!
*xo* Lindsay
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i am 17 and i have known this lad for 2 years now and i am falling in love with him i know he likes me but i am too shy to tell him how i feel as i do not want to get hurt i was seeing him before but it didnt work out and if i give it another try it will not work please give advice
You should tell him how you feel.. who knows? You might just get what you want in return :) But, if you have enough skeptisim about telling him, look at the pros and cons of what would happen if you told him how you felt. Good luck!
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i think my bf is always trying to make me jealous like he is always telling me about oh this girl at my work tried to give me her # and like last night we were talking about what we want to get pierced and all of a sudden he tells me this story about before we met this one girl got he belly botton pierced because she though he might like it and how she would tell him he would look really hot if he got stuff periced should i just make up something like he might be doing to get him jealous too or just leave it alone and make him see that it doesnt get to me maybe he will stop.
What you need to do is to tell him to stop. You don't have to do it in person, just leave him an IM or e-mail :) this was you avoid conflict, but you get your point across. Just be like "I've been thinking, I really don't like it when you talk about other girls the way you do, it seems like your trying to make me jealous. I dont know if you are, I'm just telling you how I feel." :) something along those lines would work :D You need to have an open relationship.
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please help me lindstotheay i really like my brothers french exchange partner. i text him all the time but its not enough. He lives hundreds of miles away but i can't stop thinking about him! What can i do? Please don't tell me to forget about him or anything like that b/c i dont find that very helpful. thanx x x x
First, if you really like him, never forget him :). Maybe you should tell him how you feel? If he returns the feelings you can work on a long-distance relationship. E-mail him, call him, and write him a lot, and plan meetings through out the year. Not much to say than that, but establish a good relationship with him. Hope I helped!
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