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Well, I'm Lindsey and I'm fifteen. If I get any more questions, I'll be active again. I'd really like to help y'all out, so don't be shy, just ask! :)

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ok wow this is sooo sad that i have to say this..but i'm 15 and i have never had a boyfriend..and suggestions..i need help. it's sad..lol

I'm 14 and never had a boyfriend. So I hate to say it, but you're asking the wrong girl. Sorry. Lol. I need help myself.

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well ok i have a problem ! well there r these 2 guys at school and i think both of them like me but one of them i like a lot and i cant stop thinking a/b him and i just do these crazy things when im not around them . but this other guy he talks to me and u can tell that he likes me by the way he smiles when ever i say something stupid or sweet and then the other guy well he likes girls lets just say that and i dont know if this guy is trying to waste my time by flirting with me and stuff but anyways what should i do cuz its really confussing

yeah, you probably shouldn't ask me guy questions because if you know anything about me at all, you'd know i have none whatsoever expirience with boys. (most ugly girls don't)
but hey, i'll try.
uhm, i'd say go with this first guy you're talking about. because if the other one flirts with other girls all the time, it'd be kinda hard to learn to trust him. &if he's just leading you on, &doesn't really like you, he's not worth your time.

kay, hope i helped. :)

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you dont know me, but here it goes. im 14 and im a girl obviously. i met this guy on myspace and like, one of my friends knew him already and he lives really close to me. so we became friends and ive met up with him once and ive been to his house twice. i texted him about a week ago saying that i liked him and he told me that he felt the same way, but he wants to wait until the school year [were both going to the same high school] and right now he just wants to be friends with benefits. ive never done that before, and i really want it to be mroe than just that, but i dont wanna tell him that and get him mad and loose him completely. pleaseeee help me

Well, I've never really thought being 'friends with benefits' is a good thing. Because eventually something is bound to go wrong &suddenly, y'all can't be friends anymore. I think that you should tell him that you wouldn't want to be just friends with benefits because sometimes that can turn out to be a mess. I'm sure he won't get mad, you're just being honest.

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mk well u dont know e but there`s this guy at school and well i think he likes me and he always comes up and talks to me but lately he hasnt so what do u think is up with him i mean i dont think i`ve done anything wrong cuz i havent been talking to him cuz he hasnt been talking to me so umm yea so what do u thnk i should do??

Maybe he's lost interest in you or something. ? &if you want to continue talking to him, then just go find him and strike up a conversation. If you haven't done anything wrong, then there shouldn't be a problem!

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hey lindsey well this si Jordan your bestest friends LOL but anyways i was just wondering if u could give me a little help on this stuff that happenin well anywyas u know that i like u know who and i`ve told u everything that there is thst he`s done and everything and ok madison talks to him all the time and u know how ere good friends and everythin but i`ve told her that i dont like her talking to u know who and she keeps on doing it . Well and then ok im really confussed and so the other question is well do u think that he likes me and wil u know ask me out ... lol ok love ya
***JoRdIe***

Well hello little missy. hahh

Alrighty, well. I know you really, really like him &all but thats really no reason to go &tell Madison not to talk to him. (that wasn't meant to be rude, just truthful). Because I mean, who are you to say who she can talk to? And plus, I'm sure Madison doesn't mean a thing by it, seeing how she already has a boyfriend. Right now I think the best thing to do is jsut let nature take its course. Lol. Sounds dumb, but true. I mean, if you like him &he likes you, theres nothing you can do, unless you wanna be the one asking him out. Which..is a no-no. Lol, just keep talking to him &understand that Madison doesn't mean a thing by it. She's your friend, Jordan, she wouldn't up &do her guh like dat. Hahh. Well, as I said before, just sit and wait for now. I hope everything works out! You deserve a good guy. Well, I don't know if he's a good guy, but from Kelsey, his brother is..&hey, they're twins..so yeahh! Hahh.

Good luck, girllll! You know I love you!

Hope I helped.

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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!

Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!

I'm pretty sure its just a phase. Girls are naturally nervous around guys anyway &are gonna feel more comfortable around other girls.

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