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hi so i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for about 3 months and soon to be 4. We have never had any physical contact besides holding hands and hugging. Well next week were going on a date and i really want to kiss him/make out. I know most of the time when people kiss they start to make out.... But i don't know if it will be the same with me and him because he is kind of socially awkward and does not have a lot of friends.I feel like if i lean in for a kiss he will react in a weird way or may not kiss back.We talk about our relationship sometimes and once over facetime he told me he wanted a hand job...That was a few weeks ago and i don't know if i am ready for all that but i do want to see him get hard and i wanna know how to do that, like how to touch him with out getting to sexual

Hi there! This question really intrigued me. I am a friend of the person who owns this account.
Anyways... I just got a boyfriend a week ago. Before we started dating we already started saying "I love you." and kissing. We both made the move to kiss by hugging then he backed away and I kind of grabbed his waiste and pulled him closer. not hard though. Then he looked at meh lips and I leaned in.
So... maybe try that. and to touch but no TO sexual grab his waiste and pull it really close to u and hard to. That got my boyfriend hard REALLY fast.

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Hi :) im in high school 3rd and i really like my classmate ...and i want to tell him , i want to tell him how i feel about him in person and also in private but the problem is even we go to same class we dont have many lessons together(our class is divided into three groups and according that we have lessons)but sometimes we have class together... so i dont see him very often :( ....i dont know how to catch him alone when at our school is very busy during breaks and he is also surronded by his friends...and im also shy but he is outgoing....so please help me how can i talk to him alone ? Should i wrote him some note ? I really like him ....on valentines day he sent message saying: "im glad you are" ..what did he mean by that ? ...and 2 weeks ako we were in normandy on school trip and he told me to come to take selfie with him :) so i cant stop staring at that photo :DD

If you want to get him alone at school than just ask to speak with him alone for a minute. Even if he's with his friends. Tell him how you feel, and if he feels the same way than great.

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hi i don't know if u saw this on the homepage or not but i really need your advice on this situation,And you seem like u are like really wise

So i have been dating my BF for 2 and a half months. And it was more of an in school relationship.We both had a discussion and said said that we wanted our relationship to go out of school. I have invited him to somethings but he never replies to my text unless my friends tell him to. I asked him out, but before he even knew i liked him he told me that he liked this girl Jamie (one of my friends) I asked him out later and he said yes. He is one of those kids in school that no girl at all likes so i don't know if he said yes because no one else would ask him out or if he actually likes me. Plus we have both said we wanted to kiss each other but he is like really really shy and doesn't have a lot of friends, and i don't know if that is why he is scared to go out on a date or something. I really need to know if this kid actually likes me or if i am just running into a black hole
Please please help me (btw, we are both 13 in 7th grade, so i know middle school relationships dont last long but i at least wanna give it a try)

If you are having these doubts than you should talk to him. The foundation of every relationship is trust, and if you can't trust that person than the relationship is doomed. Tell him about your worries or ask him why he said yes to you. If he doesn't have the answers or you hate the answer than maybe (just maybe) break up with him or take a little break until everything is sorted out.

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