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Okay well theres this guy.. we went out twice and we like just broke up on the last day of school. Im still not COMPLETELY over him.. HOW DO I GET OVER HIM!?!? ahh please help me!!

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Broken Hearted (link)
I learned that you can't get over somebody unless your heart wants to. If your mind and your heart both want to let him go, then it will happen. Unfortunately, if your heart doesn't want to them i have no clue if you can get over him. First, it will take time. What I do (i dont know if you are spiritual or not) I just ask God to help me get over him if it is his will for me to.


I know this boy and i have liked him for a long time and still like him, but recently i found out that he liked me before i liked him. Do you think he will have completely moved on and that its hopeless for me to still like him or do you think he may still have feelings for me? (link)
Personally, I think that you should tell him you like him. It will be really freaky at first, but you should just let him know because if he DOES happen to have feelings for you then that is good :)


well... this boy, i went out with him before... and i was a dumbass and broke up with him.

I've been having feeling for him again but he HATES me cuz i hurt him. idk what to do!

i want him to be mine

but he hates me...

ahhhh leanna! please help me!

(link)
Well just write him a note saying that you are really sorry about breaking up with him that you were an idiot and tell him that you love him thats all you can really do. Also you can pray.. because everything will work out as God planned for our lives; for the good, or for the worse


Hey Le! Okay.. i have a boyfriend but we never get to hang out outside of school because the other ones always busy. Whenever i am about to see him or see him my stomache starts to hurtt reallllyyy bad. So i know i like him. But,alot of his ex-girlfriends are my friends and he has broken up with all of them because of some lame reason. And one of them tells me he's a player but idk if its true and i HATE the thought of being cheated on.But i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i would feel like a loser.. What should i do!!?? Thanks for your help!

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Love Crushed (link)
Dear Love Crushed,
Well just tell him he will appreciate it.. If he doesn't then hes stupid and you shouldn't be with him anyways. Just talk to him about it if he thinks your a loser and breaks up with you then hes missing out. And he would be totally retarded Just plan something in advance or something =] hope i helped!


I like this person at school, but i dont have the nerve to ask her out, so how do you think i could maybe build up my confidence or ask her out, snce ive never asked anyone out. (link)
Just have some confidence in yourself!! First you have to like think and if you think she likes you then go for it! if you dont think she does then like just talk to one of your friends and tell them you like her and they will help you build some confidence about it and maybe find out if she likes you or not. Life is about taking chances and everyone has to take a chance one time or another. Well I hope i helped!! thanks for askin me

xox - Le


mkay here's the prob I like this guy..(yeah i know what a way 2 start of) newayz i like him ALOT..in fact 2 much i think?..and well yeah I asked him out.. but he hasn't said nething 2 me yet..but see after i asked him out he talked 2 me less and well looked at me more..u get what im sayin?.. Well now we talk less but ever time he talks 2 me he's asking me something like "Do u like this" blah blah also he trys 2 make me laugh ALOT.. and he's sorta mean 2 me but in a funny way u get what i'm sayin?...am i blinded by my doubts of him likeing me? *ConfusedNlove* (link)
Well it is obvious that he probably likes u. First of all you could ask one of ur close friends to ask him if you are goin out u no wut i mean?


I like this guy.. and i really want him to like me back, im not sure if he does. How can i be sure he likes me?

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Helpless Love (link)
Dear Helpless Love,
i know how you feel because when i was little people used to call me fat and ugly all the time so i am emotionally wounded now eventhough ppl say im pretty and i used to be scared because i would wonder what they would say and i didnt want a broken heart but I think personally that you should tell him on the computer somehow and ex out of the box so you wont have to keep looking at it and maybe he will like you back or you could get one of your friends to ask him if he likes u or you could tell them to tell him for you thats what i used to do it helps alot not having to do it in person and well i wish you the best of luck!!


All my friends say im pretty... But still no one notices me. And i think im really ugly! What can i do!!!

_ Ugly Baby Guh _ (link)
Dear Ugly Baby Guh,
well i used to think i was ugly all the time until my friend taught me that if u think that you are ugly then you will be ugly and if you think you are pretty them you seem pretty to people(unless if michael jackson did that) lol Well you friends say your pretty then you probably are pretty and don't feel bad guys dont notice me either. well just think positive and thinga will probably work out. Hope I helped!
.: le


i like this guy but he ignores me. People say he likes me but it just doesnt see, right! what should i do?
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_ Miss Lonley _ (link)
Deat Miss Lonely i know how you feel see i have been in those situations alot of times. we just don't know that kind of stuff it's really odd! And also don't doubt youself so much. usually if a girl thinks shes pretty she's pretty and if ppl say they are ugly and keep shoving it in their faces that person will start thinking they are ugly cause they act like they are. You see even if they are the prettiest person in the every bodys life isn't perfect. i hope i helped.. a little
-le




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