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ok, i have this friend, actually she is my girl friend, her name is kelly, and kelly is really good friends with amy. but amy is one of those people that her mom babies the HELL out of. and my mom keeps tellin me to try to stay away from those types of people cause in highschool and colage they are the ones who end up doing drugs-sex-alchohal (sp) ect... and i really want to keep kelly away from all that. But like i said, they are really good friends. i feel really bad for trying to break up their freindship, but i am affraid if kelly is exposed to all that, then she will too...im just really worried about her. should i go through with my plan to break them up (both friend wise and im posotive amy is atleast bi-if not completly a lesbien) or should i just try to ignore it and nothing will prolly happen. please help! (link)
If my boyfriend tried to make me choose between my good friend and him. I would choose my good friends because they weren't the people that were making me make that decision in the first place. She'll dump you if you keep bugging her about it. Leave it alone. I'm a chick, I know these things.


this is a really long story. to start out, were all 14, in 8th grade and catholic. well there its this couple (Anne&Bob). theres a girl(cat) whose a friend of ours...ive never really been able to stand her but i do to be nice. well Bob and i think thats Cat is hitting on Anne in a lesbian kind of way. shes always hugging on Anne (well on a lot of girls but now mostly her) and sitting on her lap and playing with her hair.shes kissed her on the cheek before but she never kissed her bf.. she dumped him last b/f for no appereant reason, shes constantly telling Anne that she loves her (anne thinks its just "sisterly" love) but basically, Bob and i have decided that she is bi but isnt going to come out anytime soon b/c her family is full of strict catholics...how should we/i approach Anne about this? Anne and Bobs relatioship is changing b/c anne feels like she needs space after being crowded by Cat all day long. they are good friends and Anne is one of those very emotional type people that is very concerned about being fair and looking at peoples feelings....i just dont want her to get into a situation like that and i doubt her bf would want her to either. btw, anne would never be gay...ive known her about twice as long as Cat. if you have any experience with this please help! (link)
first of all, it wouldn't matter if she was straight/bi/ or even a lesbian. it doesn't even concern you. second of all, you need to stop being such a nosy little slut because we both know that if you found out that she was bi, you would freak out and tell her that you couldn't talk to her anymore, and you'd tell your parents and blah blah blah. get over the fact that "god" really gives a shit that you are straight/bi/ or gay. if there is a "god" he wouldn't judge you upon what you do, he would judge you on whether or not he is your savior. stop being such a nosy little bitch and get the fuck over it. shit. people like you bother the shit outta me.


well about a month ago..my firend lorena had a party...it was so much fun..and nothing but lots and lots of dancing! well this guy scott picked me, and we were dacing! towards the end of the party, scott came up to me and introduced himself. i knew he was older, so before he got to ask my number i told him 2 ask me how old i am..he did..and i told him im only 14...she got all surprised n like walked off because he was dissapointed..before he left the party, he was like well you are very pretty, i had fun dancing wit you, but your juss too young for me...
now..last weekend my frend jessica seen him at another party, he asked for my number..and she gave him it..
this week @ skool, ive been talking to my frends (which are scotts friends too) they told me he has a 2 month old baby..and still talks to his baby-mama...
then tuesdae comes..and he texts me...so we texted that whole nite...n yesterday he shows up at my school...and he juss wasnt cute!..he looked so different from what i remember @ that party...i dont know what to do..because he is 18...with a baby...and hes trying to talk 2 me!...my frends dont like him...but i just dont know! (link)
tell him to leave you alone, and block his number.


14/m ive been going out with my gf for about 3 weeks now. i love her so much but we barely ever get to see each other since we go to dif schools. weve had wut u could call "intimate relationships" during the last few times we've been together haha. i like her a lot but with summer coming up & everything i dont know if i really wanna be held back from doing stuff with other girls because i am going out with someone that i see only about once a week. wut do u guys think i should i do? (link)
Well, first of all, you're only fourteen, and not in love, so don't say that, it's only been three weeks. Don't cheat on her, because then she'll tell all her chick friend's and make you look like a total douche bag. If you are having thoughts about messing around with other girls, you shouldn't even be with her in the first place, stop wasting her time, and stop wasting yours because if you aren't serious about a relationship you should save her the heartbreak.


I have this gigantic crush on this guy named bob, and i think he likes me too. But, theres also this other gut named billy who i also like.Now, i know for sure that billy likes me, he's even said so!I mean both guys are smart, funny, cute and nice, so who should i pick? (link)
I would say Billy because, well, you know for a fact that he likes you, and having an assumption about someone liking you (Bob) isn't a good idea, believe me. :] I hope I helped out :]




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