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well i just started dating this kid, let's call him john, and we are always hanging all over eachother. we just blend well physically, and are always caught kissing and hugging. i love being around him because i feel loved, but when we talk on the phone or it is just me and him we have hardly any conversation going. alot of the time we are just quiet when we are alone. how bad is this? is it a big deal or just something that will fade? should i reconsider our relationship? (link)
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Physical attraction is one component of a relationship, but it shouldn't be the only one. It appears you two enjoy the physical aspect of the relationship but have little in common in terms of communication and interests. I'm assuming your unhappy about this, otherwise you wouldn't have written this. Take a different approach to your relationship, try to communicate with him. If you find yourself in the same boat, then it's possible the relationship is based only on the physical aspect. Trust your intuition. Good luck, let me know what happens.
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Why is love so confusing, hard to understand? I don't know if i like my friend or not... He was in one of my classes last year and I only really got to know him this year. My date for homecoming is a guy who I became friends with just this year, he's in three of my classes. While talking to him today, I casually asked him if he was doing anything after school today because I wanted to go over to his house to see his new dog. But then he told me, "listen, i want to go to homecoming with you, but i don't want to go out." Ouch. If i had wanted to go out with him, I would have been hurt. But I told him i had no intentions of going out with him. But now that i think about it, the day before, he seemed mad at me and was avoiding me for some reason, and i felt really depressed about it. It was only till i talked to him and he told he wasnt mad at me that I felt better... does that mean i like him? Because when he finally talked to me, my heart started beating really hard... does that mean i like him? Any advice will be appreciated :) (link)
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Boy's and their ego's. Rejection, whether it be by someone their interested in or not can stir up negative emotions, It hurts their self concepts, their self esteem. Based on the information you provided and your responses to certain situations, I believe you have a crush. Ask him to a movie, see what he say's. If he say's yes Perhaps a relationship will grow. If he say's no, then maybe friendship is all it was meant to be. Let me know what happens. Good luck...
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i know this is asked a LOT but..
i like this guy. by these few things, does he like me do you think?
-he whispers "(my name) is such a slut!" so i can hear it then im like yur cool nd he smiles
-he was lying down nd i layed on him nd he was like just talking to me nd smelling my hair nd putting his finger near my face..lol it was cute thou
-he wanted to c if i could bite him so hes like walking his hands down my face nd feeling my lips
-he was on the computer nd my other friend was on a computer rite next to him, i was in the middle reading both ;). well he IMs "(my name) is a whore" nd stuff like like nd im laughing or wutever
-he was playing football with everyone nd he goes "come on (my name) tackle me!" (so i did hahaha, i was the only one that could, was he being easy on me..?)
-i sat next to him on the couch nd he goes "eww i dont want to sit next to (my name)" nd i just ignore it while he puts a pillow between us. then he goes "im just kidding u kno that right?"
-my friend who he was IMing next to me, she said "i think he likes you!"
do u think..?
ps-ill rate 5's for EVERYTHING thats not smart a**! cause this was long! (link)
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I think he may like you, but why would you allow him to call you such names. He may be kidding but that still doesn't make it o.k. Perhaps he has a negative or false view about you, and if that's the case, he may not respect you. As I stated earlier, he may like you, but make sure it's for the right reasons. Let me know what happens...
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