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i've been going out with this adorable junior for 4 months now. at first, i never thought it would work out because im the freshman girl who is shy and has never been with a guy before. but since the first time we met he took my heart. things have been going great, but im afraid he dedicated himself too much to me?
To me, it just doesn't seem right. He's Mr. Popular, quarter back of the football team and like abercrombie model looks; and im just the freshman girl. we've gone as far as oral but in the past month i've really wanted to have sex with him. i ask him all the time about it but he said he doesnt want to. (He already had sex before by the way.) He said he doesn't want to take the thing away from me that is most precious unless i love him.
You dont understand though, like i WANT to have sex with him so bad, but he doesn't want to take it away from me at such a young age unless im sure i love him. He tells me he loves me but it's hard for me to say "i love you" back and really mean it.
Does he not like me anymore? It's just he's so nice and i know for a fact he never cheated on me before or is seeing another girl. Should i drop the whole sex subject?! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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he has a point. you should hold on to your virginity as long as possible. he is respecting you by saying no. i'm sure he still loves you and it sounds like you two are a really good couple. but, you have only been going out for 4 months. if i were you, i would drop the sex subject for a while. he is respecting you by saying no even though you want to have sex and don't hate him for it. i'm sure he's a nice guy. just drop the subject for a little while and maybe bring it up again in a few months, and if he still says no then repeat the process: "1.ask 2. if he says no, drop it 3. ask a few months later 4. repeat steps 1-3 till satisfied"
i hope i helped.
--lazy_one--
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For valentines day, i want to attach lyrics to a love song on the card i'm giving to my boyfriend. I dont kow what song to use though. Does anyone know any cute songs that has a meaning of loving some one more than anything? Thanks so much (link)
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There is a country song called 'Amazed'. it has been voted the No.1 Love SOng of all time. It is by Lonestar. you can find the lyrics at www.cowboylyrics.com my b/f and i love this song and whenever we hear it we sing it to each other. it is a really good song.
hope i helped
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OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks! (link)
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i'm 14, too. i also don't have a b/f. don't worry about it. do you hang out with guys? if you do, one of them might like you and you don't know it. are there any guys you like? if so, are you friends or do you admire him from across the room? it all depends. you may get a b/f soon. trust me, you won't go all through high school without one.
hope i helped
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