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okay.. for my period last month it lasted three weeks.. and it was dark.. and i have no idea wut it means.. an i have had sex and now this month i havent had it yet and im freakin out because i dont know wut it meant for bein all dark red. i am on the pill and i didn't get it for that month so i used my moms.. would that have anything to do with it? and.. how can i tell if i am pregnant without gettin a test yet..? (link)
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There's really no way to check if you're pregnant or not without a test that I'm aware of. Some girls get their periods while they're pregnant and sometimes your stomach doesn't even grow.
Using your mom's birth control might have something to do with it but you should probably go to your doctor about it. There could be something wrong and you should be safe. Also, you shouldn't take medicine that isn't prescribed to you. Birth control does have different levels and hers might be different than yours. There are weak birth controls and strong ones.
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Okay well theres this guy i really like, he found out i liked him from a bunch of people ( i was there when this happened ) the thing is before he knew i liked him we would hang out allot usually with a group of people and he would drive me home from school. The night he found out he acted like he liked me too by putting his arm around my waiste and sitting with next to me. It was just that night though and now in school i see him but im afraid to go up to him and talk to him, im afraid it might be awkward for him and me both plus i dont know what to say! I really want to know if he feels the same way about me! Should i just wait it out and see what will happen like i have been or should i be confident and start flirting and talking to him more?
Thanks soo much -xO- kAiiLa (link)
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Well if he was flirting with you the night he found out he probably does like you. Don't avoid him. Just be upfront about your feelings so he knows how you feel. Talk to him about his feelings because you never know!
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hello im a lesbian nd theres this really hott gurl that i wnna have sex with she said yes but.. muh answer is maybe wat should i tell her GIVE ME SOME ADVIZE! (link)
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Well if you wanted to have sex with her and she said yes, then I don't think there's really much to tell her. If you changed your mind just let her know.
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hey, im 16 & i really like this guy...we used to talk & everything but it kinda faded away & we never got to be g/f & b/f cuz i wasnt ready yet..now he has a new girlfriend. he already knows i "like" him but doesnt really know everything..i have so much to say to him but im scared to say it.. what should i do? =/...thanks (link)
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Don't say anything if he has a girlfriend. Chances are he'll tell her and she'll think you're trying to steal him from her and then the drama will occur. Wait until they're broken up and find another guy to hang out with and stuff. If you end up telling him, be prepared for the reprecussions because most guys will tell their girlfriends what other girls say to them.
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oh. well i have a friend, and we both have gotten wicked close in the past two years. we hang out with each other and all our friends and its usually at her house. but all of a sudden i started talking to her brother a lot. he talks to me online and stuff and we make plans together. i dont want anything to go on between us because i know that if something goes wrong then i might lose her friendship, which is really tough to get anyway. me and her family [including her brother] have plans this week and he said he was going to show me how to play the guitar. what should i say to him? cuz i really do like him. thanks x0x0 * jp (link)
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Let him teach you how to play guitar but don't tell him you like him. Friendship lasts longer than boyfriends/girlfriends do. If you're willing to risk your friendship then you should go for it but personally I don't feel a friendship is worth risking.
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Ok well theres this kid in my school that i like..hes really cute..but i already know he dont like me cause he likes one of my good friends..and well hell flirt with me but i dunno..i really like him but im embarrassed to tell him cause imnot the best with guys like every guy i told him i liked dont like me literally..and i dont know what to do..i mean i dunno if its me or my looks or what..cause i mean im not the prettiest girl or skinest girl and i dunno if its cause of that..i dont know what to do..plea help...
much luven... (link)
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If a guy doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not worth liking either. Tell the guy how you feel. If he flirts with you he may like you back. Be confident because when you're confident, it shows and guys are attracted to girls with confidence.
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
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If you really like him then it doesn't matter what other people say. Age is just a number and if you like the guy, you should be with him. If you wait too long to answer him he may move on and you'll lose something great you could have had.
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Okay, Im 13 (girl) and my boyfriend asked if he could finger me, but nobody ever did it to me, and I don't know if it would hurt or not, does it hurt? Because I really wanna go farther with him, instead of just 'making out'.And then he asked if later on we could have sex.I meen, I want to and everything, but im scared that it'll hurt to much or ill get pregnent. XoXo *AmberO* (link)
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I personally don't think fingering hurts if it's done right. Make sure you're wet enough because since the fingers don't have natural lubrication, if you're dry and his fingers are dry, it'll hurt.
Sex always hurts the first time but there really isn't much you can do to avoid that. If you're stretched out enough and wet enough it'll hurt less. Pregnancy is always a risk and if you feel you aren't ready for the consequences then you shouldn't be sexually active.
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hey* im a 14 year old female and i've been in a relationship for about 8-9 months and i've been kinda worrying because im afraid my relationship may become abusive in the long run ... but i don't know because he doesnt look liek the type to hit his girlfriend .. but i love him so much and we both lost our virginity to eachother. He's never hit me before besides one time he grabbed me but not really hard but apologozed for it but he seems to always tell me wat to wear what to do .. not wat to say and all that kind of stuff wat should i do cuz i mean i dont want to loose him so what should i do ? thanx :( (link)
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Being controlling is the first step to an abusive relationship in most cases. I've been in one before and it's not all that fun. He may be telling you what to wear because he doesn't want other guys looking at you. Some guys do that because they're insecure and think you're gonna get taken or something. Talk to him about it and ask him why he tells you what to do a lot because he might have a logical explanation for his actions and if he doesn't, try to get out of the relationship before he ends up hurting you physically.
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okay .. like i went out with this guy for three months and he broke up with me 3 times because he wasn`t sure ... but he liked me so much I mean he talked about me to his friends and stuff, but then the last time we broke up he just kinda ... changed! NOW he is acting really rude and whenever he feels like it he talks to me and is nice and everything and i still really like him and he still wants to go back out later on but he is really ... acting rude now! (( oh and the times he broke up with me it was mostly for other girls cuz he wasn`t sure )) soo... what should i do ?? cuz i luved him and I dunno wat to do now i mean i can`t just forget about him?? (link)
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The best thing to do would probably be try to find another guy. This guy is just messing with your head and you don't deserve that. If he really likes you he shouldn't be "unsure" about everything each time you go out with him. Being with another guy will get your mind off of him.
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hey! i have a problem okay well i started qoin out with this boy and i really thought i had feelings for him but when we were holding hands ive realized that there nothing there and all i could think about was my ex tomorrow night he's taking me out to the movies and i feel really bad cause i wanna break up with him but i dont know how cause he's been telling everybody that he's happy now ugh! please help me out thanks *mwachz* (link)
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Being considerate of other people's feelings is always a good thing but sometimes you do have to make sure you're happy. If you're not happy with him then break up with him with the truth. Let him know how you feel and why you feel this won't work out between you both. He'll move on eventually.
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hi im 14 and ALL my friends have already made-out with guys except me. i really want to but i'm scared i might chicken out or mess up .. can you help ? (link)
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Don't just kiss a guy because your friends are pressuring you into it. Find a guy you like and go out with him a few times and wait until he's your boyfriend and you feel comfortable because a lot of times kissing can lead to other things. Don't do anything just because of peer pressure. You'll regret it later.
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hey .. well i;ve been dating my boyfriend for a while now` i would say about 9 months alltogether and we were perfect, we would always be together adn be happy and than out of no where the last month he has been a complete dick head and never wants to hang out, so i have been hanging out with one of my best guy firends latly and i think im kinda starting to like him but i really like my boyfreind but hes mean to me . is it normaL for guys to just change out of no where?
«3aLwayz`katie
(15) (link)
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Yes. Guys are weird. Sometimes they're okay and sometimes they're not. Definitely PMS (pissy man syndrome) lol but you may want to talk to your boyfriend about it and just tell him you feel he's been rude to you a lot lately and that if he no longer wants to be with you it would hurt you less to know the truth than have him continue being weird.
You probably like your best guy friend because you're close to him and you're being treated badly right now so when someone is nice to you, you're just "wow." If you decide that you'd rather be with your best guy friend make sure it's not just because you're on the rebound.
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I broke up with my bf because, I sorta didn't trust him..(things happened). and like i've been thinking a lot about him lately.. and he still likes me he told me and we talk like everyday...but lately we dont talk as much and things arent the same. today i told him i miss the things we used to do together wen were dateing. and he said "i dont know if i miss them." =[ and that reallyyyy hurt me.... (link)
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Maybe he has another girl in the picture. Try to move on and find another guy. If you're meant to be together he'll come back to you. He may mean that he doesn't miss dating because of the "things that happened." Just hold your head up and find another guy who won't hurt you.
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I'm a girl and theres this boy at my school and I think I like him but I don't know if he likes me. I think he does like me but then I don't. My friends think I like him.I don't know what to do should I ask him out or what? This kid is like one of my good friends and if i ask him out and he says no then I'll feel wired around him. I want a boyfriend bad but I have no idea what to do.Please give me advice on what to do! (link)
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Don't ask him out because you want a boyfriend. Make sure you like him a lot and that it would work and not end within two days. Friction can be caused if you ask him out and he says no. Find out how he feels first and let him know how you feel. Things will be awkward at first more than likely but you'll feel better about it because he knows and you know. If he doesn't like you then you can find someone else who does and not be hung up on him wondering about his feelings towards you.
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I'm 13 and I went out with a guy a year older than me for a month. We broke up because we don't see eachother. He talks to me all the time and tells me he loves me. He wants to go back out with me, but there's a problem. He's moving to Arizona this summer. (I live In Michigan) He told me to go to college out in Arizona, and I know thats another 5 years from now and he'll probably find someone else, but I honestly think he's the one for me. I can't live without him. What should I do? (link)
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He probably will date other people and so will you. People get caught up in feelings and tell each other they're in love when it's just infatuation. Since college is five years away for you, keep in contact with him and if he doesn't feel like you're the one anymore or you no longer feel that he's the one then don't move to Arizona just for him. Take things day by day and let whatever happens happen.
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Hi, i think i like this guy in school but i think he might like someone else wut should i do? And a other question, there is this kid who is in love with me and he wont leave me alone and i really dont want to brake his heart what should i tell him? (link)
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If you think the guy likes someone else, tell him you like him and see how he feels. You'll get your feelings out and you never know. He might like you and just not want to tell you.
The kid in love with you.. Just sit down and talk to him and tell him that you don't mean to hurt his feelings but you need him to try to move on now before he ends up getting hurt really bad in the end because you don't like him and you probably never will. Try to compliment him when you tell him this and tell him like how many other girls would probably consider going out with him and that stuff.
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well.. last week i went to a party and this wicked hot was comming onto me. and practically the whole party we talked, and by the end of the night we ended up making out. and he thought i was kool and got my number. i got his sn and he said for me to i/m him. so hes usually online with an away message up. and when he does come bak and i i/m him he puts up an away and then never responds bak! im gettin so confused, cause i thought we had sumthing and i wanted to hang out with him again. idk if i should just wait ? help me! thanx babe (link)
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Just wait until he's actually on. He's probably not avoiding you cuz a majority of the time that most guys are online they're away. At least on my buddy list.. lol. So don't sweat it. Wait for him to call you and if he doesn't call you in like two weeks, then just forget him. Guys are dumb. lol
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ok..I'm 13 years old and I have a best friend..hes a guy and we've been like best friends for 3 years we tell each other everything. I think I'm starting to like him...we had a school dance and I asked him to dance with me just as friends but after that i started to like him...should i tell him...or keep it on the low..? I dunno what to do..? (link)
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I say tell him. Honesty is the best policy. He might be a little distant after awhile but if you don't start acting weird around him he'll get over it. I've done it before and they always get over it. lol.
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hey im 13 and my best friend and i are in a fight and i dont know what to do. she asked if me and a couple of our friends wanted to go to the skate park and we said we could, but then i found out my two other friends couldnt so i didnt wanna leave them behind so i told my friend thats mad at me i couldnt go.. and she got to pissed at me.. and now she keeps calling me and cursin at me and stuff and wont even talk to me// idk y she doesnt understand...what can i do to help her not being mad at me anymore? :-(
thnx for helpin!:)
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Ask the two girls who couldn't go to let your friend know that's why you didn't go.
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