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I didn't no what catagory to put this in, so here we go.
How can I have more fun with life?
I mean just be more out there? (link)
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Try new things, even if your not sure you'll like it. Do things at random, the best memories are the ones that you don't see coming. Don't do something your not comfortable with, but try to do something u never thought you would do.
Here's some ideas...
Eat some place new and different
go to an open mic night, and sing
introduce yourself to 5 new people.
join a club
throw a themed party
little things like that can help you break out of your shell
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Okay, So I have a boyfriend & I've only just started dating him(a week). The other night i brought up a conversation about flirting and he told me that he flirts BUT he doesn't cheat, and that its harmless flirting. His sister told me he's never cheated either & wouldnt cheat(he tells her everyting). but i still feel uncomfortable about the flirting bit, even though his sister told me theres nothing to worry about.
My friend spoke to him and he said thats just how he is. he told me he has a lot of reallyyy close friends but they're like little sisters to him and nothing more. We have a thing in our relationship where we dont deny if something is wrong, but we dont have to talk about it.
I've met pretty much all his friends & he doesnt act weird with me when being around them & when he's at school, he acts normal(kissing me, holding me, being with me, etc) & everyone knows im his girlfriend so he's not trying to hide the fact that im his girlfriend or anything.
He's not good at showing much emotion, and i was warned about that before we dated. But I want him to open up. How do I get him to open up more? Or should I just not bother and let him be if he doesnt wanna talk about it?(he & his ex girlfriend of 4 years fought ALL the time because of the not showing emotion thing) so i dont want to be like her.
I just get confused about how he feels sometimes when he avoids telling me whats wrong.
someone helpp? (link)
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Give it time, if he a starts feeling comfortable around you he may open up. You have a better chance of getting more out of him, if you give more of yourself. Trust works both ways.
But remember, you were warned. That puts some responsiblity on you. If you care about him, stick by him. It may be worth it.
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i went on vaca, fell for a guy, came home, and lost feelings for my bf of 6 months. weve been fighting, and i wanted to b/u with him cuz i still like the other guy. my bf clearly has much more feelings for me then i do for him. im too scared to break up with him. i tried and the words didnt come out. i ended up saying something else. i dont know how to gather up the courage to do it. we stopped fighting, and unless we start fighting agiain, i dont think i could just say what i want to say out of nowhere. will i know when the right moment is or will i keep putting it off until he breaks up w. me?
i just need some support here lol im very stressed and i have no clue what to do. thanks (link)
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First thing is you should be honest with him. If you don't have the same feelings for him as he does you, then tell him. Don't bring it up random, ease into it. There is no right moment to hurt someone you care about. But its better to tell him now, the longer you wait, the harder it will hurt him.
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