My name is Kim. I'm 19 years old and married my soul mate. We have a beautiful daughter. I love having fun and helping people. I have always wanted an article in the newspaper where I could give advice. Like and "Ask Kim" type thing. Still working on it and don't plan to give up.
E-mail: kimc514@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: binghamton ny
Occupation: home-maker
Age: 19
Member Since: November 12, 2008
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I want to get my bf something really sweet and cute, but something that he'll actually use alot, and think of me when ever i use it. We've been dating for almost a year now so i want to get him something special. But he's kinda tight on money right now so i want to get him something pretty cheap because i dont want him to feel like he should have gotten me something expencive. So for sure under $40. And i have absolutely no idea what to get him :( HELP (link)
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buy him his favorite cologne. Or an earring if he wears them or a necklace that he'll wear.
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today i realized that i'm in love with my boyfriend of 3 months. we haven't said "i love you" cause we both want to wait until we really mean it. but i hear from all his friends and basically like everyone that he "likes me soo much and talks about me all the time" ...i really want to say "i love you" but i don't want to be the first one to say it...
and also the thing with me is that this is my first relationship so i'm not really pro on knowing the difference between love and lust, he makes me wet but its more than that i also love to hang out with him and cuddle with him and just be with him.
so my question is what do you think im feeling? please dont tell me you'll know if its love because i think it is...just advice on the whole saying "i love you" ..thankss.
16/f (link)
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you will truly know when to say it. it will just slip out without you even thinking about it. that's the joy of love.
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So there is this guy. We've been friends for like 3 years, and I've always liked him but never told him. The other day, we were hanging out and he kissed me. Of course, I was really excited. But, I don't really know if he meant anything by it; I mean, we were all alone and he might have just been caught up in the moment. I know the reasonable thing to do would be to ask him about it, but I'm pretty sure he'll just say "oh no, that kiss meant nothing". Like, it was such a good moment that I want to remember it as something sepcial, not as something that didn't mean anything. I know that sounds stupid but I just don't want to ruin that memory...and I'm thinking maybe if I don't say anything and we hung out more, it would happen again, you know? Eh. I really don't know what to do. (link)
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If you've like him for that long and he finally kissed then I think that it's time you confessed your feelings. If you two can have alone time then that would be when I told him. Start off the conversation with..."I want you to listen to what I have to say before you say anything." Tell him about how the kiss meant a lot to you and then tell him your feelings. At the end of telling him all of this ask him what he feels.
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Okay, well there is this boy in my school who thinks he can touch girls and flirt with everyone, smack they're asses. I didn't realize before, but he played me hard. I used to like him so much, i can't believe i didn't see it! So my question is, how can i get him back? like, how can i make him want more, or how can i play him? Be that one girl that he wants,but won't get. Would ignoring him be the best solution? I just don't know where to begin, but any advice would do, ugh i'm so angry! thank youu so much :] 15/f (link)
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The biggest thing that men hate is to be ignored. For some reason it just tweaks them. Try to make other girls realize just how much of a jerk he is and get everyone to ignore him too. He will be so shut out that he will come running to you asking you for help.
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