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I'm Jimmy. You would love to be my friend.
I'm Jimi. I am 16 years old. I have alot of friends. I love all of my friends very much. I love my girlfriend Samantha to death. I love life and I try to cherish it as much as possible. I am a wide ranged musician. I study martial arts, mainly Taekwondo. I love music more than life itself and I would die without it. I go to Aquinas and I despise the kids there but most of the teachers are pretty awesome. I do not know what I believe but I believe in a higher power. I love astronomy and no I am not a nerd. I will fight for what I believe in till the end. I rarely give up. I like attention. I wan't to teach martial arts someday. I am an outgoing person. I can either be really loud or really quiet. I am extremely hygenical. My favorite foods are Crab Rangoons, Sushi, Dumplings, and Noodles. I am friendly for the most part.

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ok so my gf has to work at school every day of the week and i want to go see her, but the problem is i dont have a ride. so i thought about walking, but she is very against it, even though i live maybe 7 miles away. i am used to walking long distnaces and i am willing to do it so dont convince me not to on behalf of that, i just want to know should i not do it because she is mad, because she still really wants me to come, and maybe it would be a supirise

I would go I think it's manup to do that haha.

Go for it she won't be mad, she'd go crazy cuz she'll tell you not to but if you do she will love it, just the fact that you did that just to see her.

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This is long, I'm saying this now ..

Okay I met this boy, Ben.. its not that important but when we met we were sorta flirting but we only talked for like 5 minutes. so I told my friend to hook me up with him[as a joke/not really] and he goes Ben do you remember Melissa and Bens like yeah and my friends like do you wanna go out with her and Bens like well I dont know her that well && I dont like having a girlfriend and then my friend told him I just wanted to hook up[well texted him so I dont think he got it]

Well I IMed him, and well hes not too talkative, and he wasnt for awhile but then, we actually talked for a little bit about basketball and stuff.

On Friday my friend Lexi and I went to a festival, and when I first got there he went walking over towards us and then his friend said something so he went with them. Well my friend Lance is his neighbor so they're friends too, but I was getting boyfriends and dumping them? like fake ones ya know haha, but one told me he was cheating on me, so I went up to Lance[he was with ben] and said Lance your my new boyfriend! and Ben kinda just looked at me and said something to his friend and walked away, but Ben would keep walking real close to me, but not talk and then he'd look at me for a few seconds and walk away. So I finally went over to him when he was with my friend Lance and Zach. He starting making fun of my foot, cause I have really small feet. He goes "What size shoe is that? A 3?!" and I said "No, it's a 7 but its too big." Then there was this flamingo clawish thing, I'm not sure how to explain it, but he was being gay and grabbing guys balls with it, and then I told him to do it to this kid Tom and he was like No he'll get mad.. but I told him to just do it so he did and Tom sort of did get mad. Then this fight broke out and I went with Ben and Lance & Zach went somewhere else, and I asked Ben what happened and he said he didn't know, but he was going to get some girls with this thing[flamingo claw] so he went and starting grabbing girls butts. Then I was with some of my friends and[okay ben is right behind us] my friend jeff asks who do i like and then max starts yelling MELISSA LIKES BEN! and I was trying to convince him I didn't so I said I liked Timmy, and they let it go. Well right after that Ben came over and my friend Max was like Melissa you don't even have to get on your knee's cause your so short and Ben was dying laughing and was like oh thats a good one and I was talking about this bruise on my knee and Ben's like oh what were you doing?! and I just laughed and started talking about something else, then he asked if I was leaving with Lance cause they were and I said no and hes like oh okay peace.

I talked to him on AIM and I thought the conversation was pretty good, but I'm not so sure. I like him a lot, but I honestly don't think he likes me, well I think he might a little bit.. The reason I think this is because of my friends, they said if he didn't like you whenever he talked or walked by he would be with girls. Although whenever he wasn't looking at me he was with a lot of girls and they were all over him, but idk. What do you think?


ps. I'm sorry this is so long.

Seems like he's a wannabe player.

haha.

But I mean it depends I agree you should,ve told him you liked him rather than saying you liked someone else.

He might be doing those things to get your attention.

Just keep talking to him not like stalkerishly but as much as you can without it being stalkerish.

Get to know him and let him get to know you.

And eventually you'll notice if he likes you or not or if he might. At that point just bring it up in conversartion casually. Ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel.

yup yup. =)

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I'm kinda bored at my house.
I was wondering if you had any ideas of what I could do with my boyfriend. To distract ourselves from making out. :]

Things at house and things away from house. I'm going to dye his hair but not any time soon, so I'm not sure what to do.


We are up for anything really. To watching disney movies to taking pictures.. going to a park. I don't want to do the same things in case he gets bored.

Ideas?

Movies are pretty cool but make sure both you actually wanna watch cause if one of you don't it will end up with a makeout session.

Uhh go to the park like you said, and bring some snacks, and a blanket lay down and do some cloud watching, lol talk about what you see in the clouds, go stargazing its fun and romantic.

If you have a go kart place then go go-karting

If you have a laserquest or lasertag place then go lasertagging.

Make eachother lunch at your house.

Take turns making lunch for each other.

Play fun video games, not dude video games.

Play games like Kareoke revolution, Guitar hero.
If you have them of course.

Go for walks.

Babysitt together if you can set that up.
I like that one it's alot of fun.

Draw some pictures for eachother, play with some coloring books lol.

Lay down and listen to your favorite songs with him.

Be creative and be safe!

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