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Well, this is my first time asking a question on one of these things, but I'll give it a shot. Er, female, 13.
So, I've got a friend at school who's a guy, and I'm starting to think I might like him... Like, romantically, or however you'd put it. Anyways, I'm not really sure if he likes me back. At times I think he does, but then he turns around and just acts like his normal self. He's a really nice guy, but he's kinda defensive and doesn't tell a lot of people what he's feeling. I really like him, but I wouldn't want to wreck our friendship... Advice? (link)
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If you think he's worth it, tell him you like him. If he's your friend, things won't change if he doesn't too much. Just say "Okay, I have to tell you something and if you don't feel the same way it's okay, but I have to know" If he does, awesome!! If he doesn't, well it sucks, but just say "okay, well I had to tell you. But I don't want anything to change now." If you don't you'll probably end up regretting it. I'm speaking from personal experience. Okay well good luck!! and God bless! xo*Jesuschick
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im so depressed. im 13 and ive never had a bf! most of my friends have. i have golden blonde hair and crystal blue eyes. no guys like me at all. i really want a boyfriend. at this point all i want in a guy is a pulse. my friend, i personally think shes gorgeous(not in a lezboe way) she has a boyfriend i can understand that. what i cant uderstand is that my other friend, not appealling at all, yellow,crooked teeth,chubby. shes had like 3 in 2 years and guys are all over her! i dont get! please help! (link)
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You're thirteen!! You have plenty of time to find a guy as you get older. If you stop worrying about it so much and gain more self confidence, guys will find that totally attractive. You sound really nice and I'm sure the perfect guy is out there somewhere, you just haven't met him yet. Don't settle for just anyone, that could be bad. Just be patient and try to have fun while you're still young!! xxoxo*Jesuschick
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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!
antoinette
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Any guy who calls you that and is serious is not worth your time. If he was seriously just kidding then you need to let him know that it's never appropriate to be called that by him and that it upset you. If he really did mean it though, dump the jerk. He is a loser. Good luck and God bless...xoxo*Jesuschick
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theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!! (link)
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If you like him, go for it!! If everyone else hates him who cares? They just haven't taken the time to get to know him like you have... good luck!! xoxo*Jesuschick
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A couple weeks ago, I had a dream that my guy friend kissed me. I woke up not wanting it to stop and I was really mad that it was just a dream. I started to think that maybe I had feelings for him just a bit and when I saw him a few days after that I was acting all weird and shy. I dunno what I should do. I'm too scared to talk to him!
xxx Keely (link)
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You should just talk to him. Maybe tell him something like "Yeah I had this dream the other night, and..."explain the dream..."and I woke up and I was kinda like, oh dang." It's casual but let's him know how you feel. You sound like your crushing...and who knows.. maybe he is too!! Good luck xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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Im not so sure what topic this would be placed under but...
i recived a phone call 2 nights ago on my cell phone and this guy keeps calling hes tried to have phone sex over the phone with me but i refused and i dont no who he is but he says he nos everything about me he has told me my address and street city state number of siblings and so on.. and he called me again yesterday telling me if im shy again that he is going to f*** the hell out of me till i am dead and i dont no what to do he told me i better not tell anyone because he said he would make my death more pain full... could this be a prank? or serious... im confused and dont no what to do PLEASE HELP ME ASAP
i rate 5 plz help me (link)
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It's probably someone you know if they can tell you all that stuff about yourself but if I were you I'd talk to your parents and tell them what's going on. I know it's embarassing but they will have a better clue of what to do. Maybe you should also get your cell number changed. Make sure you at least talk to some adult about it because that is the kind of stuff that leads to getting out of hand. Good luck God bless xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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Well i was on the computer and i met this guy and we talked for a while and now we are going out but i have not even seen him in person and we both know we are the one for eachother but will this work out not seeing eachother for a while??? and will it work if you talk everynite 2 eachother and stuff ????? NEED HELP FAST !!! THANX (link)
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I have a friend who thought her online boyfriend was perfect, and then met him and he was nothing like she ever wanted. This also isn't very safe; I mean how do you know he isn't some like 50 year old disgusting guy named Crusty? My advice is to end the relationship, because it will probably end up hurting you a lot, and no one wants that!! Good luck and God Bless xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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guys always use me and then dump me! i am sick of it, i can never have a real relatioship! they just like my looks! what should i do? its not like i give them any sometimes only (link)
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Well, my advice is don't go out with just any guy. Wait for one that you really know and that you know wouldn't use you and then dump you. Watch how he treats his family and close friends and how he talks about other girls, that's a good indication of who he really is... It's hard to find good guys out there, but I assure you that there will be someone out there who likes you only because of your dazzling greatness and not just your looks. You'll just have to wait to find him, which may take awhile, but he's there and he'll be worth it!!I'm still searching for mine too, so I know how you feel! The best of luck & God bless!! xoxo*Jesuschick
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How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older? (link)
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You should be married. No matter what age.
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
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Who cares what other people think. If you like him a lot and you think it's okay then you should totally go for it!! And what if you wanted to date a guy who was 2 years older than you? That would be socially acceptable. I say if you can date up, why can't he?
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okay im sorta new at this and i really need help so anyone that can i need to know how farr is too far on a first date? (link)
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If you are not completely comfortable with whatever is happening on your date, then it is too far. Don't feel pressured to do anything, and don't do things you aren't ready for.
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