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I dated this guy in primary(im now in high school) and it was a preety harsh brake up.Days after he ended it I started never coming out of my room. I still stay in my room but now i dont eat or drink and my body goes all tingley. I just need to know why it is. Can you help me??? (link)
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You're slowly giving up because you dont want to give him up and you want him back and nothing else so your losing your grip on life and what you feel, care about, and love is slowly going away. Your body is tingely because its trying to numb itself while holding on to what's left your system.
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Me and this guy have just started talking for like 3 months or so, but just recently weve gotton very close to one another. hes really sweet,he does basically everything a gentleman would do, he was never inappropriate and never crossed his limits.
now the thing is, he just broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago, and i just broke up with my ex boyfriend 5 months ago, we were both really heartbroken, we knew eachother back then but never payed much attention to eachother.I hear stuff about him from his best friend, typical guy things.. i heard he was like kind of over the top in his last relationship (controlling) but then when i come to talk to him, he talks to me about how much hes changed, and learned from alot of mistakes, ive heard things like him making out with this girl , or him flirting with this girl, so i dont really trust him that much.. now you see the thing is that, if were at the movies or in a cafe, hell start teasing me and like poking me , and id poke him back then hed hold my finger, then my other one, then my whole hand, and like intermingle our fingers together, and like the way he does it is SO affectionate, ever since we started talking i havent heard anything about him doing stuff with other girls, but i cant really know if it does or not cause i have no way of finding out. I dont know if hes playing around cause hes bored, or maybe he likes me and is on the rebound.. i dont know if i like him but all i know is that hes an amazing distraction and i think i may be falling for him, its a possibility. But how do i know the difference between him playing with me, or him liking me? if he was playing with me hed go farther, and he never did, i think holding hands is way more passion and affection. but i dont know if i should continue talking to him or not.. i tried moving my hands plenty of times but he just keeps trying (not forceful, but being sneaky about it) hes really nice and never did anything wrong to me,so i dont know if i should beleive what i hear or go with the flow. The way he tries to hold my hand, and like rubs my hands with passion is really cute and i dont really want to lose that.. so what do i do? :/ Im a girl, im 17 and hes 18 , thank youu. (link)
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He most likely likes you but if he is rubing your hand by taking his thumb and rubing it in your palm then he just wants sex. Hope it helps.
Jessie
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about five months. He is my best friend. He showers me with love, makes me laugh constantly, and is my personal diary. I could talk to him for hours and never get bored. It's like I have everything I could ever ask for in him. He always makes me feel so happy. We spend most of our time together, but we've given each other space since the holidays are around and I need to spend some time with my family.
Lately, I have been feeling very down about the whole relationship. I feel like I'm bringing him down. I'm very sensitive and I get very touchy about some of the things he says, even if it's just a joke. I get upset over stupid things, like when he came over early as a surprise. I was really mad and I got very bitchy. Most of the time recently, the things he does that I'd usually find funny or touching, I suddenly find it unappealing. I don't even know why. I know for a fact I would go insane without him, because he's pretty much everything to me. My family is very hard on me and I don't have a lot of friends, so he is basically my world. Last night I called him and told him to break up with me because I feel horrible. He does everything he can to please me and goes out of his way just for me, yet I get upset and bitchy over EVERYTHING. I hate this feeling. I know he deserves better. But every time I tell him that, he's like, "No, I love you and I'm going to fight for you, and I will fix this. You deserve me, I bet there's not any other girl that treats me as nice as you do, you're out of my league..blah blah blah." I'm very touched by this and my tears all fade but then the next day I feel like complete shit because I am taking him for granted. I want out because of it, but at the same time, he tries so hard to fix things and I just don't have the will to make it work. I'm just confused and emotional and scared. I feel like one day he'll reach his breaking point because I'm so neurotic. He is always assuring me because I've been hurt so badly by guys in my past. Why can't I just ever sit back and enjoy this? I say I'd fight for him but when it all comes down, I just don't want to. I just want him to give up on me. I love him with all my heart but I just think things are crashing down fast for us. He believes in me, but I don't believe in myself. I can't break from this depression.
I'm sorry if I seem like a selfish idiot to you. I'm just a teenager, I'm only sixteen and I've never had such a good relationship before like I have now, and I don't know what to do about it. I'm happy one day, then depressed the next day. Am I just being emotional or is something really wrong? What do you think I should do? I'm not myself at all. (link)
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You're probally going through emotional changes... you might wanna take a brake and see what the problem is and try to see if you're attracted to someone else... but first make it clear with him about what you're doing first so nothing bad happens.
Jessie
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