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how can i get over my ex. i really liked him and im really have a tough time being happy.

you just need to relize that he wasn't the right person for you... it might be hard now.. but give it some time... take some time and do the things you used to do before you started dating this guy... also start some new things... i just started a new hobby:making balloon animals with friends.. its fun.. and gives us lots of laughs which is something you need to do...
Just relize you wanted so much to be with the wrong person. Think how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.
good luck...

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I need help! This is about gifts for my boyfriend. I'm not quite sure what to do. I have a very low budget but I'm a very crafty/artsy person. I already made him a teddy bear with wings. But I want to buy him something cheap yet great as the months go on by it increases in value..

UI want something good for Christmas, then for his birthday in Feb and 10 days after that is our 1 year anniversary. I'm not sure what I should get for him since I have no job right now. Any ideas?

I want something very sweet & romantic for our 1 year. But i really don't know what.. I want to make a book and fill it up with things... but I don't know exactly what yet.

for his birthday... i'd say throw him a surprise birthday party.. act like you think his birthday is a different day... example: "I can't wait for your birthday next week" say that on the day of his birthday... that way he'll be even more surprised... then have someone.. a close friend or something take pictures of the party.. also some of him and you... you could make a scrap book out of these.. then make poems and put them in the book... you don't have to make them personally.. i bet you could find some cute ones on the internet....
hope everything works out!

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15/f
okay so i went to the beach back in the beginning of june and i met a bunch of guys. i kissed a couple of them, but this one for some reason, over four months later now, i still think about him everyday. i go on his myspace all the time and look at pictures of him from the beach like once a week. i play over little scenarios in my head of meeting him again somehow. this is not like me at all, ITS RIDICULOUS and i get mad at myself for it cause i know im never going to see him again, he lives like 6 states away from me. ive turned down guys at school bc i cant get this guy from the beach off my head. and i know hes long forgotten about me, i havnt talked to him in a couple months. what do i do!? is this even somewhat normal!?

any advice will be appreciated, sorry if its a little long..

If your having these feelings.. you should get to know this guy more... and so what if he's 6 states away... i have plans on meeting a guy who lives over 1700 miles away... about 6 states.. people can fall in love over the interent/phone calls or whatever... if you are having so many fantasies about this guy... then you need to do something about it.. I'd hate for you to think in 10 years you let a big part of your life slip by,... and if it doesn't help.. then whocares?! you can move on to other guys!
Good Luck

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Ok so I have a "friend" who lives like 8 hours away. We've been friends but i just recently moved and now we've been talking. We are like bf/gf but not actually. He and his chick friend[she has a bf] came to my place to visit so we could go to a theme park a few weeks ago and he slept with me and she slept on the couch. And we had sex[i'm 19and he's the second person i've ever had sex with..and i'm his 3rd]. They only stayed a day and then they had to go back home. I expected that we would finally be official but he told me that he was confused and he didn't know if it would work..he's also going into the army in like a month.And then the other day we talked and he still said that he really really likes me alot but he doesn't know how it will work. And so, but he still calls me baby and still acts like we are b/f and g/f but theoretically we are nothing so i'm soooo confused. SOMEONE TELL ME WHATS GOIN ON!!

..there's a possibility he's using you for sex... He might like you.. and want to start something after he is back from the army... but it might just be the right thing at the wrong time.. or a fun night before army...
hope i was helpful...

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okkay well lets see, friday i was with my bf and we were talking about what we were going to do saturday. && he was like im not doing anything, and i was liike okkay well then maybe we should do sumthinn together. and he was like yeah sounds good. so that nite he called me and he was like okay i am sure i can do summthin tomorow and i was like okay and we just decided i should go to his house. so i called him when i woke up and he said he will call when he gets about to leave from breakfast so i was like okay sounds good. so he calls and says hes about to leave so i get ALL READY and btw his parent LOVEE ME! and i was like are you sure i can come. and hes like POSITIVE. so he calls when im on my way to his house and hes like okay well im back from breakfast but my parents saaid no to you cumming over. i was like whyy? what happpened? and hes like nuttin idk but noone can come over today. SOO that nite i went to a friends house and she were like i talked to your bf today and he went to his X's (kori) house, and him and kori hung out. and hes having a big party 2nite with all his friends. so i was like WAIITT. he was with kori? && having a party 2nite AFTER HE SAID NOONE CAN CUMM OVER. and so i called him and when i said i HAVE to talk to him he was like well i have to go. talk to you tommorow. bye. and i was like WOAHHH.. and he hungg up. now i have been told that he still likes kori. so that made me more mad. so if all this is ture, should i give him a 2nd chance? or is that bad enough what he did? helpp! && thannks. sorry so longg. thanks for reading! =]]

Sometimes an ex can still be a big part of a person's life... i bet your boyfriend still liked his ex... and he is just giving you reasons to break up with him so he can have his ex... i know this sucks.. but guys are more times than not afraid of emotion and as hard to believe.. they don't like to hurt people... he cares for you i'm guessing.. but just cares for kori a little bit more... My advise tell him how you got hurt and let him see what happens with kori... If he wants that second chance.. give it to him.. if everything goes okay with his ex.. then you also need to move on.
good luck with everything! best of wishes

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well, about three months ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and we had been dating for about five months(we have been on and off for about two years though). Well, four days after we broke up he started dateing this other girl who is just well strange, and well now, i like him again, and yeah he goes out with this other girl still but it seems like he flirts with me alot.
FOR EXAMPLE:
-he texts me alot.
-he always tries to hang out with me.
-whenever i bring up another guy he is always curious if i have done anything with him.
-when he found out that i had a bf(a few mohts ago but we broke up) he acted kinda pissed, and then he decided that he didnt care...

do you think he actually like me or do you think that hes just being nice?

well when someone loves you... they're always going to love you...idk if you guys did love each other... but there had to be something with the two year on-off-again relationship... when he sees you with another guy... flashbacks of you guys will mostlikely pop into his head... and he will miss you and do the things you told about... there's always that possibilty that he likes you still... and your gonna miss him too... i personally know its no fun to be alone after so long... but sometimes... things just aren't right...
good luck.. and hopes everything works out right for you

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