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Okay, look me and my boyfriend are doing pretty good..."i guess" like we haven't argued or anything like that. But anyways! My boyfriend is really sweet and funny, but sometimes he frustrated me. He does this thing where he'll be all over me one day and the next day he will ingore me completely. But he stays ingoreing...sometimes a little and sometimes a lot. But over the summer we would have long night conversations like I love you and I miss you and things like that, and when we would hang out he would love being with me...but now that school has started he really hasn't been himself. Like I said he hangs out with his friends and doesn't pay much attention with me, but there was this one day where I hung out with his family at Chuckie Cheese (his lil sis bday) and he was all over me...its like at school he's different, and when it's just us he's different again...and I hate it..idk what to do with him...but breaking up ISNT an option...cause it not that serious (link)
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Just because you aren't arguing doesn't make you two "good." It is "good" when you are happy, or at least content. Don't settle for anything less! If you are unhappy with his up-and-down attitude, you need to tell him. I completely understand why you are upset with his new attitude- because he acted so drastically different earlier in your relationship.. and you liked it better. (I am currently dealing with the same thing with my boyfriend.) The point is, you need to communicate with him. Seriously, communication is key. I've learnt that over the last few weeks. If you want him to pay more attention to you, you need to let him know. You need to tell him how you are feeling. If you are feeling neglected, if you feel like he doesn't care anymore, or if you want more attention- you need to tell him. He probably doesn't realize what he's doing and he's not going to change unless you bring it up. If he does realize it, then you should question why he is with you.
I understand that you don't want to break up- I definitely wouldn't either. But you need to talk to him and figure out how to make things work so that you are happy. If you are not happy, it is not worth it. So definitely try and talk to him, because it is serious! Tell him exactly what you wrote about the summer, how he would tell you he loves you and stuff. It actually makes me laugh how alike our situation is. I told my boyfriend that it's the like little things that make a big difference. And he's been trying to do the cute little things for me, and I notice he's been trying. Don't expect him to radically change immediately, but as long as you see he's putting an effort in, I would keep him around.
If you like it when he's "all over you," then tell him! COMMUNICATE, GIRL!
I hope everything works out! :)
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and i am 17 and i love him to death but, he gets so mad all the time over little things and i dont know what to do everytime i try and talk to him he gets mad and thinks im trying to start an arguement what do i do? (link)
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I'm literally in the EXACT same situation.. My boyfriend and I will be together (on-and-off) for 4 years this November.
The key is communication. I had my boyfriend over, laid down with him and had a "heart-to-heart." Let him know how you feel. Tell him that you don't like to fighting with him and that it's really bothering you, etc. I really got through to my boyfriend and although it's not nearly where it needs to be, I notice he's been trying- which is all that matters. So, I'd suggest speaking to your boyfriend. But don't expect a dramatic change immediately! It takes time. If you two begin to fight after the talk, just remind him- be like I really don't want to fight with you.
It's have been working for me. I hope it works out for you too!
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Do girls think magicians are hotter than guitarist,drummers and jocks?
Some find them creepy while some find them hot.
What is your take on this?
thanks (link)
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I personally don't go for a boy based on their hobbies, but truthfully, I would prefer a jock/guitarist/drummer. My boyfriend is a "jock" and guitarist.
Although, I don't think magicians are creepy. :-)
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What are some cute ideas to get your boyfriend??? I want somthin' cute but maybe a lil original. Nothing like a pic together but idk. He dances a lot and it abuot always lissening to music.. Im not to great at buying CDS and he has a lot maybe another idea? Please Help!!!
-13/f- (link)
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You can make him a mixtape of all the songs you like, and good dance songs.. or his favorite songs. =]
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