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Q: So I was dating this guy ( we are both 13) and it was going wicked great. Then one day I got a call from one of his friends saying he wanted to break up. Later that night he sent me a instant message saying he was sorry and was hoping we could still be friends I said sure. He asked if I was mad at him and I told him yes. But I don’t know I really wasn’t, I was irritated because just that Friday he had told me he still liked me (something came up and I thought he liked another girl) I sent him one that Monday (that took place on Sunday) and said I was sorry for flipping and yea I hope we can be friends too, but he went on an away message and ignored it completely.. Since then he hasn’t said a word to me. I had said something to him (it was about school, we had to be partners) but he just shook his head. I’ve been really upset since, I’m normally not the kind of girl to cry, but this is the first time this has happened to me and I really can’t help it. I feel unwanted, and I like him so much. I want to go back out with him, but that would be kind of hard because he said he didn’t like me anymore (that’s why he had broken up with me) plus it would be awkward but, as of now I don’t care what its like. Now (I might be a little paranoid) be is flirting with one of his best friend’s girl friends and she is one of those people that would dump her boyfriend for him. She knows I still like him. I talk to her about it, she’s kind of a friend but not best friend. But that doesn’t give her any reason to do this to me, or her boyfriend. I just don’t know what to do. My friends have been understanding and let me talk about it whenever I want but after a while, I have a feeling there going to get tired of this. WHAT DO I DO??? I WANT HIM BACK SO BAD!!! Thank you guys in advance.

Ps. If any guys have any idea what to do I would really appreciate the advice. And the thing I want to know most is how to get him to like me again (I’ll do anything) not that I'm desperate, but I miss him so MUCH!!!
Hey! I am very sorry about you and your boyfriend. THAT IS WHY I AM HERE! I will try and get yall both MoViNg! Ok OK! I see that your friend is flirting with him so you will have to go and get him. What I mean is send him an email, an Im. WAT EVA! and if he ignores you then you go and tell your friend that he should talk to you or tell your boyfriend's friend about his girlfiend flirtin' with her. So yEAh. I am sorry if the advice is hard to follow because I just toke the ELA assesment at school and I am in 7th grade too. I am VERY tired! So there you go!
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Q: okay so, i really like this really hott boy at my school who is in like all of my classes and we always talk and stuff. im always flirting with him but i cant tell if he likes me back or not. i want to ask him out but im scared that if i do and he doesn't like me back then our friendship will be ruined and he is really nice so that would be a bummer. what should i do?
Hey! I have the same problem, but... he and I are still friends but he is always saying "It is all your fault" in a funny way that is. But you should like ask somone to ask him and if he says no and comes to you and ask, you say "no no! I didnt say that." but if it doesnt work then just ask him or dont and still be his friend.
I know... It doesnt make any sense now but it might when you read it again!!
~*jcjenniz987*~

Q: okay so last year i was like pretty popular with a bunch of friends. and this one girl, lets call her layne, we were like best friends. She would steal my sayings and my ideas and use them as her own. Shes a MEAN GIRL..mainly REGINA GEORGE. b/c if she knows you like someone & she likes him too, she gets him ALWAYS. She does this thing..its called flirting...and i cant do that. I've tried to hard to understand & ive tried it, but boys just like her the most. ANYYWAY

This year i only have two good friends. Compare that to last year. Last year everyone wanted to be around me and stuff. YOU KNOW?

is there any advice that helps me get better friends or anything? I want to be fun to be around and i want to have people who want to be around me.
Hey! I had a friend JUST like her when I was in 5th grade and everyone liked her for her butt. I know , and in 7th and 6th grade, everyone would like be with her and she forgot all about me and well.... yeah.
So, I think that u should go and sign up 4 things that the "cool" girls are in and try and B nice and soner or l8ter yall will B friends! ok so try and do that!
~*jcjenniz987*~

Q: ok, so here's my problem.... My name's Nikki and I'm in a relationship with a guy, lets call him john. Me and "john" have been dating for the last couple of months, and i really like him, but the other day, i was at my cousins birthday and he had invited some of his other friends over and there was this one guy there that i started to like, lets call him kyle. but anyway, i dont wanna break up with "john" bcuz he gave me some stuff for christmas and it's really special to me and if we break up, then he'll want it back and he broke up with his old girlfriend to get with me and i dont want to leave him alone, but "john" lives in connecticut and i live in texas, while "kyle" lives in the same zip code as me. and i really like "kyle" and i want to get w/ him, but i'm not sure if i should. and i just kno that john will be really upset and hate me for the rest of my life and we'll probably never talk again, and I might move over the summer and i dont want to miss my chance to get with "kyle". before you send your advice, keep in mind that I DONT WANT TO CHEAT ON ANYONE! please help me.....
~Nikki~
Hey Nikki! I think that you should follow your heart and be with whoever you want to be with. But wat if your heart doesnt know? then I would go with this "kyle" because you want to try new pebbles on the beach not only one pebble. I hope that solves your problem and I think you have a special heart for this kyle and dump the john and get a new one and still be friends wit the john still!
~*jcjenniz987*~

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