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Q: my bf is wonderful. I care for him alot...i don't know about love..but i care for him alot. The thing is, whenever I am with him, like at the movies, or at zoo lights, i love it when we just cuddle. I feel so safe when he has his arms around me and i just sleep on him, or just relax on him. I am not really that much into kissing. His best friend is my guy friend and when i talk to him on the phone, he says that my bf tells him that he likes me alot alot but he wants to kiss me more. So i went to the movies with him yesterday and we saw King Kong. It was like 3 hours. For the first two hours we just cuddled. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him for some reason. I kept on getting texts from my guy friend saying kiss him now, do it now..so i made out with him for like 10 seconds, then i went back to cuddling. is it so wrong to just want to cuddle? i don't understand what is wrong with me, why can't i bring myself to make out with him for a long time?
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well there's nothing wrong with cuddling. i think its really good that you aren't willing to just do something just because of its expected of you. as for why you can't bring yourself to kiss him, there are many possible answers to that. my friend had the same problem and she explained to me that in her situation, kissing is something very intimate and that she has a hard time being close to people, including her boyfriend. maybe kissing for you puts you in a state of akwardness or discomfort. maybe you feel vulnerable allowing a guy who you say you just "care" about to be that close and intimate with you. maybe you're just not ready to go that far into your relationship with him just yet. maybe you're afraid that if you kiss him more often, he'll expect something else. as you can there can be many underlineing reasons as to why you can't bring yourself to kiss your boyfriend. the only real advice i can give is that you take some time to think about all the possible reasons and whatever reason you come up with, talk about it with your boyfriend so he can understand what's going on and not be left in the dark. once again, i respect the fact that you're taking it slow and you're being pressured to do things you don't want to. i hope everything works out =)
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Q: How Are You Sure A Guy Likes You?
i rate high!
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there's no correct answer or solution. you can never really know whether or not he likes you. thats the beauty of life. its full of suspense and mystery. if you knew if a guy liked you, you'd be able to read minds and then you wouldn't need this advice and you'd prolly use your new super poser for other things. there's are some minor hints and indications as to when a guy likes you but you can't always rely on them because all guy have different ways of showing a girl that he like her. here are some signs that guys use to show interest for girls.
he comes close to you
he tries to make you laugh
he asks you questions
he tries to make you talk about yourself
he asks for your phone number or Email
he tries to demonstrate in the conversation his men's qualities
he's trying to sell himself (sports, work, wealth... )
he offers help
he gives you a compliment
he blushes when you talk to him
you see he gets nervous when you're around
he's nervous while talking to you (hands, eyes, voice...usually you can notice because he's doing too much
he plays with an object (cigarette, pen, glass...)
he can't help looking at you, and when you look at him: he suddenly looks in another direction
he can't help making eye-contact with you
he reveals his feelings in a disguised way, and say: just kidding
he tries to be with you
he offers you something
he makes an effort with his outfit
he tries to be more hansome (hairdresser, new clothes, shoes, watch...)
he fakes jealousy for fun
he invites you indirectly or he suggests any activity
he likes to borrow anything from you, (typex, pen, rubber, clothes...)
when there's nothing left for you, he says: you can take mine
he asks you for help when he could ask somebody else
he likes your firstname and likes to pronounce it
he likes your clothes
he wants to be with you
he wants to hear your voice
he touches you accidentally or gently (arm, shoulder, hand...)
he likes to be close to you or in your space
he's usually looking at you
he's looking at you when leaving a room
he gazes in your eyes with love
remember these may not always apply. life is unpredictable that way. hope that helped!
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Q: is it alright to have a crush on an actor as long as you dont go bananas??? like a small one not too serious??? i feel guilty because i do>>>> sorry that this question is properly punctuated> the shift key has suddenly been deactivated
:) hollis
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its quite natural to have certain admirations or crushes on celebrities. many people go through a deep fascination with famous people. haven't you seen the many screaming fans at concerts or shows? as long as you admire from a distance everthing is ok. it only become a serious problem if you start to stalk them or something. but either than that by all means go ahead and have a crush. heck, i have a crush on many actors. so enjoy having a crush on an actor of for anyone for that matter, there's no harm in doing so. =)
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Toronto, Ontario Occupation: Full-time Student Age: 16 Member Since: August 24, 2005 Answers: 17 Last Update: December 31, 2005 Visitors: 2307
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